FabSwingers.com forum: what have women got against facial hair on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have facial hair, before you ask not a full on zz top! Just some stubble seems to put people right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have noticed that too oh and ANY form of tattoo etc. I am also not ZZ top either but I would not match peoples requirements.

To pre empt everyone, again this just a personal preference thing.

However it seems that women/couples are okay to impose all kinds of restrictions on blokes, but if a bloke says "no pubic hair, slim only etc" they get labelled as fussy and too picky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find stubble a bit off putting as it can chafe a girl rather!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

least with stubble it can be shaved very quickly and then return to normal after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me!! I love facial hair

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I like the look of some facial hair on some men but if it gets near my face I will come out in a rash. I can cope with the slight redness on other parts of my body but not my face as I never know when my photo might be taken in a work situation.

Frankly, I prefer to meet people who are a little discerning and know what they like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I refuse to shave it off don't see why I should change for someone. Don't think they would for me. Everyone has preferences that's true just wondering if other people had the same problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh missed the tats bit & love them 2!!

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

For me i wont meet guys with facial hair/stubble as it really upsets my skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a fair point, maybe should state that in the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like the feel of sand paper rubbing against my more sensitive parts as they are very sensitive!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I refuse to shave it off don't see why I should change for someone. Don't think they would for me. Everyone has preferences that's true just wondering if other people had the same problem

Nor should you - it is your identity. Men often ask me for their preferences but if it doesn't meet mine then it's a no-go. There is nothing wrong with making a reasonable request but everything wrong with getting stroppy with you if you say no. Stick to your guns.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

My partner has a close-shaved beard and there's nothing scratchy about it (I love it). I have had problems with guy's stubble in the past though and one one occasion has a rash moustache for 2 days....not a good look

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Why do people concentrate on those they DON'T appeal to, opposed to those they do?!! I seriously don't get it. Is it a kind of arrogance? Only they are allowed personal preferences, but they are so highly desirable how dare anyone not meet them?!!

I also notice the snide comments: some have the attitudes of petulant brats. If they can't disguise their ugly attitudes on an open forum you can imagine what their personal messages are like.

Grow up some of you, accept what most grown ups do: no one has universal appeal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stubble looks sexy.... but it feck'n hurts! I don't a big red face after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me i wont meet guys with facial hair/stubble as it really upsets my skin.

I don't get this kind of viewpoint from guys? Guess it's because they've never been on the recieving end of what feels like a scouring pad on your chin/inner thigh!

To those that don't understand why women don't like it - don't shave for a day or two then rub the inside of your wrist up and down your chin a dozen times - you'll soon understand!

A shave takes 5 mins FFS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again the same with me, skin irritation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like facial hair and tattoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooooo, i like a bit of facial hair, it tickles the inner thigh

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"For me i wont meet guys with facial hair/stubble as it really upsets my skin.

I don't get this kind of viewpoint from guys? Guess it's because they've never been on the recieving end of what feels like a scouring pad on your chin/inner thigh!

To those that don't understand why women don't like it - don't shave for a day or two then rub the inside of your wrist up and down your chin a dozen times - you'll soon understand!

A shave takes 5 mins FFS!

I don't mind the look of stubble on a man (it can look quite sexy on SOME guys), but if I ever encountered anyone with it, I look like I've been beaten with a bunch of stinging nettles afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats a fair point, maybe should state that in the profile?"

Great selling point: "if you have facial hair we won't meet because the missus will rash up after kissing you"

Flattering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I should add - although i've a wee bit of stubble in my pic - always comes off prior to meets - and is smooth as a babies bum - much like the inner thigh it hopes to encounter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess I should add - although i've a wee bit of stubble in my pic - always comes off prior to meets - and is smooth as a babies bum - much like the inner thigh it hopes to encounter!

Thanks for the clarification, as I was just about to post something in the line of pot kettle are all black etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must add that some gents look fabulous with a stubble, the designer Tom Ford is one such gent, such a shame that he is gay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me i wont meet guys with facial hair/stubble as it really upsets my skin.

I don't get this kind of viewpoint from guys? Guess it's because they've never been on the recieving end of what feels like a scouring pad on your chin/inner thigh!

To those that don't understand why women don't like it - don't shave for a day or two then rub the inside of your wrist up and down your chin a dozen times - you'll soon understand!

A shave takes 5 mins FFS!

I see, everyone should shave their beard, tach, goatee, stubble as it takes 5 mins???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats a fair point, maybe should state that in the profile?

Great selling point: "if you have facial hair we won't meet because the missus will rash up after kissing you"

Flattering

I guess my point is that it shows you are not discriminating based on facial hair, just you have a bad experience in the past!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me i wont meet guys with facial hair/stubble as it really upsets my skin.

I don't get this kind of viewpoint from guys? Guess it's because they've never been on the recieving end of what feels like a scouring pad on your chin/inner thigh!

To those that don't understand why women don't like it - don't shave for a day or two then rub the inside of your wrist up and down your chin a dozen times - you'll soon understand!

A shave takes 5 mins FFS!

I see, everyone should shave their beard, tach, goatee, stubble as it takes 5 mins???

Nope - like everything it's down to personal choice - but most ladies i've met really aren't keen on having to leave verifications stating "His face rubbed my lips raw and left me itching for days!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't as Mrs Mained does have sensitive skin and facial hair doesnt help, but as with all these things it's peoples personal choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love facial hair designer stubble etc and love a hairy chest legs and balls, hate all this shaved pristine look its awful!!

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By *tensonSwingersCouple
over a year ago

Stenson Fields

Interestingly, the only member of ZZ Top that doesn't have the trademark long facial fuzz, is a guy called Frank Beard!

Back to the OP....its a personal choice, like every other. If it bothers you or restricts your meets, shave it off....simple. We don't like facial hair anymore than fully thatched wiry-pubed genitalia. It's simply a personal preference. Whether it be for hygiene, aesthetics, or any other reason, its a preference and no-one is under any obligation to explain them. Accept everyone is different and enjoy life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm I prefer men with facial hair (not bushy), tats and piercings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with most of the posts about the facial hair scratching like hell on sensitive parts.. But it is a preference. Some like it some dont. Its only like when the guys ask ladies to dress in sexy underwear, stockings etc.. I do dress sexily when i can but realy hate anyone asking me to do this.. I never ask a man to wear clothes that i like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know that it's stubble that put people off? It could be anything. Somepeople prefer stocky builds, or tall people. or VWE, or brunettes etc etc.

I don't like blokes that use pics where a female has clearly been cut off the side. That just seems terribly indiscreet. I don't like blokes with 6 packs. I prefer to meet blokes that are taller than me.

It doesn't make me a bad person, just what I like. Same as other people have said really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its called having a choice. you dont have to shave it off and people dont have to meet you.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I have facial hair, before you ask not a full on zz top! Just some stubble seems to put people right off. "

Different things put different people off.....can't please everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people concentrate on those they DON'T appeal to, opposed to those they do?!! I seriously don't get it. Is it a kind of arrogance? Only they are allowed personal preferences, but they are so highly desirable how dare anyone not meet them?!!

I also notice the snide comments: some have the attitudes of petulant brats. If they can't disguise their ugly attitudes on an open forum you can imagine what their personal messages are like.

Grow up some of you, accept what most grown ups do: no one has universal appeal!

Happy father's day one and all

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Stubble looks sexy.... but it feck'n hurts! I don't a big red face after

Agrees

Ended up losing several layers of skin off my delicate parts once

Must admit I wasn't complaining at the time but the next morning it hurt like hell and looked awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interestingly, the only member of ZZ Top that doesn't have the trademark long facial fuzz, is a guy called Frank Beard!"

thats one of my favourite bits of trivia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I have an aversion to WOMEN with facial hair, but I am prepared to be accommodating...... and bring 'em a razor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think its called having a choice. you dont have to shave it off and people dont have to meet you."

Agree with That xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just condition it problem solv ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stubble looks sexy.... but it feck'n hurts! I don't a big red face after

Agrees

Ended up losing several layers of skin off my delicate parts once

Several layers?????????

That's some unbelievable tekkers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stubble looks sexy.... but it feck'n hurts! I don't a big red face after

you're so selfish for not taking the big red face to make a man happy

Love a bit of facial hair as long as it's soft.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Stubble looks sexy.... but it feck'n hurts! I don't a big red face after

Agrees

Ended up losing several layers of skin off my delicate parts once

Several layers?????????

That's some unbelievable tekkers."

OK several layers might be a slight exaggeration

more like couple but it still hurt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't shave my pubes on a man's say-so, so it would be more than a touch arrogant to demand that a man shaved his chin for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs love a short stubble on me, but for meets i tend to clean shave unless i know the lady doesnt mind x

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Designer" stubble is fine with me (although I guess a full on pash sesh might be a bit uncomfortable after a while - dunno, never tried it

) but full on beard or moustache - no thank you.

I just don't find it attractive. Some do, but not for me ta

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By *thyorksCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

Mrs is not keen on facial hair as it does iritate & chaff her down there,as we have found out when i have had a few days growth..

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

i havent any issue with any guy choosing to have facial hair . i have met afew who have facial hair and never declined a meet due to it . i also have no issue with anyone who doesnt like it ,horses for courses as they say .

as folks say why focus on the ppl who dont wish to meet you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it makes me look like a Russian shot-putter so I have to have a bleach and wax and pluck every now and then

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By *weetcheekstooWoman
over a year ago

southampton

i love a clean shaven man so sexy dont mind a very short goatie sometimes too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not keen on facial hair myself but dont shave it off, noone on here is worth changing yourself for its just sex you be who you are

I find a lot of guys dont like my hood piercing and have been asked quite a few times if i would remove it if we met and my answer is always no

People either take you for what you are or go find someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with a little facial hair as long as it's not too rough

In fact, I think it's quite sexy

Much better than pubic hair any day

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I like the look of stubble

but find that I'm another one who can end up with snoggers rash after an encounter. This can lead to interesting questions form the babysitter - especially if I've been out by myself without my husband!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I dont have anything against anyone with facial hair but i just dont like it thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks scruffy and unkempt. Turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love face fuzz on a guy! Its a real manly thing for me I instantly think I want to leave juices in that bad boy :p

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I bloody LOVE a hirsute face. I can oft be found browsing the web pages of the british beard club. It's like porn to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind facial hair unless its on a woman

nor do I mind tattoos, nor long hair either

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

I know two guys with what I class as a close shaven beard. Always lovely and soft. Don't think I could cope with full beard tho. No more than some men hate a forest on a lady.

Tattoos, again if they are well done and not too obtrusive, then they can look good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmmmmmmmmmmmm I love a man with a hairy face and so do my nipples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind facial hair unless its on a woman

nor do I mind tattoos, nor long hair either

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By *witch mix vanillaCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Don't like the feel of sand paper rubbing against my more sensitive parts as they are very sensitive!

Snap.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bloody LOVE a hirsute face. I can oft be found browsing the web pages of the british beard club. It's like porn to me."
I haven't shaved for a couple of days. Just thought I'd mention it.

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

"I bloody LOVE a hirsute face. I can oft be found browsing the web pages of the british beard club. It's like porn to me."
hi there, wanna come up and see my itchings?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I bloody LOVE a hirsute face. I can oft be found browsing the web pages of the british beard club. It's like porn to me.I haven't shaved for a couple of days. Just thought I'd mention it.

...and how does F like the feel of that?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I bloody LOVE a hirsute face. I can oft be found browsing the web pages of the british beard club. It's like porn to me. hi there, wanna come up and see my itchings?

Go on, grow a full set, you know you want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bloody LOVE a hirsute face. I can oft be found browsing the web pages of the british beard club. It's like porn to me.I haven't shaved for a couple of days. Just thought I'd mention it.

...and how does F like the feel of that?"
Not very much at all.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I bloody LOVE a hirsute face. I can oft be found browsing the web pages of the british beard club. It's like porn to me.I haven't shaved for a couple of days. Just thought I'd mention it.

...and how does F like the feel of that?Not very much at all."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women with facial hair, now that aint a good look especially when they have a full on ZZ Top!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have facial hair, before you ask not a full on zz top! Just some stubble seems to put people right off. "

Facial hair is for Grizzly Adams and smelly hippies and bikers only

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Facial hair is for Grizzly Adams and smelly hippies and bikers only

'My name is Fornix and I am a hippy'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facial hair is for Grizzly Adams and smelly hippies and bikers only

'My name is Fornix and I am a hippy'"

Hi fornix, I'll make sure to bring you some moustache wax the next time I'm down then

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Now you know it's not my 'tasche you have to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now you know it's not my 'tasche you have to worry about. "

What is it then? Not the bruised vulva again?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

She's a delicate minge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's a delicate minge.

It's a good job you didn't accidently put an r on the end of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A small amount of facial hair I am okay with.. and in fact a little bit of stubble can be a turn on..

but full facial hair.. is a big no no.. prehaps for me because my dad has always had one... I dont know.. but it just does nothing for me.

Cali

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton

As someone whose face gets like sandpaper just a few hours after shaving I think I have caused more red faces without a beard than when I have had a one in the past - when it's longer it is soft not scratchy.

One say facial hair will be trendy again and all those who are easily influenced by trends will fancy guys with big soup-strainers again - anyone remember the early 70s? Likewise for pubes, it's just a trend. All those who say "ugh, not a full bush!" would have been kind of people who said "ugh, not shaved pubes, how pervy!" 30 years ago.

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