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Breaking the ice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good evening peeps, Wondering how everyone gets over the nervousness and that awkward first moment of meeting someone new?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

smile, say hello and ask how they are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"smile, say hello and ask how they are "

Hahaha why did I not think of that Ya smart arse lolol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"smile, say hello and ask how they are

Hahaha why did I not think of that Ya smart arse lolol "

I'm not sure what you mean then. What's the context of the meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you mean meeting someone in a club, I'm not going to lie I get nervous but I usually ask them how their night is going, if they have been to the club before wrc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whooooops, Maybe I didn't explain myself properly

The first time you meet someone in person after arranging it? Think its time for bed

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Whooooops, Maybe I didn't explain myself properly

The first time you meet someone in person after arranging it? Think its time for bed "

Depends if its a hook up or social I guess? I don't do socials so literally its straight to it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Whooooops, Maybe I didn't explain myself properly

The first time you meet someone in person after arranging it? Think its time for bed "

Genuinely, I smile, say hello, kiss them on the cheek and introduce myself telling them I'm pleased to meet them. I know the person already knows my name but you have to start somewhere.

We only ever meet socially first so we get a drink and chat.

If we all agree to meet again we break the ice in various ways but our most enjoyable meets have been where we play strip poker, forfeits or one of the adult board games we have. That might not work quite so well one to one

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Whooooops, Maybe I didn't explain myself properly

The first time you meet someone in person after arranging it? Think its time for bed "

I would think it would depend on the chemistry, location and signals from the other person.

Ice breakers such as a drink (doesn't have to be alcoholic; could be tea/ soft drink), a hug hello or a compliment could help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat them like you’re old friends, be warm and have a giggle. If you don’t click socially you’re not going to click in bed

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I love the butterflies and the nerves.

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Well I got this one wrong, I was going to say with an ice pick (sorry, couldn't resist)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like meeting people who have a hot tub

After a few drinks and a chat retreat to the tub good ice breaker

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