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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? " I may be wrong here, but i think that some women would find it extremely intimidating with two men who know each other. Ladies? | |||
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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? I may be wrong here, but i think that some women would find it extremely intimidating with two men who know each other. Ladies?" . Some women do have MM for meets and when you also factor threesomes and gangbangs, Im sure women and couples would actively search out, single guys who know each other and can vouch for each other as well. Could be a great suggestion  | |||
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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? I may be wrong here, but i think that some women would find it extremely intimidating with two men who know each other. Ladies?" I would meet them, only if I knew one very well, already | |||
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"If i see a guy asking a question or seeking info and i can help i do contact them directly.. Doesn't matter if they're straight gay or bi. " That’s fair enough, it’s more that I wondered why more straight men don’t necessarily interact with each other more on here unless via the forums. Happy to be corrected if I’m wrong though. A number of women who I’ve been messaging in the past have asked if I have any male friends who would be up for a threesome with myself and her hence this post. | |||
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"Mr Bulldog has alot of single guys that he talks to, Straight, Bi and Gay and mostly there is no sex involved. He likes to help single guys when/if they ask advice etc as it makes Fab and swinging a better place "That’s great. Would be great to strike up some more Male friendships within the swinging scene from what I’ve seen there doesn’t seem to be much of it for some reason | |||
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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? " . There is a guy I interact with who has invited me to his home when he arranged a small gang bang for a lady and we have also met up at OP4F so two single straight guys interacting together can work.Also if interested in a private party or club event can go together and share the costs for petrol or cab. | |||
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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? " I like it... Hope your idea works for you x | |||
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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? I may be wrong here, but i think that some women would find it extremely intimidating with two men who know each other. Ladies?" I’d say you’re wrong. If I were currently looking for a threesome two bi guys who knew each other would make my search way easier.  | |||
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"I chat to various guy's on here and now see them as mates. We often put up for a meet with two guys and work together, so to speak " It can work very well... enjoy | |||
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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? " I’ve spoken with several guys, mainly about their experiences as a single guy in clubs. It’s a pity more don’t speak with other men, I agree, as we can all benefit from each other | |||
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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? I’ve spoken with several guys, mainly about their experiences as a single guy in clubs. It’s a pity more don’t speak with other men, I agree, as we can all benefit from each other "I created a friendly chat group where people can chat and share experiences etc. But I still don't believe men outweigh women as the same number join each day. I just think women don't approach men so sorry guys you do need to do the hunting but generally women like to choose who they want in their threesomes. I occasionally get two male couple message me and usually one is more attractive than the other. So I rather pick my own men.  | |||
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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? I’ve spoken with several guys, mainly about their experiences as a single guy in clubs. It’s a pity more don’t speak with other men, I agree, as we can all benefit from each other
I created a friendly chat group where people can chat and share experiences etc. But I still don't believe men outweigh women as the same number join each day. I just think women don't approach men so sorry guys you do need to do the hunting but generally women like to choose who they want in their threesomes. I occasionally get two male couple message me and usually one is more attractive than the other. So I rather pick my own men. "Women don’t approach single guys in clubs (in my experience) its true, and rarely do couples either! It’s all on the single guy to makes all the moves usually, and I just wish I had received some friendly advice from other single guys beforehand; which clubs to visit, which events to attend etc. My clubs experiences may have been more positive | |||
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"Mr Bulldog has alot of single guys that he talks to, Straight, Bi and Gay and mostly there is no sex involved. He likes to help single guys when/if they ask advice etc as it makes Fab and swinging a better place "That's very nice.. sounds like a good bloke me bulldog... | |||
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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? I’ve spoken with several guys, mainly about their experiences as a single guy in clubs. It’s a pity more don’t speak with other men, I agree, as we can all benefit from each other
I created a friendly chat group where people can chat and share experiences etc. But I still don't believe men outweigh women as the same number join each day. I just think women don't approach men so sorry guys you do need to do the hunting but generally women like to choose who they want in their threesomes. I occasionally get two male couple message me and usually one is more attractive than the other. So I rather pick my own men.
Women don’t approach single guys in clubs (in my experience) its true, and rarely do couples either! It’s all on the single guy to makes all the moves usually, and I just wish I had received some friendly advice from other single guys beforehand; which clubs to visit, which events to attend etc. My clubs experiences may have been more positive "women do give the hint though. Before, a woman would drop her handkerchief. now i think it's a case of just looking and smiling etc to give a signal you fancy them? | |||
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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? I’ve spoken with several guys, mainly about their experiences as a single guy in clubs. It’s a pity more don’t speak with other men, I agree, as we can all benefit from each other
I created a friendly chat group where people can chat and share experiences etc. But I still don't believe men outweigh women as the same number join each day. I just think women don't approach men so sorry guys you do need to do the hunting but generally women like to choose who they want in their threesomes. I occasionally get two male couple message me and usually one is more attractive than the other. So I rather pick my own men.
Women don’t approach single guys in clubs (in my experience) its true, and rarely do couples either! It’s all on the single guy to makes all the moves usually, and I just wish I had received some friendly advice from other single guys beforehand; which clubs to visit, which events to attend etc. My clubs experiences may have been more positive
women do give the hint though. Before, a woman would drop her handkerchief. now i think it's a case of just looking and smiling etc to give a signal you fancy them? "Of course! I generally hang around the bar area, and see if anyone returns a smile when you catch their eye. If I’ve not made a connection with someone by about 11pm, or when people have started going off to play, I just leave. By that time people have sussed out you’re by yourself, and anyone interested in you will have tried to catch your attention | |||
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"I approach men in clubs. I don’t on here. I’ve suggested many a time that men go to a club together so they have a mate to sit with only to be met with ‘no, only would go with a woman so I can play’ Not the best spirit, really. " There’s always at least one other single guy being ignored/avoided in a club, so I can usually find someone to chat with. Some single guys are grateful of the company, others feel you may be a threat to their ‘chances’, and wander off again. I won’t be visiting another club by myself again, unless I know someone going on the night. Not because I expect some play, more because I hate feeling lonely | |||
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"Because the majority of men on here are insecure and constantly attempt to one-up each other." shame its like that. i don't really feel that way about women. most are sweet and friendly | |||
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"I approach men in clubs. I don’t on here. I’ve suggested many a time that men go to a club together so they have a mate to sit with only to be met with ‘no, only would go with a woman so I can play’ Not the best spirit, really. " you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink... same with men... own worse enemy | |||
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"I approach men in clubs. I don’t on here. I’ve suggested many a time that men go to a club together so they have a mate to sit with only to be met with ‘no, only would go with a woman so I can play’ Not the best spirit, really. " I've often been to quest on my own and chatted to some of the guys I know often we've ended up having a mmf with a lady! | |||
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"I approach men in clubs. I don’t on here. I’ve suggested many a time that men go to a club together so they have a mate to sit with only to be met with ‘no, only would go with a woman so I can play’ Not the best spirit, really. There’s always at least one other single guy being ignored/avoided in a club, so I can usually find someone to chat with. Some single guys are grateful of the company, others feel you may be a threat to their ‘chances’, and wander off again. I won’t be visiting another club by myself again, unless I know someone going on the night. Not because I expect some play, more because I hate feeling lonely "I'm bi, but I have a few friends on here where its purely platonic (irrespective of their sexuality) I'm interested in meeting like minded people to me, if someone has a well written profile, I'll strike up a conversation. Mostly guys just delete my message or say 'not interested sorry.' Thats fine. But I have met one or two lads on this site where its been purely platonic from the outset and we've become friends. But I think a lot of guys think other lads are either: A. trying to fuck them B. Competition and thats understandable to because some of them, are trying to do that! | |||
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"I approach men in clubs. I don’t on here. I’ve suggested many a time that men go to a club together so they have a mate to sit with only to be met with ‘no, only would go with a woman so I can play’ Not the best spirit, really. I've often been to quest on my own and chatted to some of the guys I know often we've ended up having a mmf with a lady! " I’d like to try Quest next time I’m staying over in Leeds. I’ll give you a shout if you don’t mind being a friendly face in there? | |||
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"I approach men in clubs. I don’t on here. I’ve suggested many a time that men go to a club together so they have a mate to sit with only to be met with ‘no, only would go with a woman so I can play’ Not the best spirit, really. " My first club experience I was invited to come by a male friend and his (female) partner. It was great, they introduced me to a lot of people and it was really fun. That gave me the confidence to go to a different club alone. I knew no one and it can be pretty awkward for a single guy. Personally I wouldn't go to a vanilla party where I didn't know anyone and I now apply that rule to clubs. But thats my personality type too, I'm not overtly outgoing, I'm quite chill and laid back. That said, I will go to a club in a couple, or with a male friend or if I knew a couple of people who would be attending. But I don't think a lot of men have that spirit. | |||
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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? I may be wrong here, but i think that some women would find it extremely intimidating with two men who know each other. Ladies?" I wouldn't meet men like that. Far too risky! | |||
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"If i see a guy asking a question or seeking info and i can help i do contact them directly.. Doesn't matter if they're straight gay or bi. That’s fair enough, it’s more that I wondered why more straight men don’t necessarily interact with each other more on here unless via the forums. Happy to be corrected if I’m wrong though. A number of women who I’ve been messaging in the past have asked if I have any male friends who would be up for a threesome with myself and her hence this post. " Some do socially. There was going to be a man social last year. Fab men off for a beer together. Don't know if it happened. Women often have women socials. | |||
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"I approach men in clubs. I don’t on here. I’ve suggested many a time that men go to a club together so they have a mate to sit with only to be met with ‘no, only would go with a woman so I can play’ Not the best spirit, really. I've often been to quest on my own and chatted to some of the guys I know often we've ended up having a mmf with a lady! I’d like to try Quest next time I’m staying over in Leeds. I’ll give you a shout if you don’t mind being a friendly face in there? "Yes sure you can. It's a nice friendly place.. Although I will have to unblock men! | |||
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"With the vast number of men on this site and the ratios clearly not in our favour, I’ve always wondering why straight males don’t interact with each other that much on here? I think it would be useful especially when it comes to meeting ladies as so many seem to enjoy group sex with multiple men where the focus is on them. Could be handy to have a friend you can rely on, get on with and can team up with to provide the ultimate pleasure for the ladies here wouldn’t you agree? I may be wrong here, but i think that some women would find it extremely intimidating with two men who know each other. Ladies? I wouldn't meet men like that. Far too risky!" Wouldn’t bother me ... I have in the past | |||
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"I approach men in clubs. I don’t on here. I’ve suggested many a time that men go to a club together so they have a mate to sit with only to be met with ‘no, only would go with a woman so I can play’ Not the best spirit, really. I've often been to quest on my own and chatted to some of the guys I know often we've ended up having a mmf with a lady! I’d like to try Quest next time I’m staying over in Leeds. I’ll give you a shout if you don’t mind being a friendly face in there?
Yes sure you can. It's a nice friendly place.. Although I will have to unblock men! "Cheers fella! My inbox is open to all, so you can drop me a message anytime, without having to lower your filters if you don’t like to | |||
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"I approach men in clubs. I don’t on here. I’ve suggested many a time that men go to a club together so they have a mate to sit with only to be met with ‘no, only would go with a woman so I can play’ Not the best spirit, really. My first club experience I was invited to come by a male friend and his (female) partner. It was great, they introduced me to a lot of people and it was really fun. That gave me the confidence to go to a different club alone. I knew no one and it can be pretty awkward for a single guy. Personally I wouldn't go to a vanilla party where I didn't know anyone and I now apply that rule to clubs. But thats my personality type too, I'm not overtly outgoing, I'm quite chill and laid back. That said, I will go to a club in a couple, or with a male friend or if I knew a couple of people who would be attending. But I don't think a lot of men have that spirit. " I've been to several clubs by myself, where I knew nobody, and without anyone planned to meet inside, and really regretted doing so. The club scene can be a very lonely and unwelcoming place for a single guy! I won't visit another club without something planned beforehand now, at the very least, going in with a mate | |||
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