FabSwingers.com forum: Single males with couples profiles

By *rhuges OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Does anyone else have this problem .

When single males pretend to be a couple , you start chatting to them and they say things like I'd want a session with you on my own first, before you meet my partner, or my partner is a way right now but you can still come and play.

You have invested so much time in the mail's going back and forth, really starting to a annoy me now!

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Does anyone else have this problem .

You have invested so much time in the mail's going back and forth, really starting to a annoy me now!"

Yeah we have experienced similar ourselves. Some cases may have been genuine, but some quite obviously were not.

I wonder if they are actually in a relationship but partner doesn't know, or whether the whole partner is fabrication.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Does anyone else have this problem .

You have invested so much time in the mail's going back and forth, really starting to a annoy me now!"

I take it in your case, the guys are bi?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

There's also issues with 'single females' who only play with boyfriend present.

It would be great if people could link single accounts into a joint couple account, to cover the times that they are playing separately.

I know some people have multiple accounts (I had a joint account with a friend, for a while, when we were meeting as a pair) but it's not automatically linked.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes 1/2 couples who contact me, eventually tell me it’s the guy messaging who wants to meet.

Now if they don’t have TV/TS on their ‘Looking For’ section I’ll generally ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reported a profile earlier. Male profile with couple wording and female pics showing.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North of Okehampton, South of Bideford

"Does anyone else have this problem .

You have invested so much time in the mail's going back and forth, really starting to a annoy me now!"

Seriously...Men pretending to be couples...lol. There are 1000's at it.

They have teamed up with the "Fab Straight" (Straight Guys looking for TV's)

The place is full of those that like a porky pie..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a couple a while back (on my old profile). They've left the site eventually, then rejoined. Messaged me again. Except that they weren't a couple anymore. He was single and just pretending to be a couple using old pics he had. That got me thinking: how many people check the couple is still a couple before re-verifying them when they rejoin? How many men have been verified as couples in this way?

P.S. That profile has been reported and removed.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Yes we have been contact by "couple accounts" that suddenly became just a guy wanting to play. Weve also had single female accounts where she wanted to bring her fwb along.

We wont entertain it. There has to be some sort of recent veri, photo or meet for us to even think about a meet so a lot of that sort of stuff is ed out early on.

It's weird though. We do both acctually meet solo (under certain circumstances). At no point has either of us arranged something through our single profiles (past or present) then asked the other parties if the other one can tag along. We kinda like the "you get what it says on the tin" approach.

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By *ustagentMan
over a year ago

wa14

hi all had one yesterday arranged meet etc they/he did not turn up messages not answered etc loads of single guys pretending to be couples sad really as what kind of life do they have if they are that desperate buggers it up for the rest

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

This is why I only tribute verified fabbers.

You can usually tell from the messages and lack of info on profiles, also the pics in profile seem like generic ones from social media sites and taken without permission. Not the more risqué pics most fabbers post

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By *amsungdelilaMan
over a year ago

planet earth

We get them all the time

A scout through their profile usually gives clues. 10 year old pics and the way the chat goes usually starts with " I would love to taste you" and things like that

Laughable really cos it spoils the chats and wastes time for genuine couples

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

There are loads who are using a profile and pics from when they were a couple lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are loads who are using a profile and pics from when they were a couple lol. "

Yeah, when I see a couple upload a picture of themselves in the middle of the summer with Christmas decorations in the background I have my suspicions.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"There are loads who are using a profile and pics from when they were a couple lol.

Yeah, when I see a couple upload a picture of themselves in the middle of the summer with Christmas decorations in the background I have my suspicions."

They might have a Christmas Fetish?

I actually typed that as a joke then thought "better check just in case".

It's a real thing! Tinsel underwear exists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are loads who are using a profile and pics from when they were a couple lol.

Yeah, when I see a couple upload a picture of themselves in the middle of the summer with Christmas decorations in the background I have my suspicions.

They might have a Christmas Fetish?

I actually typed that as a joke then thought "better check just in case".

It's a real thing! Tinsel underwear exists

Nope, they don't. They're fully dressed and very casually, she's wearing a warm coat, there's someone in the background. It looks like some Christmas fair. There's nothing to suggest or even hint to a swinging event. It's a picture you'd have in an everyday family album.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do I change my profile from single to couple as my partner now wants to be part of it ? Iv paid for silver member so don’t want to waste the fee ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I change my profile from single to couple as my partner now wants to be part of it ? Iv paid for silver member so don’t want to waste the fee ?? "

Ask admin from a contact button (small print button at the bottom of the home page).

And try creating your own thread in the help section next time. It's not on hogging someone else's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a sure fire way to stop this....

The minute you receive a message from a troll account, no matter what the message says always reply with “ That sounds , great please call me ( your number ) , to set something up “

They will disappear like a fart in the wind.....

Edit: I know some of you work for MI6 and can’t give your real number out.. So you can get a FREE text and call number from google voice or many other Apps....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I change my profile from single to couple as my partner now wants to be part of it ? Iv paid for silver member so don’t want to waste the fee ??

Ask admin from a contact button (small print button at the bottom of the home page).

And try creating your own thread in the help section next time. It's not on hogging someone else's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks ma’am, just new to this so you don’t need to rude lol ! I’ll be on IOM next week collecting potatoes so be careful I don’t find and spank you ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks ma’am, just new to this so you don’t need to rude lol ! I’ll be on IOM next week collecting potatoes so be careful I don’t find and spank you ????"

Me? Rude? Never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many on here, best to get a cam chat or call out of the way early, if they refuse drop them and move on as anyone not comfortable enough to do that little thing even if they are genuine sends the spider senses tingling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else have this problem .

You have invested so much time in the mail's going back and forth, really starting to a annoy me now!"

It happens so often that 9/10 times I can tell from their first message if they're a genuine couple or not Xx

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

We get a few, they are usually quite easy to spot though, either from the profile or the type of message they send, and are only really fooling themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else have this problem .

You have invested so much time in the mail's going back and forth, really starting to a annoy me now!"

That’s why I’m only interested in chatting to verified profiles with with public pics on profiles

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

This happens plenty with single women too. Or couples with a ‘straight’ male... who turns out to be bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple contact me and we arranged a hotel meet, I spoke to the lady on the phone who sounded genuine. On the day of the meet just the guy turned up and said his wife was on her way and we should get started. His profile said he was straight and I am also straight so how would we get started?

She never turned up and I asked him to leave when he couldn’t contact her. Their FAB profile disappeared as soon as he left. A week later I found a new profile with the same pictures appeared, it’s frustrating that people can’t be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes happens so regularly now, or they tend to block you when your like we meet as a threesome or nothing

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By *icked_tongueMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Reported one tonight, kept saying that his "wife" wanted to meet, when asked for their address to pick her up gave a generic "Blackley" and wouldnt elaborate, when asked to chat on the phone didn't even bother answering me... So sad and they spoil it for the genuine ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have noticed a lot more single men with couple profiles lately. Must be the heat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple and the hubby has a singles profile too. We like the two with our profile text but I run this and he runs that.

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM)
over a year ago

warrington

Wean them out easily, ask to speak to them both on phone asap, they can withold caller " id" if they are worried , 99% will then scarper st this rate , its so easy to " out" them , when you do find a genui e couple its worth the hastle of the bullshitters, trust me xx

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By *iffy1968Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

"Does anyone else have this problem .

Quick way to get rpund that say you like a female to female convo on phone early on

You have invested so much time in the mail's going back and forth, really starting to a annoy me now!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wean them out easily, ask to speak to them both on phone asap, they can withold caller " id" if they are worried , 99% will then scarper st this rate , its so easy to " out" them , when you do find a genui e couple its worth the hastle of the bullshitters, trust me xx"

To be honest we don't entertain phone call requests. Doesn't mean we're fake.

Mrs

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We get a lot of messages from the female half of a couple saying that they want their fella to visit us and send photos back, of tell her about it later. It happens far, far too often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had this yesterday, we aranged a phone call, gave them our number, guess what no call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we had this yesterday, we aranged a phone call, gave them our number, guess what no call"

The joys of the internet

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By *amish SMan
over a year ago

Eastleigh

Blimey, all sounds complicated. Astounded that some after agreeing a meet don't turn up, how damm inconsiderate. Out of courtesy Just turn up and be polite, whatever happens, happens or doesn't.

Unless I'm missing something, a single bloke having a fake couples account seems like more hassle than it's worth.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Pretty much 90% of the couples contact I get.

I never even get to the truth of it.

Are they single blokes? Are they a couple but the male would like a little something different on the side?

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

That's why we arrange to meet at club first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Literally had this problem just now. A bloke messaged me saying he would tell his wife if we met yet he still wants to be discreet about it so she doesn't know. I'm bi so I have no problem if others or bi or gay it's confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep but I get it with single females to that turn out to be married/buddies up etc

Or the female half of couple that talks first then switches to male half within 2/3 messages

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Tooo mamy liars on here all together

Single male account but have a couples account

But the couples accounts tend to just have all piccys of one half of the couple up

Fellas who say they are single

Chattin u up

But are married or have gfs instead shaggin behind their partners.

Why are u not on AS A COUPKE WITH UR WIFE OR GF

All liars

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