FabSwingers.com forum: Help needed please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone just need some advice on my profile is it to long to honest or just shite! Can't seem to get many responses from Ladies or Couples and yes I know married men are frowned upon but rarely get any replies just lately, any constructive advice would be welcomed, thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing to do is break up the huge wall of text into seperately spaced paragraphs bud.

KJ x

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

And lose the "MOZART GOCART" request.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing to do is break up the huge wall of text into seperately spaced paragraphs bud.

KJ x "

If you do this it will help you to form specific sentences and sort out the grammar. Currently many sentences are rolling into each other and go off at tangents mid sentence.

A good tip that has always helped me is to read out loud exactly what you have writen. This really helps with getting the grammar right and getting it all to flow concisely and make sense.

Once you have done that its then much easier (for you and anyone helping) to focus on key parts that may need adjustments.

KJ x

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

Think you already said it yourself not a lot of people on here like to get caught up in a cheating affair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And lose the "MOZART GOCART" request....."

Definitely this.

Single ladies sometimes use this to try and further filter the 100s of messages they get every 24hrs.

Your not going to have this issue as a single guy so all it will do is put off some women and couples from messaging you.

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think you already said it yourself not a lot of people on here like to get caught up in a cheating affair."

Agreed 100%

At least he is upfront and honest about it on his profile. That way anyone can make an informed choice if they find it acceptable or not.

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think you already said it yourself not a lot of people on here like to get caught up in a cheating affair.

Agreed 100%

At least he is upfront and honest about it on his profile. That way anyone can make an informed choice if they find it acceptable or not.

KJ x "
yes I fully understand people don't want get involved and I respect that and I try to steer clear of those that say no married or attached men but still get little response.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Might be worth mentioning why you have 2 veris from men too. Some will assume they were socials, some will make other assumptions.

Clarity is king on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we wont meet married guys playing away but dont change honesty because you will get caught out

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I hate when people use courtesy as an excuse to get a reply, it actually states in the FAQ (it’s always seen as good manners to read these, ironically) no reply means no interest. So I’d remove that bit, if it winds me up I won’t be alone.

The pictures could do with improving, sorry the belly just doesn’t do anything for you

And the profile text is just too long but I do agree with others about the honesty over your relationships status. So good on you for highlighting that immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are right to be honest. But its too all embrassing ie every thing and everything with anyone.

Ref the accommodation issue... Id be concerned about the wife returning home and disturbing the fun.

I would set more narrower objectives. You say you are oraly bi... Well if you concentrate on that and look for bi or gay guys and tgirls into oral youd have a good chance of hitting that objective.

You can target BbW another time. Etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would just like to thank everybody for their input I know I'm jot everyone's cup of tea but its very reassuring to know there are people who will offer advice an help without being abusive or to judgemental,I've acted on a lot of it but if there's still room for improvement please let me know, a very big thank you to you all

Friar xx

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