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By *andf OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cumbernauld

How do i make my man submit to me? Ive already tied him up etc. But he still manages to stop me, and say no. I want him to b in such aw, that he will follow my cmds?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

If he isn't sub then you can't make him submit to you. Maybe talk about what you want, how it will enhance your sex life but at the end of the day if he doesn't want it you wont get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't make someone submit to you, you earn their trust to the point where they give you their submission.

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By *andf OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cumbernauld

Oh i completely agree, we discuss everything. This is 1 of his fantasies. I'm quite sub and need some trash talk to start us off. Ta for the input so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your sub why dont you swop around.

But as above say...you submit because you want to and love doing it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Oh i completely agree, we discuss everything. This is 1 of his fantasies. I'm quite sub and need some trash talk to start us off. Ta for the input so far"

It seems that you're more looking for "tie and tease" play. There's a difference. Likewise I don't meet men that want me to "boss" them around.

I'm sure you'll find what you both want.

Have fun!

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By *andf OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cumbernauld

Yeah i do. But when we were discussing, he told me he fancies it. So were trying it. Any tips on talk or acts appreciated. I want to be as close to a dominatrix without the wips!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join one of the numerous specialist fet sites and get some information from there. Probably more suited to you than here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah i do. But when we were discussing, he told me he fancies it. So were trying it. Any tips on talk or acts appreciated. I want to be as close to a dominatrix without the wips! "

well just get the whip out the first time he dont play along and say if ur not a good boy it will be coming back out until you learn the error of your ways haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off the top of my head..

Ball gag, so he cant say no or answer back,

Decent ties, (plastic ties are good, cheap and strong; however keep some decent sissors to hand) or rope, tied tightly,

Crop swinging off your arm & tell him if he doesnt behave you will use it :D

If he doubts you, one decent whack at the beginning should convince him and stop him being bratty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to be as close to a dominatrix without the wips!

hahahah sorry, thats just so funny

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I want to be as close to a dominatrix without the wips!

hahahah sorry, thats just so funny"

Why, can't you control someone using words and mind play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to be as close to a dominatrix without the wips!

hahahah sorry, thats just so funny

Why, can't you control someone using words and mind play? "

Yes you can

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

If heis inagreement try both writing things you cando to him on playing cards. Make it a mixture of things he likes and things that push his boundaries. Once he is tied you can shuffle the cards and take on at a time. This way it is down to fate and therefore he cant say no. You could also include punishments and rewards. If he chooses he can take a punishment instead of whatis on the card ( something he doesnt like much) if he complies he might get a reward ( something hedoes like!)

Hope that helps!

Mark

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By *keenyMan
over a year ago

harrogate


"How do i make my man submit to me? Ive already tied him up etc. But he still manages to stop me, and say no. I want him to b in such aw, that he will follow my cmds? "

tie him up better and gag him or play with me mistress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to be as close to a dominatrix without the wips!

hahahah sorry, thats just so funny

Why, can't you control someone using words and mind play? "

I can!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to be as close to a dominatrix without the wips!

hahahah sorry, thats just so funny

Why, can't you control someone using words and mind play? "

yes i do but just the quote made me laugh

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By *andf OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cumbernauld

Thanks everyone lots of great ideas here. The card game sounds fun - thanks to pennienmark for that top tip

oooh the possibilities are endless hehe ;

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