FabSwingers.com forum: Mum tums

By *rink Me xx OP Woman
over a year ago

Shropshire

I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are you you are, celebrate it, if people don't like it, don't like them! Take care of you and the rest will take care of itself xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nobody is perfect, everyone has something that they don't like about themselves, including the people that will want to meet you.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Oh god, I'm a right fat trout with a mum tum, I usually try to take flattering pics but I do have a few 'unposed' pics. Just so I don't scare off any potential shags when I get naked.

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By *oozleMan
over a year ago

high wycombe

"Oh god, I'm a right fat trout with a mum tum, I usually try to take flattering pics but I do have a few 'unposed' pics. Just so I don't scare off any potential shags when I get naked. "

That’s the problem nowadays, too many Instagram and models projecting what we believe we should look like, nothing wrong with lumps, bumps, curves.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

I love mind.. its not going to change so its a part of me.. would rather they knew before!

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

I must admit to struggling with the same dilemma. I want to post pics that make me feel good but also want to portray me honestly. It's a fine line and I've got no answers sorry x

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By *earded_ChapMan
over a year ago

South Wales

You should be proud of them. Anyone who doesn’t like them isn’t worth worrying about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "

Mmmm sexy! I would;)x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my mum tum, but it seems to bother me more than it bothers others. I posted a full length pic the other day, and that took some courage

its hidden away again now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate*

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By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

They are what they are, if it's what you look like then if the person can't accept that then are they worth knowing?

We all have bits we might change, but then would that change you?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I have my mum tum, but it seems to bother me more than it bothers others. I posted a full length pic the other day, and that took some courage

its hidden away again now "

Yeah, I've noticed i seem to be more bothered about it than guys I meet.

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "

The comedian katt Williams once said "i dont care about your stretch Marks, they make you look like a tiger. You earned your stripes". This was a small section of a larger comedy routine about self esteem and confidence. The sentiment goes for your mum tum. We all have things we feel insecure about but in reality it's not as big a deal as we make it out to be in our heads. Embrace who you are and people will either find you attractive or they wont, but the ones that do are the ones worth holding on too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm showing my tummy, scars, stretch marks. Take me as I am or leave me

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

Curves, lumps and bumps are what make us! Don't hide it - live it.

Male half has a massive birthmark that he hated until we entered the scene now it doesn't bother him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was so self conscious of my body before I joined fab, being on here has helped me gain a little more confidence to the point where I’m as ease with every stretch mark,wobbly bits and my fat arse ..they are who I am x

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

"I was so self conscious of my body before I joined fab, being on here has helped me gain a little more confidence to the point where I’m as ease with every stretch mark,wobbly bits and my fat arse ..they are who I am x

Really? Dont see what you ever had to be self conscious about

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

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By *ralextacyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

If your meets or partners can't accept a. Mum tum have they ever been with or seen a real woman?

I think it's a massive turn on to meet a woman who is naturally beautiful x

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By *alifaxbiMan
over a year ago

Fax

Nothing wrong with a Mum Tum at all

OP you look amazing by the way x

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By *FuckingDelightWoman
over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

I have a mum tum which has spread to include my bum lol

I’m becoming more confident with how I am, I’m realising that in general I care more about my lumps and bumps than any man I meet!

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By *ny1 4funMan
over a year ago

near you

A mummy tummy has to be one of the sexiest parts of a woman's body in my opinion

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton

there's no need to hide it . I personally like curvy/full figured woman and a mum tum is certainly nothing to be ashamed of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? Dont see what you ever had to be self conscious about"

Aww thank you I guess years of being called fat with a train track jelly belly from the ex didn’t help

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

Really? Dont see what you ever had to be self conscious about

Aww thank you I guess years of being called fat with a train track jelly belly from the ex didn’t help

You look great. Just seems like a typical mind fuck bitch boy making you feel shit so you appreciate him.

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

There is nothing wrong with taking flattering photos from better angles, it done all the time. If it makes you feel better then what the problem. Sure no one is perfect but I think we are our own biggest critics sometimes and what we don't like about ourselves and get hung up on stuff other just don't see it that way and see the whole package.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your mummy tummy and mine OP are two different things....

I don't think you have anything to lose...

Go for it!

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By *TkitkatWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Its the part of my i least like. Much rather prefer my bum my back and my legs. But being here has meant I've accepted my tum... not to the point of loving it but I've accepted people all have bits they aren't fond of but everyone still has fun. And really if people have issue with the extra wobbles then there are an equal number out there who don't and that's very empowering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know i think "mum tums" as you call them are extremely sexy, for me it shows everything that is natural, proves all woman and regardless id appreciate and respect that anyway.....just saying xx

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"You know i think "mum tums" as you call them are extremely sexy, for me it shows everything that is natural, proves all woman and regardless id appreciate and respect that anyway.....just saying xx"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know i think "mum tums" as you call them are extremely sexy, for me it shows everything that is natural, proves all woman and regardless id appreciate and respect that anyway.....just saying xx

Exactly this

Thanks

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By *riendlyStarMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "

Try not to be paranoid about it (easier said then done)

I nosed through your profile you look lovely real men dont care wobbly bits we embrace them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide my tummy too as I'm worried to show it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "

We all have lumps n bumps, makes us all different, personally I like some one I can grab on to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide my tummy too as I'm worried to show it

Well you shouldn't x

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By *rSuave88Man
over a year ago

Mirfield

Real and natural bodies are more attractive to me. Lumps, bumps, scars and stretchmarks make us all unique and interesting x

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I always find ladies are complimentary and forgiving about everyone else’s body but their own.

Gorgeous people on this thread should be kind to themselves.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Never really had hang ups about my body yet i know its far from perfect . We are all made in differant shapes and sizes so just learn to embrace it not give a shit and you will be much happier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have kids so don't have a 'mum tum' but like others I have a lot of insecurities. I usually take my photos posed and well lit, but I never edit them to alter my body shape.

I also include natural unposed photos too, just so people know I don't look like my posed self all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I may say ladies you all look fantastic. Show those bodies with pride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I may say ladies you all look fantastic. Show those bodies with pride"

Hear hear!!!

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

You can't see tummy when your eating pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many women and men these days are made to feel ashamed of how they look . Disgusts me to be honest .

I used to be real skinny . Hated every minute of it . Over the years and 6 kids later . Im a mummy with my mum tum and hell i found my confidence . Use your insecurity to give you that confidence .

Big it up be proud . Give attitude . Best thing we can all do is listen to folk less and learn to love ourselves . So unless i want surgery to get rid of mine and add another scar . Think il stick with being a little weeble wobble .

Just remember for every 1 that hates your body 5 more with love it .

Good luck Op . But from one fem to another . You look bloody great . So smile and just learn to love what you think is wrong . Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many women and men these days are made to feel ashamed of how they look . Disgusts me to be honest .

I used to be real skinny . Hated every minute of it . Over the years and 6 kids later . Im a mummy with my mum tum and hell i found my confidence . Use your insecurity to give you that confidence .

Just remember for every 1 that hates your body 5 more with love it .

Good luck Op . But from one fem to another . You look bloody great . So smile and just learn to love what you think is wrong . Xx"

The posts on here, well 99% are bang on, i agree wuth you all, take pride in how you look, be loud and proud

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Personally we go for people we are relaxed around size shape doesn't really matter as long as we all get on we all have some imperfections that may bother us but others seem to not notice

As for the original op who posted you look fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many women and men these days are made to feel ashamed of how they look . Disgusts me to be honest .

I used to be real skinny . Hated every minute of it . Over the years and 6 kids later . Im a mummy with my mum tum and hell i found my confidence . Use your insecurity to give you that confidence .

Just remember for every 1 that hates your body 5 more with love it .

Good luck Op . But from one fem to another . You look bloody great . So smile and just learn to love what you think is wrong . Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mum tummies are incredibly attractive, I always try to work a mention of them into my stories. The feel of them is lovely, soft to the touch, when you reach up a woman's body when your head is between her legs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "

I’ve always liked them and would love to see yours sometime

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hate mine

Really do

I hate being naked atm to be honest

Jo x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Similar here - try to avoid photographing my tummy. I don't edit it if it's there, but wouldn't choose to include it. My experience is that most guys actually don't care and its just us who fret about it. I wish I could lose the hang ups I have about it!

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

I like a soft squishy tummy on anyone.

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By *haved and SmoothCouple
over a year ago

North East

"I love mind.. its not going to change so its a part of me.. would rather they knew before!

Great to hear x

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Mum tums are so nice to ??.

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By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"You should be proud of them. Anyone who doesn’t like them isn’t worth worrying about. "

Agreed, mums tums are a badge of honour, and very sexy too

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

"You should be proud of them. Anyone who doesn’t like them isn’t worth worrying about.

Agreed, mums tums are a badge of honour, and very sexy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics look great, 26th July one is special x the mum tum is no issue for me x

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By *rink Me xx OP Woman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Such amazing positive responses! Thanks everyone

Ive put on weight and its mainly gone to the tummy but its becoming like a little apron! I really need to do some exercise and stop being so lazy! No motivation x

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Mine was depressing the living shit out of me, so i chopped it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mummy tums are lovely. Never hide them away

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "

I live a mummy tummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "

I like c section scars!

Honestly I am not so fussed and you look lovely.

What about my man's health problem dangler?

I feel hideous

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By *ophiaCDTV/TS
over a year ago

St Asaph

I just adore curves. Never be ashamed of those mummy curves they are adorable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look great, I wouldn’t worry. X

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I wouldn’t worry at all as long as you’re happy with yourself. I wouldn’t care about anybody else

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By *eachesandcream247Couple
over a year ago

Dundee

Mummy tummies are in, natural honest pics are always the best.

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By *ilvery brownMan
over a year ago

lewisham

Love a mum tum. Its all of what makes you a yummy mummy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm struggling with this too. Even though the Mr knows my body, and seems to like it, I wish I was more firm but 2 kids & a hysterectomy have not been kind to me

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By *renadier4Man
over a year ago

Codsall

"I'm struggling with this too. Even though the Mr knows my body, and seems to like it, I wish I was more firm but 2 kids & a hysterectomy have not been kind to me :-

It's nothing to fret about. It's about who you are as a person, you look great to me. My bestie says she has a 'jelly belly' after her kids, but she's still sooo sexy, don't worry yourself x

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

Show it as it is, better to have fewer suitors to select from who like you as you are than have a fella arrive who feels catfished and does a runner mid meet, potentially leaving you feeling crap. I don’t make out that I have a 9” cock though I am sure doing so would improve my chances of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a big woman who's not very body confident I am a little scared to post totally unposed pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love ladies with wobbly bits real woman phwoar xx

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By *ilvery brownMan
over a year ago

lewisham

Love wobbly bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a Mum tum...a beautiful reminder of the new life you brought into the word so wear it like a medal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look amazing in your pics. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "

Love it, the feel is amazing

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By *estcliff coupleCouple
over a year ago

Westcliff

Totally understand before my kids was size 6/8 now three kids later and middle age size 14 I’m slowly learning to love my curves

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "

Mummy tummy are a tag of living a good life and should be held high with pride!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman that has live a life and got all the lumps bumps and everything else that goes with it is always going to be more interesting.

your body just shows you have lived be proud of it and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always very conscious of mine. After having twins I have huge stretch marks!

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By *oober698Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Absolutely love mum tums and other lady curves. Nothing to be ashamed of. Life bears body changes, and they should be embraced not hidden.

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By *aughtyBlokeKentMan
over a year ago

Kent/Gatwick area

Shots of a natural body, including mum tum, cellulite and stretch marks, can be really attractive, particularly when paired with an attractive, well-written profile. You get the impression that the woman is genuine, unpretentious,and self-assured.

What I find a turn-off are the heavily filtered, perfectly fake looks, profiles with so many action shots that you feel like you've already met, and graphic legs spread pictures that leave nothing to the imagination. A natural body and interesting mind are infinitely more attractive than any of that, bumps and all.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "

Mum tums are absolutely fucking lovely. Muffin tops too. There's far too much pressure put on women to be really lean. Having a bit extra is normal and beautiful. I (Luke) would love to see your photos if you were willing to share, OP.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "

My mum tum, stretch marks and bumps are my battle scars from being a mum...be proud show all of you, even the parts you don’t like cause there’s plenty out there that will

be yourself xx

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"I try to take lovely flattering pics that hide all my lumps and bumps but today decided to try and take some more "honest" ones. Less smoke and mirrors, more wobbly bits.

Cant bring myself to post the one of my tummy but would send it to anyone I might want to meet in future

What do people really think of the mummy tummy?? "

You are gorgeous. I love the pink knickers!

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By *riFreeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Mum tums, stretch marks and scars are all life’s little reminders that you’ve brought new life into this world and they you ladies should be proud of them and not bother about showing them. Only small minded people think they shouldn’t be shown. Personally I think they make you ladies look even more sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's normal OP. You're normal. Most women aren't models and nor should they be. That's just an artificial and untrue idea of how women 'should' look.

Beauty and attractiveness come in many guides. Those with 'imperfect' looks are often the most attractive in my view.

Celebrate how you look and not how a very small minority in society think you should be.

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