FabSwingers.com forum: i honoured my ex not liking this lifestyle

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

now I'm single... Looking for a lady to share the love swinging

how do I vet them?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

No offence but if your just out a relationship maybe you should try and be single for a while rather than jump straight in looking for a new swinging partner.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"No offence but if your just out a relationship maybe you should try and be single for a while rather than jump straight in looking for a new swinging partner.

Well said

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"now I'm single... Looking for a lady to share the love swinging

how do I vet them?

On fab you do not vet ladies, they vet you !

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

And going by the green arrow you are coming across as a bit desperate.

Enjoy the single life for a bit.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"No offence but if your just out a relationship maybe you should try and be single for a while rather than jump straight in looking for a new swinging partner.

Well said"

Thirded. Good advice.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"And going by the green arrow you are coming across as a bit desperate.

Enjoy the single life for a bit."

OMG.. how many threads in under an hour?? Are you going for a world record OP?! I have to agree, you are coming across as a bit desparate tbh, calm down and chill for a bit lol. Good luck!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nine threads in an hour and a half?

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

"No offence but if your just out a relationship maybe you should try and be single for a while rather than jump straight in looking for a new swinging partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nine threads in an hour and a half?"

13 now. That’s some prolific posting fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"now I'm single... Looking for a lady to share the love swinging

how do I vet them?

On fab you do not vet ladies, they vet you ! "

Hahahaha x

Hugs my good man x

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish

"How do I vet them?"

Says it all really.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I honoured my ex not liking this lifestyle". You could have honoured her by giving up swinging and staying together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The green arrow is In my mind one of the best features on fab and can help to keep the fab experience smooth and safe.

Best of luck again op

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the responses, sorry for the late reply I have not been online.

By the way I mean vet people in everyday life not on here Fabs.

I didn't break up with my ex for swinging, she cheated on me while on holiday.

I have been single now over 6months.

What's the green arrow?

anyway just trying to chat with likeminded people on here, I'm not desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a little green arrow next to the posters name. If you click it you can see all the threads they've posted to... everyone can see your posting history.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"Thanks for the responses, sorry for the late reply I have not been online.

By the way I mean vet people in everyday life not on here Fabs.

I didn't break up with my ex for swinging, she cheated on me while on holiday.

I have been single now over 6months.

What's the green arrow?

anyway just trying to chat with likeminded people on here, I'm not desperate.

You begin with talking to people. If it’s someone in the ‘vanilla’ world, the only way you will know if they have an interest in the lifestyle is to ask them. Of course, it shouldn’t be the first thing you ask. If you’re looking for partners on here, the same social rules with politeness and respect also apply, when sending out messages.

Just be aware if you haven’t read the FAQs already, that no reply means ‘no thanks’. It isn’t rude. Furthermore, you do come across as a little ‘desperate’, when someone complains impoliteness in their status update that they received no messages after so many views. Why would someone want to say ‘hi’, if they decided you weren’t for them?

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