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By *rincess Phoenix OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Its a weird issue but I'm just trying to get reassurance that I'm not totally weird!

I have found that I can't cum unless I'm on my back, it's really odd. I can enjoy foreplay and teasing in any position but I still struggle to cum unless I'm in my back

Any hints, tips or ideas?

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I wonder if it has anything to do with you being more relaxed when laying down, so more able to enjoy and go with the sensations?

I used to tense up and resist orgasm as I was afraid of letting go.

Just a thought really...

I now find my best orgasms are when I am on top and having my nipples sucked hard.

Whatever happens don't worry to much about it. It took a long time for me to just relax and fully enjoy.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"Its a weird issue but I'm just trying to get reassurance that I'm not totally weird!

I have found that I can't cum unless I'm on my back, it's really odd. I can enjoy foreplay and teasing in any position but I still struggle to cum unless I'm in my back

Any hints, tips or ideas?"
NOT really a help but im the same an odd time with oral i can but mostly always with me on my back but i dont mind as they can see my eyes rolling which is a turn on im told ...

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By *rincess Phoenix OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

That is helpful! It reassures me that I'm not odd x

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By *fweonlymeettwiceMan
over a year ago

Madrid

I cant cum unless I masturbate myself my wife cant make me cum orally or intercourse, I'm in my 50s

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Nobody has ever given me an orgasm, I don't think I relax enough.

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By *aptainhook1Man
over a year ago

London

On a similar note, when i cum and i am lying on my back having a hand jpb i can shoot right over my head, but sitting up or kneeling and the distance is far less.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

same with me... only occasionally i cum at different angles... guess keep practising to feel relaxed and connected to your body. finding the right partner too is the biggest help

good luck op

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By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

douglas

it isn't weird at all, nor are you odd at all.

relaxing and enjoying is the main thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody has ever given me an orgasm, I don't think I relax enough. "

Same here.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Nobody has ever given me an orgasm, I don't think I relax enough.

Same here."

It's frustrating as I come close but then it just disappears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry too much op everyone's different. Some people struggle to have orgasm's during sex at all, so you're lucky in that sense. As long as you're enjoying yourself it's all good

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By *ilbert4450Man
over a year ago

paisley

"Nobody has ever given me an orgasm, I don't think I relax enough. "

I wish i lived close enough to be allowed to try and assist

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By *rincess Phoenix OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Nobody has ever given me an orgasm, I don't think I relax enough. "

I didn't have an orgasm until I was 37 because I couldn't relax but now I choose men who engage my brain

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By *rincess Phoenix OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Nobody has ever given me an orgasm, I don't think I relax enough.

Same here.

It's frustrating as I come close but then it just disappears. "

I was lucky I found a FWB who loves going down on a woman and will happily spend hours down there using his tongue and fingers until he manages to get you there- it's quite impressive to watch

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By *isty24Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I cum when am on my back or sitting on someones face!

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

I too seem to orgasm much easier (and more intense) if im on my back...your not weird hun!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only come on my back in missionary too

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Nobody has ever given me an orgasm, I don't think I relax enough.

Same here.

It's frustrating as I come close but then it just disappears.

I was lucky I found a FWB who loves going down on a woman and will happily spend hours down there using his tongue and fingers until he manages to get you there- it's quite impressive to watch "

I kinda get bored after awhile

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