FabSwingers.com forum: How to get the girl you’re after

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone got any advice on dating?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm no expert but if she likes you she likes you and if she doesn't well...she doesn't. Approach her, ask if she would like to meet up for a drink and take it from there. That's how it used to happen for me anyway.

Good luck,

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

Depends. Where is she? Here or real life?

Very different scenarios!!!

Actually, don’t listen to me, single for two years. Doubt I know what I’m talking about.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Dating or swinging?

2 different things!

Are you looking for a swinging relationship or a FWB? Or are you looking for a vanilla relationship? If it’s vanilla, would you be giving up swinging, or doing that on the side?

Figure out what you’re after first - if you already have a girl in mind, does she fit with what you want?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was gonna swing until dating then stop

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Live your life as you want, enjoying yourself and making yourself available to others. Get to the right environments to meet others who may match your needs. Don't obsess and over-focus on finding the 1 but be available. Be prepared to be honest in future about how you have lived

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I was gonna swing until dating then stop "

If you enjoy swinging, would you be happy going to a monogamous relationship?

I know I couldn’t be in a relationship if swinging was off the table!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rule 1: Be attractive

Rule 2: Don't be unattractive

Rule 3: Being psychic wouldn't hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rule 1: Be attractive

Rule 2: Don't be unattractive

Rule 3: Being psychic wouldn't hurt"

All good valid rules but being ugly I’ve always used humor and not being a greedy lover which is ok when it’s going well but can be a bit of a strain when your lover leaves their husband which luckily has only happened three times to me personally.

Best of luck op.

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Just be yourself, you’ll find the other half or what you are looking for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep swiping right until something comes up. Put up a puppy photo too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was gonna swing until dating then stop "

Easier said than done.

Swinging is very addictive

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