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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've arranged to have my first proper sexual experience with another guy, which will be more than just me receiving a blowjob.

So my question is to all you fab members, what should I expect, and should I prepare at all before hand?

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By *rishbottomcockloverMan
over a year ago

Delft

If he has good verifications it should go well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh enjoy xxx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

First preparationis to arrange this to be done only when the restrictions on meeting are permitted for non-social meets. Only people in your household or bubble should be meeting with you, where you get physically close.

When you do meet someone, ensure you are compatible, with eeciprocal interests. Check expectations too - not everything has to be done on a first or any meeting.

If you expect to be fucked by a guy or from pegging, prepare yourself in advance. There are forum posts that cover this. Douching is an option.

Provide your own safer sex materials, don't rely on the other side. Lube is important, as much as possible. Don't use oil based lube with condoms.

First time benefits from a sensitive partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax and enjoy the ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've arranged to have my first proper sexual experience with another guy, which will be more than just me receiving a blowjob.

So my question is to all you fab members, what should I expect, and should I prepare at all before hand?"

If you are planning to bottom my advice would be:

1) douche - do it at home, use a shower and give yourself a good 1/2 hour at least before departing in case you have water trapped in your colon post ‘clean’ - you don’t want a sudden evacuation whilst driving in.

2) arrive wearing a butt plug - firstly it makes you look like a kinky fucker and gains you kudos but more importantly if he’s not a foreplay guy actually you are relaxed and prepared

3) start on top... the controllers seat gives you all the control over pace, depth etc... you can look after yourself and any fear really well.

If you are playing too:

Turn up, get hard, fuck the man... easy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take some crisps along. Men love them. Some lube would be good too.

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By *rith47Man
over a year ago

Erith

So how did it go, have you met him yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So how did it go, have you met him yet? "

No not met him yet

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By *rith47Man
over a year ago

Erith


"So how did it go, have you met him yet?

No not met him yet"

Have a shower, and be yourself. Takes lube, condoms and an open mind. You are cute so hope he likes you

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By *jpcockMan
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Take it for what it is, two guys mutually haven fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take some crisps along. Men love them. Some lube would be good too."

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone including me! is waiting patiently to see how it went? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone including me! is waiting patiently to see how it went? lol "

It's on a need to know basis, and only me needs to know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone including me! is waiting patiently to see how it went? lol

It's on a need to know basis, and only me needs to know!! "

hey no worrie, hope you had fun

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