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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

(Not quite sure what to title this)

Quite often I get messaged by other women (and occasionally couples) saying we have common interests. I'm into something quite specific so usually I bite and begin to chat with them.

8 times out of 10 they go off on a tangent after a couple of messages and start asking about my "limits", if I'm into tying them up, spanking them etc. Or if they are a couple, spit roasting, fucking their partner in front of them etc... Even though I clearly state I'm looking for something in particular.

I just find it really irritating because it happens so often. Am I being a stuck up arse or is my annoyance warranted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say you get messaged often....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you say you get messaged often...."

What happens is a regular occurence. I never said I get 100s of messages a day

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By *otstuffbabeCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"(Not quite sure what to title this)

Quite often I get messaged by other women (and occasionally couples) saying we have common interests. I'm into something quite specific so usually I bite and begin to chat with them.

8 times out of 10 they go off on a tangent after a couple of messages and start asking about my "limits", if I'm into tying them up, spanking them etc. Or if they are a couple, spit roasting, fucking their partner in front of them etc... Even though I clearly state I'm looking for something in particular.

I just find it really irritating because it happens so often. Am I being a stuck up arse or is my annoyance warranted? "

I kind of understand what you mean,but is that specific thing the ONLY thing you're looking for here? Others will read your profile and think that you're up for other kinds of play too?

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

If you are purely looking for that one specific thing then it might be worth changing your profile to say that, currently it states that you are willing to try new things & open to suggestions, I'd say that's where the confusion is.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that quite often, especially with my cum aversion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgive my ignorance, but can I ask what ABF is? I'm interested to know but not sure I want to try googling it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forgive my ignorance, but can I ask what ABF is? I'm interested to know but not sure I want to try googling it. "

Adult breastfeeding, i think in most cases such as the op, would like to dress up as a baby, wearing diapers and such and feed from the breast of the woman and have her change his soiled nappies. I believe it’s often coupled with colouring in and making baby noises

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"(Not quite sure what to title this)

Quite often I get messaged by other women (and occasionally couples) saying we have common interests. I'm into something quite specific so usually I bite and begin to chat with them.

8 times out of 10 they go off on a tangent after a couple of messages and start asking about my "limits", if I'm into tying them up, spanking them etc. Or if they are a couple, spit roasting, fucking their partner in front of them etc... Even though I clearly state I'm looking for something in particular.

I just find it really irritating because it happens so often. Am I being a stuck up arse or is my annoyance warranted? "

You are a lucky one.. Most guys don't even get a wink let alone a message

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Forgive my ignorance, but can I ask what ABF is? I'm interested to know but not sure I want to try googling it.

Adult breastfeeding, i think in most cases such as the op, would like to dress up as a baby, wearing diapers and such and feed from the breast of the woman and have her change his soiled nappies. I believe it’s often coupled with colouring in and making baby noises "

You’re assuming the OP likes that? Very strange when diapers have not been mentioned by OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you are purely looking for that one specific thing then it might be worth changing your profile to say that, currently it states that you are willing to try new things & open to suggestions, I'd say that's where the confusion is.

K"

True, I didn't think of that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Forgive my ignorance, but can I ask what ABF is? I'm interested to know but not sure I want to try googling it.

Adult breastfeeding, i think in most cases such as the op, would like to dress up as a baby, wearing diapers and such and feed from the breast of the woman and have her change his soiled nappies. I believe it’s often coupled with colouring in and making baby noises

You’re assuming the OP likes that? Very strange when diapers have not been mentioned by OP."

You're right. I never mentioned that There are a few men and women into this on fab and none of them are into adult babies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forgive my ignorance, but can I ask what ABF is? I'm interested to know but not sure I want to try googling it.

Adult breastfeeding, i think in most cases such as the op, would like to dress up as a baby, wearing diapers and such and feed from the breast of the woman and have her change his soiled nappies. I believe it’s often coupled with colouring in and making baby noises

You’re assuming the OP likes that? Very strange when diapers have not been mentioned by OP.

You're right. I never mentioned that There are a few men and women into this on fab and none of them are into adult babies "

That’s exactly what a closet adult baby would say...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Forgive my ignorance, but can I ask what ABF is? I'm interested to know but not sure I want to try googling it.

Adult breastfeeding, i think in most cases such as the op, would like to dress up as a baby, wearing diapers and such and feed from the breast of the woman and have her change his soiled nappies. I believe it’s often coupled with colouring in and making baby noises

You’re assuming the OP likes that? Very strange when diapers have not been mentioned by OP.

You're right. I never mentioned that There are a few men and women into this on fab and none of them are into adult babies

That’s exactly what a closet adult baby would say... "

Ok whatever you say Mr Cock profile pic

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I have a AB ,it's a lovely relationship we have , it was him who broached the subject and I gave it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Not quite sure what to title this)

Quite often I get messaged by other women (and occasionally couples) saying we have common interests. I'm into something quite specific so usually I bite and begin to chat with them.

8 times out of 10 they go off on a tangent after a couple of messages and start asking about my "limits", if I'm into tying them up, spanking them etc. Or if they are a couple, spit roasting, fucking their partner in front of them etc... Even though I clearly state I'm looking for something in particular.

I just find it really irritating because it happens so often. Am I being a stuck up arse or is my annoyance warranted? "

Warranted... I had a request about female domination the other day, not my thing and no reference to it on my profile so I deleted, only for him to then call me arrogant!

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