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By *darkis8 OP   Man
over a year ago

wallasey

Hey everyone! I've been on fab for quite a while now and constantly struggle to get replies from anyone, its starting to get a little boring messaging people and never getting anywhere. Just wondering if theres anything I could do to make my profile a little better, please be as honest/brutal as you can happy fabbing everyone hope you're all staying safe xx

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

That is not a good profile,sorry to say

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Two almost identical pictures of you strangling your cock and a bare backing action shot - I’d say the pics need some work.

The profile text is merely a list of your social media addresses - it doesn’t really give people much to go on to be honest.

Say a bit about yourself, what you’re looking for and what you have to offer (other than a penis).

Bringing yourself to life in your bio isn’t easy; but keep trying and updating as you get the inspiration. It might be handy to look over other successful chaps’ profiles and see if you can derive some ideas from there.

Best of luck.

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

What he said

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By *darkis8 OP   Man
over a year ago

wallasey

Thanks for the advice, much appreciated

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By *weety and BossCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Your profile needs some work not enough information on there and some better pics too

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Hey everyone! I've been on fab for quite a while now and constantly struggle to get replies from anyone, its starting to get a little boring messaging people and never getting anywhere. Just wondering if theres anything I could do to make my profile a little better, please be as honest/brutal as you can happy fabbing everyone hope you're all staying safe xx "

What profile?

2 pictures of your cock and your contact details.

More effort required.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Start again, that doesn’t mean delete your profile just remove everything and really spend time on improving it. So ...

Pictures, they’re boring, badly taken and presented. Phones have timers now, so no need for selfies in the mirror, be aware of the background keep it tidy (women do notice the backgrounds of pictures).

Think of different angles or filters to enhance your appearance and body. What about clothing and other parts of your body, guys think their cock will sell them, when in fact a woman likes big hands, broad shoulders a warm smile or even a nice fitting suit

Text, be original, by that I mean look at what you’ve written, how many other profiles will have the same wording that’s devoid of any personality ? honestly there’s plenty

Currently you blend into the background on this site, a cursory glance would be enough, just to pass you by, I mean even on your video I’m sure I heard you yawn, that’s apt as it’s a metaphor for your profile.

Good luck Op

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"constantly struggle to get replies from anyone...."

Don't assume it's your profile that's the problem. Your age is quite restricting - most of us don't want people younger than our kids and there seems to be quite a gap if Fab activity between the age of 30-40.

Also....have a look at your opening messages. Make sure you're reading profiles and tailoring messages to the individual(s) concerned and bit just sending "how are you?" or "fancy a fuck" messages.

Good luck.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Your profile, which judging by the above comments is your re-write is really not going to take you very far on this site. It says nothing about you as a person, other than that you’re desperate to do pretty much anything to get laid. You’re 20, and the idea that you could be dominant to the majority of the women on hear is frankly laughable. Have a really good think about what makes you unique and puts you apart from every other male wannabe who has joined thinking it’s going to be a fuck fest, and clearly write about who your ARE not what you are prepared to do.

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By *arngreyCouple
over a year ago

london

Cock shots are boring in a profile. We all know what a cock looks like. 1 picture should suffice ...maybe a smartly dressed picture would help to see how you scrub up. Adding to your profile would help, we all know that "single" guys cannot accommodate, normally live with mum...don't make the profile seem desperate .

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent


"Cock shots are boring in a profile. We all know what a cock looks like. 1 picture should suffice ...maybe a smartly dressed picture would help to see how you scrub up. Adding to your profile would help, we all know that "single" guys cannot accommodate, normally live with mum...don't make the profile seem desperate . "

Hang on, some single guys can accommodate! I happen to own my own home, and I’d welcome some company!

Having said that, the other criticisms are perfectly reasonable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 will be too young for a lot of people x

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Op would you reply to yourself going on your profile? If so crack on as you are, if not change it.

Personally I would even read, never mind reply to a message going in your profile.

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By *darkis8 OP   Man
over a year ago

wallasey

Thanks for all the feedback everyone, I dont have time just yet to make all of the changes that have been suggested but I'll get onto it ASAP, you've all been a big help xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Your profile looks fine, your verified so it must be working OK, good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, pics need a review, cock shots are not interesting. Unless it is some kind of unfeasibly large hip-breaker maybe..

You preferred age range of 18 -99 suggests you will just shag anything that will let you..

Im not saying you cant, but the idea of a 20yo dominating T seems unlikely, chances are she'd have you flipped over and your arse spanked til it glows...

Personally, I (male) read our messages first, delete the non-starters and the dumb 'hey bae, fancy fucking now..' style posts then show T any messages from interesting profiles later. If you had messaged us, T would probably never have seen it.. sorry..

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Cock shots are boring in a profile. We all know what a cock looks like. 1 picture should suffice ...maybe a smartly dressed picture would help to see how you scrub up. Adding to your profile would help, we all know that "single" guys cannot accommodate, normally live with mum...don't make the profile seem desperate . "

"we all know that "single" guys cannot accommodate"?????

This is news to me.

There's nothing like a broad sweeping generalisation is there.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Pics are bad and you sound desperate.

You may as well write 'ill do anything with anyone'

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East


"Your profile, which judging by the above comments is your re-write is really not going to take you very far on this site. It says nothing about you as a person, other than that you’re desperate to do pretty much anything to get laid. You’re 20, and the idea that you could be dominant to the majority of the women on hear is frankly laughable. Have a really good think about what makes you unique and puts you apart from every other male wannabe who has joined thinking it’s going to be a fuck fest, and clearly write about who your ARE not what you are prepared to do. "

Agree with this.

Your biography mate, talk a little bit about YOU are like.

Are you laid back? Witty?

You need to sell your personality, first. Tell people what you are like.

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