FabSwingers.com forum: How honest is too honest

By *aughty_builder87 OP Man
over a year ago

Keston

As a married man in a open relationship I know I am at distinct disadvantage when is comes to meeting women. I aware of all the facets of fab and the stats of single man : single women and everything takes time. When it comes to my profile I wonder how honest should I be in terms of interests hobbies and preferences as somethings well clearly pigeonhole me even more then I already am.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's entirely up to you. Whatever you do somebody will pick holes in it so you might as well please yourself. There's not a magic profile formula that gains you more interest

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aughty_builder87 OP Man
over a year ago

Keston

"It's entirely up to you. Whatever you do somebody will pick holes in it so you might as well please yourself. There's not a magic profile formula that gains you more interest "

Thanks getting the balancing act right is hard.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's entirely up to you. Whatever you do somebody will pick holes in it so you might as well please yourself. There's not a magic profile formula that gains you more interest

Thanks getting the balancing act right is hard."

It certainly is. We rewrite ours frequently but it never seems quite right to us. Judging by some of the messages we get it isn't clear either.

For what it's worth yours seems just fine to me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aughty_builder87 OP Man
over a year ago

Keston

"It's entirely up to you. Whatever you do somebody will pick holes in it so you might as well please yourself. There's not a magic profile formula that gains you more interest

Thanks getting the balancing act right is hard.

It certainly is. We rewrite ours frequently but it never seems quite right to us. Judging by some of the messages we get it isn't clear either.

For what it's worth yours seems just fine to me"

Thanks, then maybe I need to work on my approach with messages as responses are limited

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We are in (for swinging purposes) an open marriage and both have single profiles on here both present and previously. I (hubby) have never had a smeet via my fab single account. They've always come via other means be it another site, a party we both attended stc etc.

It is what it is. I'm always going to be honest about it. No amount of re wording will change things.

I will say this though, a lot of single female accounts, at least locally (even ones that are part of a fab couple) will all say "no married men". Theres an obvious reason for that but it does seem for a lot of ladies there are no exceptions to this rule.

Like I said, it is what it is. I wount lose any sleep over it. I'd rather do 3 or more sums with my wife anyway.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aughty_builder87 OP Man
over a year ago

Keston

"We are in (for swinging purposes) an open marriage and both have single profiles on here both present and previously. I (hubby) have never had a smeet via my fab single account. They've always come via other means be it another site, a party we both attended stc etc.

It is what it is. I'm always going to be honest about it. No amount of re wording will change things.

Like I said, it is what it is. I wount lose any sleep over it. I'd rather do 3 or more sums with my wife anyway.

Yeah this seems to be the case my 1 meet from fab on my own was organised my wife on my behalf, which was good.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread