FabSwingers.com forum: Going wrong somewhere

By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow/glasgow green

Awryt well this is just directed at all of fab basically and not to sound fucked up but what's wrong with my profile and more to say I'm not the nicest piece in the window but I take care of myself quite well with my two boys so here's the question what's up with my profile or even me ??

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

No public pics

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

And the profile

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

For a start you’ve only got friends only photos. I imagine most women will see that and toddle off to someone else who has public pics. Doesn’t have to be face included pics but at the moment they can only see an avatar of just your abs, which not all women are into.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

And there's a pandemic on, so people shouldn't be meeting strangers for intimacy. Maybe you didn't hear?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Is that the washing drying in the background?

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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow/glasgow green

Yeah fair play there and just gave a try at that public pics

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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow/glasgow green

"Is that the washing drying in the background?"

What pic lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Is that the washing drying in the background?"

If so do you wear pink pjs?

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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow/glasgow green

"Is that the washing drying in the background?

What pic lol"

PM me

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I would agree with the lack of photos, one or two visible ones might help.

I'd say maybe add some punctuation into your profile to make it easier to read. Maybe add in likes and dislikes etc too.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"And there's a pandemic on, so people shouldn't be meeting strangers for intimacy. Maybe you didn't hear?"

Not the point at all, plenty are meeting for socials which is perfectly legit.

The other thing OP is that as a man on fab, you’ll be unlikely to get that many women messaging you first as there’s way more guys than there are women. Lots of people vying for the same attention.

You’ll most likely have to see the profiles out that you like yourself and send a decent first message With a face pic to get noticed.

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

Use a full stop. Both your original question and personal description are single, long sentences. I can't be bothered reading them because I can't work out where one thought starts and another stops. Where the hell am I supposed to breath?

Bit basic, but humans like a few grammatical devices to communicate. Lacking them makes you appear extremely uneducated.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Is that the washing drying in the background?

If so do you wear pink pjs?"

Snoopy ones too

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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow/glasgow green

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was single on here lack public pics would put me off

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Is that the washing drying in the background?"

Classic. Good spot.

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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow/glasgow green

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

"Is that the washing drying in the background?

If so do you wear pink pjs?"

Pink PJ' s are the thing

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Is that the washing drying in the background?

If so do you wear pink pjs?

yeah sorta but my wee boys are my life n they love that we match haha"

I’d retake that photo without the pink PJs in by the way. You’ll forever be getting asked if they’re your wife/girlfriends, and it’s a valid question.

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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow/glasgow green

Yeah got that off

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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow/glasgow green

Been on my own with the boys for last 2years now

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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow/glasgow green

"I would agree with the lack of photos, one or two visible ones might help.

I'd say maybe add some punctuation into your profile to make it easier to read. Maybe add in likes and dislikes etc too.

Hey thanks for the tips

Anything else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah got that off "

It's in your profile pic

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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow/glasgow green

"Yeah got that off

It's in your profile pic

Lol been sorted mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This might just be me but as soon as I see the sentence 'I don't bite' I'm put off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This might just be me but as soon as I see the sentence 'I don't bite' I'm put off."

Yeah me too but I think it's because it's so overused on here

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Take a look at your profile and ask yourself does it truly reflect you and what you're looking for from the site, and more to the point what you think you can offer? Is it generic and much like every other guys profile or does it stand out? Would you want to message/meet you if you read your profile?

Be honest and if you answer no to any of those, make changes accordingly.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"This might just be me but as soon as I see the sentence 'I don't bite' I'm put off."

Me too as quite like a man who bites.

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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow/glasgow green

"This might just be me but as soon as I see the sentence 'I don't bite' I'm put off.

Me too as quite like a man who bites."

Yeah pm my way hunni

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What is above your nipple ? Gaffer tape ? A moth ?

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By *llReal19 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow/glasgow green

"What is above your nipple ? Gaffer tape ? A moth ?"

What pic lol

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"What is above your nipple ? Gaffer tape ? A moth ?"

Label of tshirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You live in Glasgow where I know there's at least one swingers club - CJs. Why not find a night that allows single men and try there? When it reopens if it isn't already open.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"Use a full stop. Both your original question and personal description are single, long sentences. I can't be bothered reading them because I can't work out where one thought starts and another stops. Where the hell am I supposed to breath?

Bit basic, but humans like a few grammatical devices to communicate. Lacking them makes you appear extremely uneducated. "

This...If I can't see proper sentences/grammar or 'text speak' it puts me off the profile unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It didn't tell me much about what you like /dislike and want to get out of fab... A general 'looking to meet women' is too broad for me

Agree with the punctuation comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It didn't tell me much about what you like /dislike and want to get out of fab... A general 'looking to meet women' is too broad for me

Agree with the punctuation comments"

It appeers quite a few peeple can’t stand speeling errors on pro files. Punkchewation also riles em. Fix that and you’ll wallow in vag.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Seem angry..

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Someone needs to watch a certain series of tutorial vids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It didn't tell me much about what you like /dislike and want to get out of fab... A general 'looking to meet women' is too broad for me

Agree with the punctuation comments

It appeers quite a few peeple can’t stand speeling errors on pro files. Punkchewation also riles em. Fix that and you’ll wallow in vag."

I doubt it but you are one step closer... Not sure why you'd not remove all potential barriers??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brace yourselves! The grammar police is coming.. Sex is with pen and paper and a spelling mistakes ruins the orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'I don't bite well not too hard'

One of the worst lines used on this site.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There are literally hundreds of threads on profile advice excetera if you search the forums you will find lots of help, of course it's down to the individual whether they take the advice on board or not.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Brace yourselves! The grammar police is coming.. Sex is with pen and paper and a spelling mistakes ruins the orgasm."

Ha ha ha

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Awryt well this is just directed at all of fab basically and not to sound fucked up but what's wrong with my profile and more to say I'm not the nicest piece in the window but I take care of myself quite well with my two boys so here's the question what's up with my profile or even me ?? "
. Single guys that can’t accommodate can find it hard on Fabs no matter how genuine the reason is.You need to add more on your profile with regards to what you are looking for from Fabs and what you have to offer.About a year and a half ago I reformatted my profile and I asked for advice the response I got back was positive.You are quite welcome to have a look and decide for yourself.Best of luck with Fabs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your profile is 50% covering why you can't meet quickly and that your priority is your kids. That's an unchallegeable position.

The other 50% doesn't sell you. It doesn't include what you bring or want from interaction with others.

Basically, man wants woman.

Which is what the majority of people here are and wants from the site. To stand out from all of those others, you've probably got to give an impression that is truly distinctive and that will make a large proportion of the people viewing you to want to probably be interested in meeting you.

Assuming that most people who possibly like you won't in the end actually agree to have sex with you, because there's not full mutual attraction, you've got to get many of them first to want you.

At present there's not much in your profile that would give people much understanding of you, even before they may be able to be attacked to you.

The virus situation has made it incredibly difficult for everyone here - and single men especially - to get interest and involvement with others. Just that will have made it closer to impossible for most people. As most people aren't meeting, it gives us all a big chance to get to know others, for when we see that it's acceptable to meet. Some won't meet even socially.

Sieze the potential for others to get to know you and likewise you them.

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