FabSwingers.com forum: Getting back into it?

By *inkyCouple1927 OP Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We’ve been around the scene for about 5 years now, and when we joined we pretty much jumped straight in; we enjoyed some play with a few couples and met a load of great people along the way.

After some great experiences, and one that was not so great, we unintentionally found ourselves never doing any more than being social. We visit clubs and keep in touch with some great people, but don’t find ourselves actively looking for play situations.

Has it ever happened to you, where the eagerness just kind of wore off? The idea of playing again is great, but you just struggle to find the right people? Have we set the “bar” too high?

It might have been so long now, that we would be more comfortable with just a same room / own couple play to start with

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Things change. Where we are now is very different to when we started out. We've moved from full swop to soft swing and are much more interested in the social aspect of swinging nowadays.