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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, i wouldn't say so, guys know you get bombarded i think

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By *reenman19Man
over a year ago

.....no......

Why change your ways to suit the rampant masses? stick to your guns if they don't like that then sod them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?"

Yes it is very rude and you must do things my way to please me me me!!!!!

NO of course not and I’m also a bit OCD and do the self same thing and the way you or us approach fab is our business and our adventure so we can and should approach fab as we see fit imho.

Delete enjoy stay safe.

T

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?"

Deleting to me shows you are not interested.

I tend to think the people that don’t are picture hunters.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?

Deleting to me shows you are not interested.

I tend to think the people that don’t are picture hunters. "

As I said I delete everyone, including people I am interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the same. I like a clear inbox, so I delete messages I am not interested in, then reply to and delete those that do interest me!

I don't see the point in keeping a bunch of messages sitting in my inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your inbox, so it's your choice how to run it!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

A tidy box is always good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?"

Same, I can't help it...

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We wouldn't be offended. Disappointed maybe but not offended.

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By *oriarty99Man
over a year ago

London


"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?"

Is this a genuine question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?

Deleting to me shows you are not interested.

I tend to think the people that don’t are picture hunters. "
exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worry if I delete messages from someone I like they will think I've lost interest.

What I do is delete all but the most recent one.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?"

I do the same.

How others interpret how you choose to manage your account is their problem.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?

I do the same.

How others interpret how you choose to manage your account is their problem."

Do you get blocked alot purely on the fact you do this?

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I have an OCD of always keeping my inbox clear of messages. Regardless whether I want to stay in touch with someone or not, I always delete my whole inbox and save the messages I later want to reply to, or I keep them on my friends list or hot list. But I noticed how many people get offended by my behaviour. Is it really rude to delete messages?"

I do the same. However it can sometimes cause problems. I was chatting to a couple. We exchanged a few messages. I had about 10 different replies in my inbox so I deleted 9 of them. The couple accused me of not being interested in them and timewaster, then blocked me for deleting some of their replies.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I guess I'm just not sexy enough

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I guess I'm just not sexy enough "

I think people assume that when people delete their messages. But what I'm trying to explain with this thread, it's not always a negative reason why people delete messages

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