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"Someone on this site is reporting everything I do to someone in the vanilla world, apart from deleting my account what can I do?" Do you know who it is? | |||
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"No I don’t know who it is but the vanilla person has confirmed it but won’t tell me who" That's such a crappy thing to do, tell you but not tell you who it is | |||
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"Someone on this site is reporting everything I do to someone in the vanilla world, apart from deleting my account what can I do?" Depends on what you are hiding of coarse for this someone on the vanila side of it to be reporting back to them. as goes for the other person its a different matter as they are on here for the same thing. otherwise they wouldnt be here unless they actually know you are on here. female friends or is it a male friend thats spouting you could always try a trap to find out who but they would still be able to get on here anyway so not much you could do about it. whatever you got to hide its either come clean so they cant say anything else or delete the account. | |||
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"Someone on this site is reporting everything I do to someone in the vanilla world, apart from deleting my account what can I do?" That's nasty and nobody needs that grief. Is there a chance that the vanilla person is actually the same person as the spy on here? You have two options really. Close the account or get your vanilla "friend" to Spill the beans. I suppose 3rd option is to hide profile for a while and hope they get bored but as soon as you activate it again you run the risk they will start hassling you again. Good luck with it. | |||
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"This has all sorts of potential!" Suggestions on a postcard please | |||
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"I’m not changing anything, I can deal with the consequences, it just fu.ks me off that someone on here doing the same as everyone else and probably has something to hide himself would do that" Because they are saddo’s, they’re probably not getting much luck in vanilla life or on here...who knows | |||
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"I wouldn't be seeing someone that had someone spying on me and not tell me who tbh... They are no friend " That’s exactly what I said when I told him goodbye lol | |||
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"No I don’t know who it is but the vanilla person has confirmed it but won’t tell me who" Are you sure the vanilla person isn’t really the person that’s on here themselves ?? I mean if they know it’s upset you why on earth would they not tell you who was doing this ? Just my thoughts .... | |||
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"The vanilla person is a guy ive been seeing, I’ve been 100% honest about what I do and obviously he doesn’t like it . It’s not him on here it’s a friend of his that’s on here. I just think it’s creepy and disgusting that someone on here who should understand about genuine swingers and the need for discretion could stoop that low " The same could be said about yourself if your seeing someone in the vanila world should have gone incognitto. So you could speak to your friends on here. If it was other way around you ladies would be up in arms about it another man cheating ... | |||
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"The vanilla person is a guy ive been seeing, I’ve been 100% honest about what I do and obviously he doesn’t like it . It’s not him on here it’s a friend of his that’s on here. I just think it’s creepy and disgusting that someone on here who should understand about genuine swingers and the need for discretion could stoop that low The same could be said about yourself if your seeing someone in the vanila world should have gone incognitto. So you could speak to your friends on here. If it was other way around you ladies would be up in arms about it another man cheating ... " I’m not cheating, I might be a swinger but that doesn’t make me a whore. I was on fab before I met him, I told him straight away and he said he could handle it. I also said I didn’t think I could be so understanding if roles were reversed. He had no need to spy, | |||
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"I think your profile is great and your pictures are classy, so sod them and just enjoy what you do. It's no ones business if your on here your not hurting anyone so let it be there problem not yours. Well that's what I think anyway." Ty for the support | |||
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"The vanilla person is a guy ive been seeing, I’ve been 100% honest about what I do and obviously he doesn’t like it . It’s not him on here it’s a friend of his that’s on here. I just think it’s creepy and disgusting that someone on here who should understand about genuine swingers and the need for discretion could stoop that low " It's much more likely that the person who knows you're on here and doesn't like it is the person who's on here. The "friend" doesn't exist, he's trying to shame you into stopping which is coercive and controlling. | |||
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"Don't put any statuses up and consider that your vanilla friend might have joined fab to look at your profile." That’s the most likely thing. | |||
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"I wouldn't be seeing someone that had someone spying on me and not tell me who tbh... They are no friend That’s exactly what I said when I told him goodbye lol" Good on ya gal! | |||
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"Are you sure it's not the vanilla who is also the "spy"" Definitely not, I have a name now although not profile name | |||
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"I’ve put the shout out to the spy that I might just tell his other half he’s on here, I’d never do that but wouldn’t hurt him to squirm a bit lol" | |||
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"I’m not changing anything, I can deal with the consequences, it just fu.ks me off that someone on here doing the same as everyone else and probably has something to hide himself would do that" Probably someone you've said no to and is married without partner knowing they are on fab. | |||
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"Ty for all the replies, I did feel bad for putting him through it but he knew the score, he’s a grown man and made his own decisions. However it’s irrelevant now as I’ve told him goodbye" Well done he should have told the “spy” to get lost in the first place and then supported you . X | |||
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"I’m not changing anything, I can deal with the consequences, it just fu.ks me off that someone on here doing the same as everyone else and probably has something to hide himself would do that" You could tell one of his vanilla friends, what's sauce for the goose.... | |||
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"Someone on this site is reporting everything I do to someone in the vanilla world, apart from deleting my account what can I do?" It could be your friend, sorry to say ... if not get he’s legs broken and see what happens after | |||
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"And if the guy you are seeing won't back you up, I would question if he's good enough for you. " I think it was him that asked the guy to spy. But you’re right and I’ve got rid | |||
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"I’ve put the shout out to the spy that I might just tell his other half he’s on here, I’d never do that but wouldn’t hurt him to squirm a bit lol" Just hope he aint reading this thread.. as you "wont carry it out".. so he knows he is safe.. Dont give the game away in a public forum.. | |||
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"I’ve put the shout out to the spy that I might just tell his other half he’s on here, I’d never do that but wouldn’t hurt him to squirm a bit lol Just hope he aint reading this thread.. as you "wont carry it out".. so he knows he is safe.. Dont give the game away in a public forum.." Fair point but the option is always there | |||
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"No I don’t know who it is but the vanilla person has confirmed it but won’t tell me who" Could it be the vanilla person doing it and pretending someone is telling them | |||
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