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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

can any one explain how this works please :s, i was having a cheeky search though today and i see a brunette my age, kissing a girl so as any red blooded male would i click on the profile to see that ive been blocked by the gal,

ive never even clicked on her profile before lol

???????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might just be that she's set her filters so she's not contacted by single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps shes already checked you out, perhaps she knows you, perhaps your not whats shes looking for...... all are good enough reasons for a block to stop contact

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

She may have seen you and discovered she knows you..so doesnt want you _iewing her.

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"It might just be that she's set her filters so she's not contacted by single guys.

"

filters don't stop people _iewing your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before the private notes facility I used to randomly block profiles that, for example, played bb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before the private notes facility I used to randomly block profiles that, for example, played bb "

I can vouch for being blocked by you, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well all are possibilities whats wrong with me and i hideously ugly, im very reserved in my levels of filth on my profile ;p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She may have seen you and discovered she knows you..so doesnt want you _iewing her."

I was going with this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or you may have winked or _iewed her before and she wasnt interested so blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be a friend of a friend, I am

Blocked by a couple who know someone I know, never met and wouldn't have, the Only thing we have in common is we have shagged the same guy! No idea why they have blocked me but like the op it does puzzle me slightly

I know I don't know them as its a fair way from me and I know no one there but maybe that's the reason, who knows, I try not to allow it brain time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she may have not liked your green curtains! Who knows... don't take it personally! At least she blocked you now and not after you thought you hit it off, which is more of a blow.

Plenty more fish in the sea for you!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"can any one explain how this works please :s, i was having a cheeky search though today and i see a brunette my age, kissing a girl so as any red blooded male would i click on the profile to see that ive been blocked by the gal,

ive never even clicked on her profile before lol

???????????"

The only person who could explain is the lady who's blocked ya,.. there's so many reasons,.. if its personal so what, if its not personal so what.. why waste time thinking about it,, I move straight on to the next profile and put my time and efforts into that one.. ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens, I am blocked by people I've never spoken too, never met, never likely to. Shrug your shoulders and smile ..... there's nowt as queer as folk!

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

same here . you talk to friends and look who they met click onto their profile and you find you are blocked ??????????????????

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

get over it and move on sugar plum, xxx

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

such is life Im afraid, wouldnt lose any sleep over it x

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

oh we dont now , but its just sad that some people are like that and spoil it for genuine people

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Tain

Accept the block as a badge of honour and forget about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it myself a couple of times. can only guess i might have looked at their profile and then have come up in the looked at you list and been blocked from that.

No point taking offence from it, juat made me laugh as i wouldnt have touched some of them with some one elses cock nevermind my own.

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By *hechairman18Man
over a year ago

Salford Quays , Manchester

On your profile you say, Safe Sex, then say you get checked every 2 weeks or so.

Why do you need a check up, if you only do Safe Sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On your profile you say, Safe Sex, then say you get checked every 2 weeks or so.

Why do you need a check up, if you only do Safe Sex?

"

Excellent point....vey well made I thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why worrie theres loads of others to look at ... xxx some its a power things thay get off on it i am sure , lol xx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I sometimes block people so I don't return to their profile.

Generally if a profile says no bi men, no CDs, no anything that we don't want, etc, I block it so I don't waste my time looking at it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

listening to all he above comments, I can only add...shes a right bitch..and u deserve more..its her loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On your profile you say, Safe Sex, then say you get checked every 2 weeks or so.

Why do you need a check up, if you only do Safe Sex?

"

he didn't say he had safe sex

he said he played it safe

i interpreted that to mean he actually played BB, but got checked out every 2 weeks to make sure he'd not picked 'anything nasty' up

and of course as long as he didn't, well then let the good times roll again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do it all the time, if we have no intention of ever meeting we just block profiles as we read them!

No offence ment by it, I guess it's just a 'your not for us' message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not one in block and think of better things to spend my time here then blocking people ..some get bored maybe here and need to do things with there fingers maybe , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

safe sex and tested every 2 weeks, lol sounds like someones trying to hard to come accross safe

i think if i went to a clinic and asked them to test me, 2 weeks after i had already been tested by the same clinic,

they would probally refuse to test me again so soon, unless i had done something dodgy to warrant it

after all you would only of had your results lets say about 4 days on average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"safe sex and tested every 2 weeks, lol sounds like someones trying to hard to come accross safe

i think if i went to a clinic and asked them to test me, 2 weeks after i had already been tested by the same clinic,

they would probally refuse to test me again so soon, unless i had done something dodgy to warrant it

after all you would only of had your results lets say about 4 days on average"

just had a thought !

maybe it's the girl at the clinic that's blocking him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"listening to all he above comments, I can only add...shes a right bitch..and u deserve more..its her loss"

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

As with many other things on here, blocking a profile that has done no wrong to you seems a bit "extreme". But then, everyone has a different moral compass i suppose.

To the OP, no skin off your bones right? Smile, and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone blocked you just move on and stop worrying about it.

lots of lovely people here

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"oh we dont now , but its just sad that some people are like that and spoil it for genuine people "

Hey?!!

How is using a site facility to prevent someone you don't want looking at you "spoiling it for genuine" people. For all we know the op has been looking at her profile 200 times a day, she doesn't like the cut of his jib, he's said something inane in chat...who knows, only she does.

Blimey, fragile egos around here or what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it seems kinda silly that people that have blocked you still come up in searches... or on your winks, or send you friend requests? i have had several friend requests over the past few days from people who have blocked me :S its weird.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It's a blessing.

If you haven't spoken to them, why worry.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I don't see why people so heated up over it... and concentrate on the negatives

there is a saying.... "can't miss what you never had!"

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I feel the same towards them as I do the people I don't know that pass on the bus and they don't wave....

Total indifference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"safe sex and tested every 2 weeks, lol sounds like someones trying to hard to come accross safe

i think if i went to a clinic and asked them to test me, 2 weeks after i had already been tested by the same clinic,

they would probally refuse to test me again so soon, unless i had done something dodgy to warrant it

after all you would only of had your results lets say about 4 days on average"

Flip if I got tested every 2 weeks I would never have sex again cos it takes 2 weeks to get results and I don't play for 2 weeks before I get tested or 2 weeks after I get tested

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"can any one explain how this works please :s, i was having a cheeky search though today and i see a brunette my age, kissing a girl so as any red blooded male would i click on the profile to see that ive been blocked by the gal,

ive never even clicked on her profile before lol

???????????"

It happens all the time. Especially if you go in the chatrooms.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats an awful lot of posts lol tahnks guys, it never bothered me just thought theyre could be a few crazy ideas

i think its my green curtains thats the right answer though lol

thanks,lee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and i do get tested every 2 weeks i work in a pub which is a good way of ermmeeting people lol and i dont book in my tests my mates gf works their she says shes seen my dick more than his ;p

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"and i do get tested every 2 weeks i work in a pub which is a good way of ermmeeting people lol and i dont book in my tests my mates gf works their she says shes seen my dick more than his ;p

"

well maybe that is excessive and a shade costly to the NHS.

good to get tested tho...

enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats an awful lot of posts lol tahnks guys, it never bothered me just thought theyre could be a few crazy ideas

i think its my green curtains thats the right answer though lol

thanks,lee"

why thank you! I won!! Ehm, what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On your profile you say, Safe Sex, then say you get checked every 2 weeks or so.

Why do you need a check up, if you only do Safe Sex?

Excellent point....vey well made I thought! "

Are you actually serious??? please tell me these people are being sarcastic!!!

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