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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all

, I’ve been on here a while now and managed a few meets but it seems to be few and far between. Any advice on my profile and how I could improve or even delete anything to make it more attractive to single fems and also couples?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, by taking your most recent seven photos off imo. People want to see the profile owner and not someone you've slept with. I can see much more of her than you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s some good advice I will do that. Thanks

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"Yep, by taking your most recent seven photos off imo. People want to see the profile owner and not someone you've slept with. I can see much more of her than you."

Agree with this , same with the videos.

Your profile doesn't really say very much about what you have to offer.

The fact that you are verified is a plus, the fact that you have verifications from meets during lockdown however would definitely put me off.

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi thanks for that will also remove them. The meets during lockdown are previous meets from people I have met on the site on an old profile. Hope that clears that up x

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Instead of having a profile pic that looks like a kid got hold of your crayons, the silhouette would be better.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

First instance, change your avatar photo. It says absolutely nothing about you apart you want to stay anonymous which isn't really isn't that appealing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First instance, change your avatar photo. It says absolutely nothing about you apart you want to stay anonymous which isn't really isn't that appealing. "

Is that better?

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By *reenman19Man
over a year ago

.....no......

First and foremost I’m genuine so only looking for genuine females and couples. Let’s not waste each other’s time.

This I like, straight to the point.

Sensual and passionate Early thirties athletic male.

This I think is a tad generic, a profile is where you sell yourself, perhaps tell a little about you, perhaps you're a sexy rugby player or a rather tidy man in uniform, we don't know because you haven't told us.... Yet

Sensuality is in the fingers tips and constant touching.

This feels like a standard orgasm promise you see on a lot of profiles. say what you enjoy and get across the feeling you are a tactile and sensitive lover you need to aim better too, do you like being touched or are you the man with wandering hands?

Will send a wink to couples I’m interested in to give them the signal, nobody likes a pushy single male!!

I like this, people should wink more and you are examining what is often seen as an annoyance as something polite.

Can accom and travel

All in all I like it, but explain more about you and have fun doing it, they aren't buying second hands car from eBay, you are selling a personal experience.

Don't mean to sound harsh if I do and good luck on the hunt

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"First instance, change your avatar photo. It says absolutely nothing about you apart you want to stay anonymous which isn't really isn't that appealing.

Is that better? "

Much!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great advice many thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First and foremost I’m genuine so only looking for genuine females and couples. Let’s not waste each other’s time.

This I like, straight to the point.

Sensual and passionate Early thirties athletic male.

This I think is a tad generic, a profile is where you sell yourself, perhaps tell a little about you, perhaps you're a sexy rugby player or a rather tidy man in uniform, we don't know because you haven't told us.... Yet

Sensuality is in the fingers tips and constant touching.

This feels like a standard orgasm promise you see on a lot of profiles. say what you enjoy and get across the feeling you are a tactile and sensitive lover you need to aim better too, do you like being touched or are you the man with wandering hands?

Will send a wink to couples I’m interested in to give them the signal, nobody likes a pushy single male!!

I like this, people should wink more and you are examining what is often seen as an annoyance as something polite.

Can accom and travel

All in all I like it, but explain more about you and have fun doing it, they aren't buying second hands car from eBay, you are selling a personal experience.

Don't mean to sound harsh if I do and good luck on the hunt"

Not harsh atall, straight to the point and great advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tried amending the detail, any more thoughts?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Unfortunately all single men struggle to start with for a few months. And, unfortunately, the last few months has been a time when the virus has devastated things, so you've a double whammy. People are focused on health, families, jobs, finances etc and struggle with message loads on here, keeping up with friends is tough enough, without new prospects. So don't take it to heart.

You sound a decent guy and your profile isn't terrible.

You'd probably benefit from a few more pics, perhaps standing that could show your physique - top off etc.

Your profile should reflect you, so keep it that way. Ensure that you share that you're only rough optionally. Many of us would love YOU being this way. Some may misinterpret it as you having to be rough - despite you being very clear that you love 2 way delicate touch.

If you can add more that will sell you well m, whilst keeping your non-boastful style, that could be great.

A minor point, maybe that some of your text isn't uniformly spaced. I can't guarantee that, as my eyes are tired after reading all day. Take a look and check good spacing, as it may be harder to read otherwise. I think you will do very well. Keep your patience, whilst things get towards safer times.

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