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By *rSmith9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich/London

Hey everyone! So I’ve been on this site for a while now and have been struggling to arrange a meet... is there something wrong with my profile? Is there anything that could be improved? I know I’m not great with first messages either so any help would be greatly appreciated!

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By *reenman19Man
over a year ago

.....no......

Take down the BDSM test bit.

write out a longer profile that tells the reader a bit about you not just what you want from a meet.

Take some better pictures, if you are young and fit take some pictures that show you off a little.

Go for the green tick

Be social, maybe strike up some light-hearted banter in a chat room

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Better photos, better bio. Make the bdsm test more relevant to you rather then have the thing as a whole. 10/10 for not having the "legal" notice that has less legal standing then a gentleman's handshake tho lol

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Also it's gone may....or does your header refer to may 2021?

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By *rSmith9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich/London


"Take down the BDSM test bit.

write out a longer profile that tells the reader a bit about you not just what you want from a meet.

Take some better pictures, if you are young and fit take some pictures that show you off a little.

Go for the green tick

Be social, maybe strike up some light-hearted banter in a chat room "

The green tick? Thanks for the advice!!

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By *rSmith9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich/London


"Better photos, better bio. Make the bdsm test more relevant to you rather then have the thing as a whole. 10/10 for not having the "legal" notice that has less legal standing then a gentleman's handshake tho lol"

What would be better photos? What would you like to see?

And by better bio do you mean a bit more about me in general?

Thanks for pointing out the header, completely forgot I had that haha!

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By *reenman19Man
over a year ago

.....no......


"Take down the BDSM test bit.

write out a longer profile that tells the reader a bit about you not just what you want from a meet.

Take some better pictures, if you are young and fit take some pictures that show you off a little.

Go for the green tick

Be social, maybe strike up some light-hearted banter in a chat room

The green tick? Thanks for the advice!!"

Verified by meet or can, it helps.

You're welcome xx

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Better photos, better bio. Make the bdsm test more relevant to you rather then have the thing as a whole. 10/10 for not having the "legal" notice that has less legal standing then a gentleman's handshake tho lol

What would be better photos? What would you like to see?

And by better bio do you mean a bit more about me in general?

Thanks for pointing out the header, completely forgot I had that haha! "

Attention to detail!

As for "what to put what pics"...if you get a meet would you want me to come along and point out what to do? I didn't think so. Look at other guys profiles that do just fine. What's different?

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

On here over a year and un-verified; you’re as well to start completely afresh.

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By *reenman19Man
over a year ago

.....no......


"On here over a year and un-verified; you’re as well to start completely afresh. "

If you have no game perhaps

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By *rSmith9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich/London


"Better photos, better bio. Make the bdsm test more relevant to you rather then have the thing as a whole. 10/10 for not having the "legal" notice that has less legal standing then a gentleman's handshake tho lol

What would be better photos? What would you like to see?

And by better bio do you mean a bit more about me in general?

Thanks for pointing out the header, completely forgot I had that haha!

Attention to detail!

As for "what to put what pics"...if you get a meet would you want me to come along and point out what to do? I didn't think so. Look at other guys profiles that do just fine. What's different? "

That sounds like a good plan! Thank you!!

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By *rSmith9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich/London


"On here over a year and un-verified; you’re as well to start completely afresh. "

Yeah it’s been a bit of a busy year for me outside of fab haha! Is it really worth starting over?

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By *reenman19Man
over a year ago

.....no......


"On here over a year and un-verified; you’re as well to start completely afresh.

Yeah it’s been a bit of a busy year for me outside of fab haha! Is it really worth starting over? "

No, get out to a social or club when lockdown is lifted. Try something new, the definition of insanity and all that jazz....

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