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By *weetnjuicycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

We’re gonna give it a go — any tips ?—- fingers or a toy ?

Is it as good as they say ?—- blow job at the same time ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We’re gonna give it a go — any tips ?—- fingers or a toy ?

Is it as good as they say ?—- blow job at the same time ? Xx"

Its fucking amazing, if she has long fingers then yeah, lube and feel for the round thingy. Otherwise a good toy will do. Get ready to blow harder than ever before!

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By *unguy_4_uMan
over a year ago

Oadby

well lubed finger/s!!

Much better than a toy and she should be able to stimulate you better.

enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Retro and I both love it... She says she can feel the strength of me coming much more and therefor an even bigger turn on for her, and an awesome feeling for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn to play the harmonica and you'll be fine .

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

First of all- make sure you're as clean there as you can be. Use good lube - if using a toy, make sure you don't use lube containing silicone as it will damage the toy. Water-based lube is safer but less slippery and dries up faster.

Secondly, make sure you communicate with your partner. There are loads of nerve endings in the anus and it's quite easy for things to go from pleasurable to not so. Be honest how it feels for you as not everyone enjoys the sensation. Some men feel nothing, whereas for others it can be a mind-blowing experience.

Relax, don't rush, but also be prepared for some mess even if you cleaned yourself well.

Start with something small, like a finger or, if you're going for toys, go for a thin butt plug or anal beads.

And have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best orgasms ever . I find fingers the best .

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By *aughtychopsCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

Mr likes to be as clean as possible before we P play he has a squirty washing thing that he uses before having a shower .... I used to play with his cock at same time but we’ve actually learnt that by solely focusing on the p spot with no touching has given him some very intense orgasms with no touching of his cock! It’s taken a while to get there and isn’t a given just depends on mood and feelings .... whoever’s helping you out should get some safety goggles Enjoy the exploration and like I said it wasn’t instant but persevere with the p spot xx

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By *melfCouple
over a year ago

Stoneybridge

Melf had three fingers up me on Saturday while sucking my cock. Almost drowned her in precum. So fucking good.

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By *weetnjuicycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Definitely gonna give it a go — ordered a very slim toy off amazon — kinda excited lol

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By *weetnjuicycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

3 fingers not gonna happen straight off — lol

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Get one of the aneros toys it will blow your mind

T

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By *melfCouple
over a year ago

Stoneybridge


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3 fingers not gonna happen straight off — lol"

You say that now but it wont be long til you're begging for a second finger or bigger toy

Get a double ended dildo. So much fun and adventure to be had...

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By *outhbucksCouple
over a year ago

Great Missenden

The real thing is SO much better than a toy

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By *weetnjuicycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Thanks for all the advice- toy on order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers definitely, use gloves if you can.

Trimmed nails plenty of lube.

Fingers in a beckoning motion come hither style x

Check some vids on how to locate prostate.

Experience of a lifetime, you have such a treat in store x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried it sob sob

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By *rith47Man
over a year ago

Erith

Just be extra clean. Lay on your back, Loads of lube, take it slow. Once relaxed try a middle finger. Go as far in as possible and rub. Once you find your gland you will know.

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By *rith47Man
over a year ago

Erith

Ps make sure you have a finger thrusting as you cum. You will love it. Arse orgasms are amazing.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

There’s some fantastic advice in here already, my advice would be to relax and communicate with your partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s pretty good a finger up there or a toy which is tapered, lube and relax, or get him to slip his own finger in to get used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealous. Much spurting will be done

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I've been told the feeling takes a bit to get used to. So don't be disheartened if first time doesn't result in orgasm. I've had a couple of guys ask to stop first time, but on subsequent occasions they've loved it and said it is by far the most intense orgasm ever.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky, lucky men, Wetpatch

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I have been fortuitous to have had a massage, but a couple of times, combined with amazing oral sex. I do also enjoy prostate fun when on my own .... but it’s not quite the same.

It was without a doubt the most mind blowing orgasms I have ever had .... I almost fainted!

I’d love to replicate that experience again with the right lady or couple xxxx

R xxx

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud


"Lucky, lucky men, Wetpatch"

Lucky me having someone prepared to let me play so intimately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lucky, lucky men, Wetpatch

Lucky me having someone prepared to let me play so intimately. "

You could have my virgin ass any time.....shame your the other side of the world

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By *allBristolManMan
over a year ago

nowhere

I LOVE it. But finding someone to do it with not so much luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lucky, lucky men, Wetpatch

Lucky me having someone prepared to let me play so intimately. "

I think the blend of intimacy and vulnerability works towards the undeniable pleasure pangs.

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By *amand1985Man
over a year ago

glasgow


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I REALLY REALLY LOVE prostate play whilst being sucked off. Definitely THE best and most intense orgasm. Think the majority of guys really want this but not sure if many women up for it? The past few times I have had this It ended in a very nice cum kiss/swap whilst her fingers were inside me....SOOOO hot!!!!!!!!!

3 fingers not gonna happen straight off — lol

You say that now but it wont be long til you're begging for a second finger or bigger toy

Get a double ended dildo. So much fun and adventure to be had..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to do this to a guy, getting so horny reading these messages, id enjoy the whole being in control, having a man on my fingertips, dominating side I guess

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Prostate massage is a real turn on for me. I tend to use my finger rather than a toy as I like the feeling of my own finger stimulating myself.

I'm extremely hygeinic at all times and whether I'm in the shower or bath in the morning or when I go out for a meet I lather up and clean my bumhole with my fingers.

It's really easy to locate and finger massage your prostate and the orgasm it creates is truly awesome.

It cums highly recommended by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to do this to a guy, getting so horny reading these messages, id enjoy the whole being in control, having a man on my fingertips, dominating side I guess"

Go girl! I wish the ladies if Fab down south were the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to do this to a guy, getting so horny reading these messages, id enjoy the whole being in control, having a man on my fingertips, dominating side I guess"

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Strapon fucked and no touching cock and he pours out. Doggy styleeeee. Then flipped on back and he squirts when being fucked ... he’s actually squirted self in face a few times. Lol. Such fun. Lol. When he’s allowed of course. Heheheh

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By *luttyguy132Man
over a year ago

Uddingston

Love doing this to myself, i can always cum hands free.

I need to go out and purchase a toy at one point, just havent had the balls to yet.

Would love for someone to do it for me but finding it hard to find someone!

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Might give this a try this weekend !

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'd love to do this to a guy, getting so horny reading these messages, id enjoy the whole being in control, having a man on my fingertips, dominating side I guess"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mind and use some deep heat

that will really get things going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey ther Nr Naughty Nick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a masseuse, she being a professional asked her to do on me .nothing happened. No turnon , check myself fairly regularly down there .could it be some men don't get turned on ? Are could there be another reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn i would love to have mine masssged. Even did a status update before I came across this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We’re gonna give it a go — any tips ?—- fingers or a toy ?

Is it as good as they say ?—- blow job at the same time ? Xx"

I prefer fingers for massage and strap on over toys but start with finger then fingers and just find out what feels good

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By *litstimulousMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Exactly the same procedure and near enough the same place as stimulating the female gspot. You don't have to go deep just hook two fingers up if the guy is lying down on their back (which is better imo) and feel for a walnut sized lump. I like wearing a latex glove, no chance of any filth under the finger nails. I also use a 'Flex o pleaser' (Google it) wand and always get great feedback on that.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"I'd love to do this to a guy, getting so horny reading these messages, id enjoy the whole being in control, having a man on my fingertips, dominating side I guess"

Sign me up, wear me like a glove puppet

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