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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry for the rant but arrange a meet a month ago chatted for a bit before I made any arrangements. Finally book hotel and train. I know that I'm responsible and there is risk but some people have the nerve to cut all contact and ignore.

2 or 3 week with no replies I finally get a txt back a week before meet doesnt know who I am. I explain which she doesn't reply. Uses excuse out of battery but replied to an unknown person fast enough.

Wish she had the guts to say not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow ... quite a scathing status about her on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow nice profile not!! Very aggressive and think ul find u can't name n shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens a lot on here but naming isn't allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I think that after 2 or 3 weeks with no replies that I may have taken the hint that any chance of a meet was now out of the window

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I can see loads of women wanting to meet you now......... Knowing,if they have to cancel they'll quite possibly be ranted about and named in public!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that after 2 or 3 weeks with no replies that I may have taken the hint that any chance of a meet was now out of the window"

Haha I think I'd have realised sooner!

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

hes gone x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I think that after 2 or 3 weeks with no replies that I may have taken the hint that any chance of a meet was now out of the window"

Two, me t. Its not nice when the other party doesnt play fair but it happens. Chalk it up to experience and move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You not exactly made yourself a man to not miss have you. Can't see many ladies saying wow what aggression that's such a turn on I must message this boy right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reported him for name and shame don't know if that helped his decision to leave but he don't know her side of things. I have been really fed up with some on here but never ever name as Is only my _iew

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I think he worked out it might be better to start again than to have he name associated with this type of thread... I am sure he will be back and claim this never happened.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And he is gone.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I reported him for name and shame don't know if that helped his decision to leave but he don't know her side of things. I have been really fed up with some on here but never ever name as Is only my _iew"

Pretty sure he'll be back in about 5 mins with a new profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have cancelled. Son admitted to hospital. Daughter came home upset and then Internet went down. Life happens it's alright for those who don't have family or work responsibilities . No reason to so called shame. It's a form of bullying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To add to last post. We get upset with those who don't understand these things happen x

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By *lashygalWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I have guys arranging meets then either don't turn up or you just don't hear from them. THEN they have the bare face cheek to try and reschedule another meet (which is not happening).... I would never name and shame . I just wouldn't be interested in arranging any other meets with them. One strike and you're out.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

her choice

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"We have cancelled. Son admitted to hospital. Daughter came home upset and then Internet went down. Life happens it's alright for those who don't have family or work responsibilities . No reason to so called shame. It's a form of bullying "

But on all occasions did you let the people you were meeting know?

I think the point of the OP is that she didn't even say she wasn't coming, just ignored himthen denied even knowing him. That's outof order in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that after 2 or 3 weeks with no replies that I may have taken the hint that any chance of a meet was now out of the window"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah well, he'll be online with a new profile an hour ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that after 2 or 3 weeks with no replies that I may have taken the hint that any chance of a meet was now out of the window"

exactly, i doubt i would of booked anything till so much closer to the time.

sounds quite long distance too if u need to book a train as well and a hotel.

ive had people aggree to a meet more than a week later, and if they not messaging back in the days before you know for a fact its probs not going to happen. just got to learn from expierence and not get your hopes up for something and dont be daft throwing lots of money at trying to force a situation as if its right then usually its not much of a problem to do at yours or there place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have guys arranging meets then either don't turn up or you just don't hear from them. THEN they have the bare face cheek to try and reschedule another meet (which is not happening).... I would never name and shame . I just wouldn't be interested in arranging any other meets with them. One strike and you're out."

Yeah Im in complete agreement with this. Happens to me all the time. I do tell my female friends on here though so they dont make the same mistakes as me!

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

This has happened to me quite alot you've just got to accept there's fakers,there's players n there's some people that like to just talk.. Bitch then there are also genuine peeps

I've been on around a month been offered lots of meets n fun.....but only actually met 3 peeps

I accept some things are unavoidable n some people have other priorities other than fab....... But manners cost nothing n a message or tx would have been good

Maybe the OP was too pushy n forced the others to cancel n deny knowing him..

Who knows he ant even for balls to defend himself

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

I wonder if there's a new guy just joined from the same town/postcode on here!

he's not from Woking is he?????? Ooooohhhhhh ssshhhiiiitttttttttt!

Not me guv!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had to both cancel at the last moment and but meets short due to caring responsibility but before we get anywhere near arrange any meet I tell him/them about my situation and if they accept great if not we all move on. Real life gets in the way sometimes but you don't always know what's happening in someone's life

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