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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, I'm new to the swinging world and have arranged my first meet. Just wondered if anyone had any advice or tips.

Thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As no one any helpful advice for a newbie?

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

What sort of advice are you after? In general, test out like a date - arrive on time, best clothes, best attitude, and be relaxed.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Is it a social? Then treat it like a low key date

Is a sex meet? Then take condoms etc

But most importantly just relax and be your self either way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It will be a social I'm just very near as this will be my first time.

Thank you for all your advice it is appreciated.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Just relax and enjoy

And if your not enjoying then make some lavish excuse to leave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just relax and enjoy

And if your not enjoying then make some lavish excuse to leave "
Great I will and again thank you your a star.x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Just talk about normal things. Be natural. Don't be letchy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just talk about normal things. Be natural. Don't be letchy. "
thanks Rocketqueen I'll try and just be.myself and go with the flow x

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Like everyone has said..... just be yourself. And be a gentleman and offer her a drink!

Seriously though, just read the situation and follow her lead.

Good luck op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like everyone has said..... just be yourself. And be a gentleman and offer her a drink!

Seriously though, just read the situation and follow her lead.

Good luck op "

Everyone on here is great and so helpful thank you all and stay safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And defo no pawing when not invited big no no

Smile and relax and remember to breathe...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And defo no pawing when not invited big no no

Smile and relax and remember to breathe... "
I'll just be a gentleman x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Like everyone has said..... just be yourself. And be a gentleman and offer her a drink!

Seriously though, just read the situation and follow her lead.

Good luck op

Everyone on here is great and so helpful thank you all and stay safe x"

Hope it goes well, it can be difficult for single guys. Going with the flow is always good. You'll know if she likes you or not when you offer her a second drink.

After don't ask if she'd like to meet you again, that can be really awkward if she doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like everyone has said..... just be yourself. And be a gentleman and offer her a drink!

Seriously though, just read the situation and follow her lead.

Good luck op

Everyone on here is great and so helpful thank you all and stay safe x

Hope it goes well, it can be difficult for single guys. Going with the flow is always good. You'll know if she likes you or not when you offer her a second drink.

After don't ask if she'd like to meet you again, that can be really awkward if she doesn't. "
excellent piece of advice thank you x

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By *FuckingDelightWoman
over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

Just normal conversation - don’t be launching straight in with sex talk!

Make sure you smell delicious and have brushed & flossed your teeth (in case of kissing )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just normal conversation - don’t be launching straight in with sex talk!

Make sure you smell delicious and have brushed & flossed your teeth (in case of kissing )"

Thank you for your advice I always brush my teeth and make sure I smell nice before I leave the house x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Just make sure you have a good chat with the person you are meeting and simply go to flow and there is no pressure at all. Good luck

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"Just normal conversation - don’t be launching straight in with sex talk!

Make sure you smell delicious and have brushed & flossed your teeth (in case of kissing )

Thank you for your advice I always brush my teeth and make sure I smell nice before I leave the house x"

And don’t forget to wash your wang incase you get lucky. No one likes a stinky winky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just normal conversation - don’t be launching straight in with sex talk!

Make sure you smell delicious and have brushed & flossed your teeth (in case of kissing )

Thank you for your advice I always brush my teeth and make sure I smell nice before I leave the house x

And don’t forget to wash your wang incase you get lucky. No one likes a stinky winky "

Haha great advice x

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