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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good evening all. We seem to be getting lots of folk view our profile but not much interest. Is it due to lack of pics do you think or the fact we wont cross our boundaries of only playing with each other as we watch and be watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just approach fab your way and I’m sure you will have fun.

Be lucky.

T

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By *entcouple69Couple
over a year ago

London/Kent

We had similar. We’ve been on the site a couple of years almost and we’ve still yet to meet anyone. We have the issue of thinking we like some ideas but not sure on how to execute them as such.

I think with lockdown being in play too, that certainly doesn’t help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take your time OP.

There’s someone for everyone on Fab. We’re all looking for slightly different things.

Stick with your boundaries, you might find they change over time but that’s got to be your choice.

Lockdown is having a huge effect on how people are using Fab at the moment. The good thing is you won’t be getting bombarded with requests to meet. That can be overwhelming at first.

Hope it works out well for you both x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Profile looks fine OP, i think it’s just a quiet Fab phase at the moment but it’ll pick up i’m sure.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Good evening all. We seem to be getting lots of folk view our profile but not much interest. Is it due to lack of pics do you think or the fact we wont cross our boundaries of only playing with each other as we watch and be watched"

Only wanting to soft swing is possibly going to hinder people wanting to meet you. However, there are other couples out their who only soft swing so it is not impossible..

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Good evening all. We seem to be getting lots of folk view our profile but not much interest. Is it due to lack of pics do you think or the fact we wont cross our boundaries of only playing with each other as we watch and be watched"

The current lockdown doesn't help obviously but beyond that, just do whatever.

Personally speaking (without any offense meant), as a full swap couple we wouldn't approach you guys but I would assume others will. You'll find what you want.eventually. Dont be afraid to approach others rather than waiting for them to come to you. The worst anyone can say is no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbie here too OP.

Profile looks good and can see you doing well on here.

Just be respectful and yourself is the advice i've been given.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Good evening all. We seem to be getting lots of folk view our profile but not much interest. Is it due to lack of pics do you think or the fact we wont cross our boundaries of only playing with each other as we watch and be watched"

What you are looking for is very specific & quite niche - you want a couple to just watch you, or to play together so you can watch them.

Clubs are the best places to play & be watched, and watch other play, once lockdown is over.

I’d imagine most couples will be looking for soft swap as a minimum (touching, oral) but you need to go at your own pace.

Maybe try camming with people watching you as a starter & try clubs again once lockdown is over

Good luck x

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

I'm a newbie too! In regards to clubs as a single female is there any advice going alone? Or should I befriend some fabbers who might want to join me? A bit shy over here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone looks for different things in a meet so you won’t be what everyone is looking for

The best advise I will give a newbie is be patient stick to what you have agreed As your boundrys

Stay safe and when the time is right in the future welcome to the wonderful world of swinging

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By *heyoungwolfMan
over a year ago

Stockwell

I'm new to swinging myself but I can share my experience of going to Fetish and BDSM events.

It's really useful to know someone at a club beforehand.

I went to socials (munches) before I went to the play parties.

I quickly established a little group and good friends I still go to events with.

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