FabSwingers.com forum: swinging post mastectomy

By *edorr OP Couple
over a year ago

woolwich

Unfortunately we expect will be out of play for a quite a while due to medical probs over the worst of it. However she has had mastectomy but still very horny thinking about a corset to cover and play anyway?

rather self consious as bbw and bhm as well. what do you guys think?

be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately we expect will be out of play for a quite a while due to medical probs over the worst of it. However she has had mastectomy but still very horny thinking about a corset to cover and play anyway?

rather self consious as bbw and bhm as well. what do you guys think?

be honest!

I am so very sorry to hear your news and wish a very speedy and full recovery.

I said on a similar post the other week, that none of us know what is around the corner for any of us... so head high, and get the sexiest outfits and keep them on if thats your choice..and get out to play when the time is right for you.

The surgery would make no difference to me xxx and I would hope if I had any ' gents ' type surgery I would be faced with kindness ...

best wishes again xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you are well on the road to recovery, I could have no problems as it is all about personality. Good luck and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rather self consious as bbw and bhm as well. what do you guys think?

be honest!

Hugs and best wishes to you both. I underwent a mastectomy myself and can honestly say that it never affected the way people reacted to me, I was the one who was most shy about it. Corsets are great and with the new self adhesive prosthetics you can dress to impress and look and feel as sexy as ever.

I found that fishnet body stockings under sexy corsets and play clothes added an extra dimension and helped secure my 'chicken fillet' and latex dresses and suits helped cover and tease.

good health and good fun xxxxxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Hi, i wish your partner the best of luck with her masectomy. Is she thinking about having a built up breast? One of my friends has this and its very good, she can wear low cut tops and her clothes fit nicely.

If she isnt i hope with your help she will gain her confidence im sure she will be treated with respect. Maybe you could advice playmates in advance so any queries they have can be addressed. Im sure people will take there lead from how your partner feels about it herself.

Maybe take some sexy lingerie pictures of her and put them on your profile. Good luckxxkarenxx

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over a year ago

Im inspired by your partners attitude and I wish her all the best in a speedy recovery and many many more years of good health and swinging

Im sure she will still be as sexy as hell whatever outfits she chooses to wear as that will come from within whether she is wearing a bin liner or a corset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first of all.. good wishes in treatment etc. i had a mastectomy 7 years ago and waited 2 years before having a reconstruction. we started swinging quite soon after that, and have never looked back.. love to wear sexy stuff and have never had a single comment about it except wow....... try the corsets and nice sexy things as others have suggested and i am sure she will feel fabby xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me covered or not you are what you are and should never have to be any more or less than that. I would treat you with the same respects as any othe rmale or female

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

not much to add what the others have said other than I hope she feels better soon and is making a full recovery.

there is onyl her who will knowhow she feels just reading round and it seams that people in the swingging world do not juge others she will be just as beutiful and like some one said before in a bask with a padding.

sending hugs to you both.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I wish you all the best, really wouldn't be a problem to us, it's the person as a whole who counts and not just individual body parts - good luck xxx

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By *edorr OP Couple
over a year ago

woolwich

Thanks for all your fabulous replys really helped. Any suggestions on where to get sex gear that covers breast ? high corsets etc?

xxxx r and r

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By *ishful.thinkingWoman
over a year ago

east london

Vollers - you'll find them on the web - they'll do made to measure and are really helpful on the phone. Ordered from them a couple of days prior to xmas last year and they got it to me for NYE.

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'll find most people given the chance to get to know will more than happily look past the obvious.. Its going to be more about how she feels if and when the play starts.. Maybe wise to take things slowly and get to know someone well before eh..

Brave lady.. but also a great way to move forward..

Good luck and best wishes xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all your fabulous replys really helped. Any suggestions on where to get sex gear that covers breast ? high corsets etc?

xxxx r and r"

I agree with wishful thinking vollers made some of mine , also try e-bay they have a lot of companies who make to measure, also find lots of play clothes on there at reasonable prices. Hope Mrs is feeling well and positive still.

love to you both laine xxxxx

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By *ndyehelenCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

We are struggling to meet anyone since Helen had a mastectomy. It really hasn't changed her at all. You wouldn't know any difference when she is wearing a bra.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

So sorry to hear that people are being so shallow about something she cannot help. I lived with someone for ten years who had, had a double mastectomy. 'There by the Grace of God, go I' as the saying goes. I hope this post helps you find people who are ore understanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (m) have met a very attractive lady at a gang bang who had had a mastectomy. She just said she had had it put on her profile and let her sexual partners decide if it mattered. I believe the attention she received helped her overcome the trauma of the op. Good luck to you both!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are struggling to meet anyone since Helen had a mastectomy. It really hasn't changed her at all. You wouldn't know any difference when she is wearing a bra."

That is very sad.

There are plenty of us out there who find all different kinds of people sexually attractive. If the personality and attitude was right, I would never turn down a woman just because she didn't have breasts that matched some 'perfect' idea that is presented to us by society.

Any decent person who wanted to have sex with your partner would work around any insecurities that they had. Anyone who wouldn't isn't worth the time of day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh, I couldn't care less!, I'd go as far as to say I couldn't care a shit if she had a bolt through her neck!. If she's a genuinely warm, inviting and nice person I really don't think I'd even give it a second thought!

Our scars are our "tells", be it surgical, be it stretch marks, be It the results of an accident, they are what define us and make us unique, the tell a story of a life and are far more interesting and beautiful than any boring profile or blog, like an epitaph etched in stone, our marks tell a story of a life, it's challenges, it's hurdles and the bravery of the person who faced them.

Good luck to her, somehow I think she will be just fine.

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By *ndyehelenCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Thanks for all the kind messages. When we post for a meet we dont mention it at first then once we get to know a couple better and tell them it's blatantly obvious what they think. We are unsure If to mention about it in our profile but how would you word it and it's not a nice thing to say really.Hopefully one day we will find someone who we can meet on a regular basis. Helen is know less attractive and she as a lovely body and is a lovely person to go with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are struggling to meet anyone since Helen had a mastectomy. It really hasn't changed her at all. You wouldn't know any difference when she is wearing a bra.

That is very sad.

Any decent person who wanted to have sex with your partner would work around any insecurities that they had. Anyone who wouldn't isn't worth the time of day."

Got it in one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the kind messages. When we post for a meet we dont mention it at first then once we get to know a couple better and tell them it's blatantly obvious what they think. We are unsure If to mention about it in our profile but how would you word it and it's not a nice thing to say really.Hopefully one day we will find someone who we can meet on a regular basis. Helen is know less attractive and she as a lovely body and is a lovely person to go with it."
you have my support , I would not think anything of it as its the person that maters , love to you both

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

_ndyehelen, please understand that what I'm about to say does not come from a place of maliciousness or spite and you have my empathy for your situation.

So, this site is a place where people meet to have sex with strangers. Some will only meet others that fit a specific criteria. For many that criteria is nice breasts, or just to have breasts.

It's all very well the above posters saying things like it's a shame as it's the personality that counts and whatever, but if the original post was someone saying they found difficulty getting meets because they were black, Asian, too fat, too short, white, too skinny, whatever, the usual responses would be to concentrate on those that do want to meet, not those that don't, and people are entitled to their preferences.

I really don't see why responses should be different because someone has been unfortunate to have had to suffer a mastectomy to those who have been, in the main, born with physical attributes that they have no control over.

Again, I stress this post is in no way meant to be provocative or malicious, just expressing my thoughts on a sensitive situation of which I am empathic.

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

rather self consious as bbw and bhm as well. what do you guys think?

be honest!

I had a mastectomy last October with reconstruction done. Wish her well xxc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your illness. The mastectomy should never stop you playing as it part of who you are and in my eyes it shows you had a horrible disease and beat it.

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By *ndyehelenCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Thank you for your kind words.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"We are struggling to meet anyone since Helen had a mastectomy. It really hasn't changed her at all. You wouldn't know any difference when she is wearing a bra.

That is very sad.

Any decent person who wanted to have sex with your partner would work around any insecurities that they had. Anyone who wouldn't isn't worth the time of day."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are struggling to meet anyone since Helen had a mastectomy. It really hasn't changed her at all. You wouldn't know any difference when she is wearing a bra.

That is very sad.

Any decent person who wanted to have sex with your partner would work around any insecurities that they had. Anyone who wouldn't isn't worth the time of day."

I can't put it any better than this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is, she is lucky to have such a wonderful partner as you. You are obviously very supportive and loving. Good luck to you both. I hope you find what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rather self consious as bbw and bhm as well. what do you guys think?

be honest!

as a guy, my emotions would be fully with the lady in question, it would not concern me one bit but I think the lady would be consious and emotional, I would ensure she was at ease and again it would not make me feel she was any less of a lady, i would have much more respect for her and fully understand what she has gone through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 2 close non swinging friends who`s wife have had double mastectomies, one was lucky enough to go private and had recontruction and is so happy for the first time she went topless on a beach, the other is so happy to be alive they are having sex almost every night.

Go enjoy yourselves guys, dont be afraid to show your chest area on here when chatting, even if its in privaste mode.because at the end of the day people will obviously need to know.

sounds like its their loss if they dont want to meet you both.

Good luck for the future anyone thats had any illness.

xxxx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Thank you for your kind words."

Hi AndyandHelen I tried to pm you.

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By *ndyehelenCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Tempting devil I have tried to pm you but it's saying we are blocked.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Tempting devil I have tried to pm you but it's saying we are blocked."

Try again

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By *ndyehelenCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Well still know meets really is frustrating it stands out so obvious that once you tell people they don't bother replying.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

rather self consious as bbw and bhm as well. what do you guys think?

be honest!

Boobs are not the be-all and end-all... I know someone who has had a mastectomy - doesn't stop her playing ... :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good luck to any one in this position they have my love and support x

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

we go to cap dage often and a friend of ours had one breast removed and recon done .she is still the same person ,super sexy,funny and above all fab in every way......ps she still gets lots of attention and loves lots of cock lol ......go girl ...best wishes

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