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By *ower Couple - Norfolk OP   Couple
over a year ago

Watton

Is it possible to see whose hotlists we are on?

Or perhaps we could be notified when there is a match between our hotlist and the other part?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible to see whose hotlists we are on?

Or perhaps we could be notified when there is a match between our hotlist and the other part?"

Awesome idea!!!

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"Is it possible to see whose hotlists we are on?

Or perhaps we could be notified when there is a match between our hotlist and the other part?"

No. You can't see who's hotlisted you.

Not everyone uses their hotlist as an 'I would like to' list.

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By *ower Couple - Norfolk OP   Couple
over a year ago

Watton

A shame. Appreciate that everyone uses them differently, but if we knew who’s list we were on, it would help us to know who might be interested in us

Winks and messages seem to just get lost

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think a hotlist function with a thumbs up or down though. Maybe match if its thumbs up for both parties x

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"I think a hotlist function with a thumbs up or down though. Maybe match if its thumbs up for both parties x"

Isn't that what tinder does? x

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By *heekydevil69Man
over a year ago

Aberporth


"Is it possible to see whose hotlists we are on?

Or perhaps we could be notified when there is a match between our hotlist and the other part?"
I noticed when I hotlist a girl and she's got me on her hotlist I does tell you that your on eachothers hotlist only happened once tho x

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think a hotlist function with a thumbs up or down though. Maybe match if its thumbs up for both parties x

Isn't that what tinder does? x"

Haha, smart arse. Be a good function on here though, especially if both match x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible to see whose hotlists we are on?

Or perhaps we could be notified when there is a match between our hotlist and the other part?"

Would be ideal but apparently some use the hotlist for other reasons

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"A shame. Appreciate that everyone uses them differently, but if we knew who’s list we were on, it would help us to know who might be interested in us

Winks and messages seem to just get lost "

Lots of people use them as a ‘not’ list - including me - so it wouldn’t be of much use!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I thought if you were on each others hotlists, it tells you both in updates.

It does on Fabguys. I am sure it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought if you were on each others hotlists, it tells you both in updates.

It does on Fabguys. I am sure it does "

It doesn't on here.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I thought if you were on each others hotlists, it tells you both in updates.

It does on Fabguys. I am sure it does

It doesn't on here."

cool, thanks for clarifying. I am off to Fabguys to doublecheck

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"I think a hotlist function with a thumbs up or down though. Maybe match if its thumbs up for both parties x

Isn't that what tinder does? x

Haha, smart arse. Be a good function on here though, especially if both match x"

I disagree, I don't want folk knowing who I perv over & there are some in my hotlist that are there so I can avoid x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I hotlist just because their status' amuse me, or because they have said something that interested me in the forums, and for half a dozen other reasons. So, no I wouldn't want them to know.

Surely if people want to make contact op, they would?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a hotlist function with a thumbs up or down though. Maybe match if its thumbs up for both parties x"

Yes great idea.

I know some use it as a not list!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible to see whose hotlists we are on?

Or perhaps we could be notified when there is a match between our hotlist and the other part?"

One hint you're on someone's hotlist - they fab your pics as soon as you upload them (esp. strong if you're not on the same local feed).

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I just in in this thread because is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to know if I’m on anyone’s

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Would love to know if I’m on anyone’s "

Put it as your status and ask x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok here goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I use it as a bookmark system, although I immediately remove anyone that I message.

Making people aware I am "marking" them with a bookmark might prevent me from doing so - since it would suddenly become super creepy. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the hot list to watch photo verified profiles but not meet verified if they message me I tell them to come back when meet verified and hotlist them if Not verified within 6 months they get took off and forgot about

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