FabSwingers.com forum: Why do guys find anal with a woman a big turn on ?

By *aughtycp1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I'm a married woman, Hubby and I enjoy Hot Wifing. I absolutely love anal sex with a well endowed man. So much so I'm anal only (apart from blowjobs). When I tell guys I am only into anal instead of being disappointed they generally seem to get over excited at the thought of having my bum. What is it about anal that drives guys wild ? Just curious.

Mrs N

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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago

Camarthen

It's usually very taboo with most women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not vanilla, more intimate.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"I'm a married woman, Hubby and I enjoy Hot Wifing. I absolutely love anal sex with a well endowed man. So much so I'm anal only (apart from blowjobs). When I tell guys I am only into anal instead of being disappointed they generally seem to get over excited at the thought of having my bum. What is it about anal that drives guys wild ? Just curious.

Mrs N"

Because nice girls don't, only very bad ones do.

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Not in to anal although have gave it to a few women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife enjoys anal too if taken slowly to begin with. Somehow just feels very naughty and of course nice and tight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs N

Because nice girls don't, only very bad ones do."

Hahaha! Pretty good summation!

Although it’s not a rare thing as such, it’s still a little out of the norm and probably why it’s as attractive as it is.

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

It is just the naughty thing isn't it for most, feels just a little taboo.

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By *udosMan
over a year ago

hull

For me it's the total submission and willingness to satisfy.

Very sexy and such a turn on !

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By *rafficvanMan
over a year ago

Middletown

Love giving women anal feels amazing also like like she been naughty too.

. Also women in legging too so hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn’t tell you why but I just love the idea of a Anal with women....

Mrs N"

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By *ictoriaathomeTV/TS
over a year ago

Huddersfield

She shows a level of trust and loving, she gets great pleasure from it as I do. It gives another dimension when we make love.

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Following this thread....it really does seem to do it for alot of guys. Hmmm....

MsD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Following this thread....it really does seem to do it for alot of guys. Hmmm....

MsD"

Same! Never done anal sex but always wonder about the fascination....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constrained supply exponentially increases demand

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Love it. I’d say the majority of girls don’t do it. So it makes it even better when you find the one that does. It’s still quite taboo. Feels great. Looks great. And I’m an ass man. Lol x"

Quite a few men do not enjoy it. I have always enjoyed anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love it. I’d say the majority of girls don’t do it. So it makes it even better when you find the one that does. It’s still quite taboo. Feels great. Looks great. And I’m an ass man. Lol x

Quite a few men do not enjoy it. I have always enjoyed anal "

I can imagine. It’s deffo not for everyone. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's just that next level of intamacy. I love giving anal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love anal, quite often prefer it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love anal, quite often prefer it"

Bravo x

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By *rishcowboy36Man
over a year ago

dundalk

Not a massive fan but love licking it for some reason

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By *utual InterestsMan
over a year ago

Kent

It's so naughty fucking a ladies arse when you know there is a lovely wet pussy so close too

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By *orkshirefucktruck3Man
over a year ago

rotherham

love fucking girls anal,there just isnt enough girls into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to rim the female ass lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me ... its the gary glitter ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love fucking ass hmm and licking some asses lol

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Have tried it a few times and have never enjoyed it any tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have tried it a few times and have never enjoyed it any tips "

I'd be more than happy to assist you

The main thing is to relax and lots of lube. An ex used to regularly slide a dildo up her ass so that helped too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried it but hoping too with a young lady I met on here. Won't break the rules so waiting for covid to be over. We have broached the subject and we are both up for it.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Have tried the lots of lube and tgs dildo still didnt work is it true that you can get an organism from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have tried the lots of lube and tgs dildo still didnt work is it true that you can get an organism from it "

I can't pm you. Send me a pm and I'll reply x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My missus loves it we start slow then she tells me when to go fast and hard and she cums hard and loud from it i love fucking her ass and running my tongue round it as she really gets off on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My missus loves it we start slow then she tells me when to go fast and hard and she cums hard and loud from it i love fucking her ass and running my tongue round it as she really gets off on it "

That sounds soo hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very taboo or used to be. A lot of women don’t enjoy or even entertain it still

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Could never go back to vanilla sex. We have a sub/Dom relationship and it's simple, Suzie's arse is mine alone. The rest of her is shared. Anal is a core part of the reclaim sex after escorting or swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We want to try but have not so far... not sure how to go about it... but Alisha really wants to do it.... and her ass looks like it needs it lol... to inviting lol

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Following this thread....it really does seem to do it for alot of guys. Hmmm....

MsD

Same! Never done anal sex but always wonder about the fascination...."

I prefer it over vaginal sometimes, have had amazing orgasms from it. My ass belongs to MrD. Even on meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love anal, quite often prefer it"

Love it when a sexy curvy lady ASKS for anal

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Do like anal with a lady who enjoys receiving, any couples or ladies fancy a chat

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By *ork and MindyMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Mindy loves it, nice and deep

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish

We introduced Mrs Smiler to anal last year. It wasn't something she had ever done nor was it something I had asked to do as she said that it wasn't her thing when we met.

She asked for it and using lots of lube, we gently initiated her.....and haven't looked back. (Mr)

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

"Have tried the lots of lube and tgs dildo still didnt work is it true that you can get an organism from it "

You absolutely can and it’s great. I’m selective of who I do it with but I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like anal but I’m quite surprised at how many not into it on this thread

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By *aughtycp1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Really interesting to see people's preferences to it. I can have an orgasm from anal. It feels so good leaves me trembling for ages afterwards.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Personally, I prefer vaginal sex, because it's a much warmer, erotic feeling. From my point of view, anal sex doesn't "touch the sides" in the same way.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I’m turned by a Woman who knows what she wants and takes it. A lady who demands anal for her pleasure would have me diamonds hard.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

It's so intense, adds that extra feeling and so hot if done properly

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

Done right, it can often give the lady an amazing, very very intense orgasm that leaves her shaking from head to toe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs N"

Different guys will give different answers,but let me ask Mrs N,what is it you love about anal.

What is it makes you prefer it to vaginal sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I prefer vaginal sex, because it's a much warmer, erotic feeling. From my point of view, anal sex doesn't "touch the sides" in the same way."

I get what you mean and agree. Anal can be a turn on and exciting in specific scenarios. I enjoy it, but don't crave or go 'wild' for it.

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By *urious8812Couple
over a year ago

dorchester

It’s so much more sensitive, I come much easier and quicker through anal. It’s fun when you find a man who’s really into too as I’ve found quite a few aren’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal is a very intimate experience and required a certain connection and understanding, as can be quite easy for the guy to get carried away and it becomes a not so nice for the the woman.

Lots of lube, lots of foreplay help.

It’s a different feeling from vaginal sex for the guy, and it’s more of a mental stimulation perhaps at time? It’s like the “forbidden fruit” and the old saying goes , “always want what you think you can’t have” haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also it can be a bit messy no matter how much prep, so better to be with someone you fee comfortable around so you don’t feel conscious wtc

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Historically buggery was an offence that resulted in the death penalty, so taboo is right...Not sure when it was legalised in a hetero way...

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"Historically buggery was an offence that resulted in the death penalty, so taboo is right...Not sure when it was legalised in a hetero way..."

November 1994, apparently.....

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By *ames69069Man
over a year ago

southend

Well I absolutely love it, have done it with virtually all my previous relationships short or long term, except one, you guessed it, the one I married. Funny that!

Anyway for me it's not about the feeling at all, the tightness or anything like that. It's the fact that the sex at that moment has just gone to a whole new level. Its pure filth, really dirty sex in a bordering main stream kind of way, but right on the limit of acceptability before it encroaches weird. For a woman to be willing to let you stick your cock up her arse is so incredibly intimate and horny, and then as a bonus to let you cum up there too. Well that's amazing and so exciting. For the woman, I would imagine the same but I would have thought there's a physical pleasure element too.

I don't though enjoy it so much if it becomes the norm, and the preferred method, that takes away all the excitement that you're about to do something a bit more risky and daring, a bit taboo, which maybe might even be slightly uncomfortable but it's the consenting to that, be it at times even somewhat nervously which heightens the fun.

With my wife though, who is an amazing woman, Im lucky though to at best go there even with my finger. She is a doctor though, so maybe she knows too much! Oh the compromises we make for a perfect married life. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the reasons us T-girls do so well with married men. Most of us love anal

and of course for the guy its deliciously tight!

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm thinking of trying it, with Grey's ok. Never wanted to before but watching porn has kind of picqued my interest.

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

Looks like i need to try it again. Not big fan of it but maybe this time will be better

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

It’s naughty

Taboo

It’s tight

The pleasure it gives (when done right)

It’s different from the norm

You can tease the clit or pussy while balls deep in the ass..

The list goes on

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Have tried the lots of lube and tgs dildo still didnt work is it true that you can get an organism from it "

My most powerful orgasms come from anal

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Neither of us have any interest in anal. We just don't see the appeal. There is already a custom-made orifice for that sort of thing.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"Also it can be a bit messy no matter how much prep, so better to be with someone you fee comfortable around so you don’t feel conscious wtc

I have such good memories of one particular girl. Never did any prep and was always super clean?? Best anal I've ever had. Cumming in her arse was heaven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got an arseful from hubby this morning

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Got an arseful from hubby this morning

Just a little jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got an arseful from hubby this morning

Just a little jealous"

Lol he does feel amazing

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'll happily perform anal for a partner that enjoys it, but it doesn't especially do anything for me. I find it offers *less* sensation for me than vaginal sex.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

It does nothing for me. So much so that I tell guys it is definitely NOT on the menu...so to speak.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Neither of us have any interest in anal. We just don't see the appeal. There is already a custom-made orifice for that sort of thing. "

Exit only!!!

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By *ireman28Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire Nottinghamshire

It doesn't!

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

"Looks like i need to try it again. Not big fan of it but maybe this time will be better"

I wasn’t a particular fan of it the first few times but once you relax and do it more, I now love it. It’s naughty and the orgasms are great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got an arseful from hubby this morning

Lucky you two lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal always feels incredibly naughty, I absolutely love sliding my hard cock into a tight arse that has been lovingly licked, teased and the receiver feels ready for entry

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Sweet corn ..

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

There is nothing I enjoy more than rimming and playing with a ladies arse before having anal sex.As others have stated on this thread it’s generally taboo , forbidden fruit and that’s one of the things I like about it.Many years ago and perhaps even now in some cultures a women’s first sexual experience could well be anal sex as they are expected to be vagina virgins until they are married.

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By *ave 42Man
over a year ago

pontefract

Anal feels so much tighter and I always seem to cum more

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Change is good as a rest.

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral

It’s not the norm for us, well not him doing it to me at least haha. But every now and again, I really WANT it! Has to start off slow and generally with me backing on to it for a while if get my drift. Don’t think I’d do it with anybody else, in fact, we’re wanting to try hot wife scenario etc and have both agreed my bum is off limits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel like I'm on the outside of the circle

I'm REALLY not into Anal or bum stuff at all

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Because it becomes all about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find it a turn on, quite the opposite.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

To be fair it is lovely and tight around your willie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I don’t see the attraction. Women already have two very enjoyable orifices.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

It’s the forbidden fruit and expresses control by both parties

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Feel like I'm on the outside of the circle

I'm REALLY not into Anal or bum stuff at all

No you are not alone.

I'm not really into it either.

When I'm staring at a juicy pussy the other hole is of no interest.

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By *olvesguy47Man
over a year ago

stafford

An ex of mine would come from me rimming her gorgeous arse and demand an arseful of cum afterwards..... found it unbelievably erotic but I've always loved bums! Never been with a woman who didn't like her arse played with??? Lucky I guess.....

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By *rystaldenisonWoman
over a year ago

salisbury

just a shame more guys dont know how to do anal .... like warm me up dont just try and jab me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have tried the lots of lube and tgs dildo still didnt work is it true that you can get an organism from it "

Some can, some don't.

Not everyone likes it, so don't worry if you don't enjoy it.

I love anal with women who enjoy it because of a feeling of being wanted in there.

If it's just to please me, it's tighter and doesn't feel better than vaginal.

The kink makes it, kinda the brain telling you that you shouldn't be doing it.

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

Cos men can't fuck themself.

But it's more to do with the fact that most women in your daddy to day life don't say yes to anal...

Its still pretty taboo. Most women who enjoy it don't outright and say it.. So men get excited when you OP state you love anal.

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

"just a shame more guys dont know how to do anal .... like warm me up dont just try and jab me lol "

So true.

Men forget that anal requires more foreplay. So lots of kisisng and licking required.

Men don't realises that the arse does not self lubricant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not in to anal although have gave it to a few women "

This

Not really my thing either....but if it pleases the lady then why not? I'm a giver not a taker....but find that works as pleasure gets given back in return....

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

"It does nothing for me. So much so that I tell guys it is definitely NOT on the menu...so to speak."

Shame.. But then the rest of you is so damn hot I would not mind..

Specily your amazing breast and nipples mmmmmm

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By *oriarty99Man
over a year ago

London

Doesn’t really bother me tbh. Yeah it’s a bit tighter but other than I prefer vaginal sex

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By *asher11Man
over a year ago

market harborough

as a straight single guy who loves joining couples for 3 sums a lot of it is in the head not only are you in another guys wife with his permission your up her bum a double whammy in the mind .and it feels great lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never used to like it but recently I really enjoy my man's cock in my bum... Feels amazing when done properly.

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By *ibsonVicMan
over a year ago

Minworth

It's naughty, a bit taboo - almost wicked somehow.

It feels completely different as well - in a very good way.

It somehow seems more intimate as well. Depends on the circumstances, but on occasion it seems very special...

Does that make sense?

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By *artanbunnyCouple
over a year ago

magor / caldicot

Mmmmm the "tabooness" of my man unloading cum into my tight ass hole feels so good. We don't do it often but when we do its very good. The difference in orgasm as people have mentioned is a great feeling too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to double fingering ladies pussy and bum it turns me on

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By *pandjMan
over a year ago

Sparkford

It's like shagging a straight and dry pipe even with lube. Prefer the self lubricating and more spongey hole.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

It’s one of those things where the concept is often better than the reality.

It’s very very tight, but only in a short band.

So, not my favourite, but fun now and again, and because it’s one of those things not everyone is into it makes it special and exciting.

Also I’m told I’m quite girthy so that’s another limiting factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is down to choice and relaxation- precious girlfriend wouldn’t do it but agreed to try a small plug, if I did the same. So we used to shag lots whilst both having butt plugs in, really hot. Unfortunately we then split (it was me, not her)

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

"Personally, I don’t see the attraction. Women already have two very enjoyable orifices."

But three is the magic number ... according to De La Soul anyway

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Because it's a taboo and naughty

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Feel like I'm on the outside of the circle

I'm REALLY not into Anal or bum stuff at all

Me too!

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"It does nothing for me. So much so that I tell guys it is definitely NOT on the menu...so to speak.

Shame.. But then the rest of you is so damn hot I would not mind..

Specily your amazing breast and nipples mmmmmm

Here's a question for you......would you turn down a meet if a lady said "No Anal"?

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Love women that do but there's still so many women, even on fabs, that won't. I respect that choice & it wouldn't stop me from meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women who enjoy it don't outright and say it.. So men get excited when you OP state you love anal.

I've noticed a few ladies on this forum saying they enjoy anal sex, but on their profiles state they don't.

Confusing

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By *ilverminxWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Have tried the lots of lube and tgs dildo still didnt work is it true that you can get an organism from it

My most powerful orgasms come from anal"

I’d love to know how because personally doesn’t do it for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a question for you......would you turn down a meet if a lady said "No Anal"? "

I'm not looking for that, but yes I would.

Actually when looking at profiles I specifically look for those that list anal, and generally skip those that don't.

Those people have their preferences and so do I, we're all different

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By *urious8812Couple
over a year ago

dorchester

"Most women who enjoy it don't outright and say it.. So men get excited when you OP state you love anal.

I've noticed a few ladies on this forum saying they enjoy anal sex, but on their profiles state they don't.

Perhaps the lady might enjoy anal but the husband isn’t into it.

Confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would make sense, but these are simply ladies profiles rather than couples

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Mrs N"

I think it’s the excitement of sharing something that seems quite brazen, private, not spoken about in polite company. Being invited to share that intimacy with someone is certainly a big turn on for me!

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Historically buggery was an offence that resulted in the death penalty, so taboo is right...Not sure when it was legalised in a hetero way..."

As far as I'm aware buggery is still illegal but not persuaded unless connected to a sex offence. I think alot of why it was illegal was to prevent male to male & deter women wanted from sex all together instead of using it as a way to remain a virgin/prevent pregnancy before marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most women who enjoy it don't outright and say it.. So men get excited when you OP state you love anal.

I've noticed a few ladies on this forum saying they enjoy anal sex, but on their profiles state they don't.

Confusing

Maybe it's something they only do with a partner or FB and not with everyone. I think it requires a level of trust that they may only do with someone they have been with more than once.

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By *assparellasparkeldustCouple
over a year ago

BLACKPOOL

Yes indeed I prefer it to.. Mmmmm

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By *assparellasparkeldustCouple
over a year ago

BLACKPOOL

I do better than normal sex lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Because it feels tighter around the dick? Lol

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By *illingexperienceMan
over a year ago

Essex

Anal is like breaking the rules but i love breaking the rules so

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

"Because it feels tighter around the dick? Lol"

I have to admit, from experience, completely the opposite.

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

"It does nothing for me. So much so that I tell guys it is definitely NOT on the menu...so to speak.

Shame.. But then the rest of you is so damn hot I would not mind..

Specily your amazing breast and nipples mmmmmm

Here's a question for you......would you turn down a meet if a lady said "No Anal"? "

Of course not.. Anal is not the only thing to a women..

But for you I would not care.. Yous are too damn cute and sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs N"

Fancy a bum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it feels tighter around the dick? Lol

I have to admit, from experience, completely the opposite."

Bet she needs to take care when she farts then.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Mrs N"

Because it’s not readily available to them like regular sex

It’s the extra naughty

Plus porn has bigged up anal over recent years just like squirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tried it with the wife but not my thing.i just think I might hurt her,she say "in my dreams"

She is keen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have tried it with the wife but not my thing.i just think I might hurt her,she say "in my dreams"

She is keen "

Top tip, keep your lady happy

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Because it feels tighter around the dick? Lol

I have to admit, from experience, completely the opposite."

Really? That does surprise me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it feels tighter around the dick? Lol

I have to admit, from experience, completely the opposite.

Really? That does surprise me!"

Frequent bowel movements

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

Mrs N"

I believe its the taboo scenario, I do enjoy anal with a Hotwife but also enjoy DP with the couple as husband buried deep in her pussy as I'm in her bum

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Because women love it up trap two.

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By *arvest 84Man
over a year ago

SCAWBY, NEAR , BRIGG.

im not fussed about giving a lady anal, but love to rim a lady and want to eat a cream pie out of her arse.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"Because women love it up trap two.

Not every woman

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Mrs N"

Bit of a generalisation. Not a massive fan of anal.

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By *oman wantedCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester

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By *oman wantedCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester

I prefer it and have photo's to prove it.hot cum from hubby face to face whilst having my arse pounded is an amazing feeling. Stick a vibe in my pussy same time and that's another level xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of a generalisation. Not a massive fan of anal."

It maybe a bit of a generalisation and of course everyone has their own preference but out of my own personal experience 90% it’s offered, the guy’s face lights up like a kid in a candy store

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton

Most Guys like anal cos really they gay in the closet and hiding the fact

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton

"Most Guys like anal cos really they gay in the closet and hiding the fact

No biological difference between a female ass and a males ass lol just think that of that guys when you slip up Yr next poop shoot hahahahhaha

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By *tio_oyMan
over a year ago

Amsterdam Holland

Cause most men can't get it at home??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it, but Its not a sex act I offer just anyone. I prefer slow steady deep anal, so have to know the person doing it will do it that way and not go at it like a jack hammer when carried away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the old days when wifey and I had a sex life she used to enjoy anal, regularly orgasming from it as well. She used to love being DP’d with her vibrator as well.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"It does nothing for me. So much so that I tell guys it is definitely NOT on the menu...so to speak.

Shame.. But then the rest of you is so damn hot I would not mind..

Specily your amazing breast and nipples mmmmmm

Here's a question for you......would you turn down a meet if a lady said "No Anal"?

Of course not.. Anal is not the only thing to a women..

But for you I would not care.. Yous are too damn cute and sexy"

Right answer!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like giving anal to men and women. I have had a few girlfriends who were into anal and to me it showed they were sexually liberated and wanted to enjoy their bodies to the full. It lead on to great DP sessions. I found if a woman really liked a cock up her arse it was not a big jump to get her to want her cunt fucked at same time....its a obvious next step. I enjoy arse fucking women because its usually tighter around the cock and puts greater intensity on the cock. Also as its considered naughty it indicates to me that she could be up for more adventerous activities. I have also been privilaged to introduce several anal virgins to the pain pleasure of a first arse fuck. Both women and men. And i can honestly say that they all wanted to do it again in later meetings. So if there are any curious anal virgins out there ..please get in touch. I will guide you gently through the process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried it many years ago, didn't like it at all, don't like any kind of bum play either. I have written it on my profile and also i make it clear when arranging meets that i don't want any kind of bum play. However so many keep telling me they like it and that i'd enjoy it with them .... no !!! I don't meet them then. Also some guys try it on during the meet !!! Idiots ... i stop playing with them straight away.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

My ex got a lot more out of receiving it than I did giving. It's fun, I suppose, but it's not an obsession or a deal breaker for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tried it many years ago, didn't like it at all, don't like any kind of bum play either. I have written it on my profile and also i make it clear when arranging meets that i don't want any kind of bum play. However so many keep telling me they like it and that i'd enjoy it with them .... no !!! I don't meet them then. Also some guys try it on during the meet !!! Idiots ... i stop playing with them straight away. "

This is the danger with bum play, some seem to think that “if only I was just gentle to start off with she might like it”

Just as with everything else guys, no means no.

Having said that I do like it and I equally get off on how it feels and how excited the guy gets when you say yes, win win for me just don’t try to convince someone who says no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tried it many years ago, didn't like it at all, don't like any kind of bum play either. I have written it on my profile and also i make it clear when arranging meets that i don't want any kind of bum play. However so many keep prbtelling me they like it and that i'd enjoy it with them .... no !!! I don't meet them then. Also some guys try it on during the meet !!! Idiots ... i stop playing with them straight away.

This is the danger with bum play, some seem to think that “if only I was just gentle to start off with she might like it”

Just as with everything else guys, no means no.

Having said that I do like it and I equally get off on how it feels and how excited the guy gets when you say yes, win win for me just don’t try to convince someone who says no"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tried it many years ago, didn't like it at all, don't like any kind of bum play either. I have written it on my profile and also i make it clear when arranging meets that i don't want any kind of bum play. However so many keep prbtelling me they like it and that i'd enjoy it with them .... no !!! I don't meet them then. Also some guys try it on during the meet !!! Idiots ... i stop playing with them straight away.

This is the danger with bum play, some seem to think that “if only I was just gentle to start off with she might like it”

Just as with everything else guys, no means no.

Having said that I do like it and I equally get off on how it feels and how excited the guy gets when you say yes, win win for me just don’t try to convince someone who says no"

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By *ave35300Man
over a year ago

kendal

My wife has multiple orgasams through anal

Mrs N"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks like i need to try it again. Not big fan of it but maybe this time will be better"

Start with a tongue and progress!

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

"It does nothing for me. So much so that I tell guys it is definitely NOT on the menu...so to speak.

Shame.. But then the rest of you is so damn hot I would not mind..

Specily your amazing breast and nipples mmmmmm

Here's a question for you......would you turn down a meet if a lady said "No Anal"?

Of course not.. Anal is not the only thing to a women..

But for you I would not care.. Yous are too damn cute and sexy

Right answer!!!

O thats sweet. I just being honest. Didn't realise it was a text.

So what do I get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love anal sex

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Mrs N"

Not with me (Mrs) they don't no anal play allowed at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it...start slow n gentle then build up..intense...mmm lol

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By *wobirds300Couple
over a year ago

Colchester

he tells me that he likes to struggle sliding in and cum inside my tight asshole .

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

I seem to be in the minority as I’ve no desire whatsoever for anal and can’t think of one positive that might make me change my mind. In the past I’ve done anal with two previous long term girlfriends who enjoyed it but even then it was only a couple of times with each as we agreed vaginal sex was better. I have a very thick cock (7” in circumference) so lots of lube and patience was required for anal and unlike vaginal sex once penetrated the variety of alternative positions was limited. I enjoy tantric sex which can last 2 or 3 hours and if anal is part of that the cleaning required before oral or vaginal breaks the flow so if the lady likes anal my solution these days is to use a glass anal dildo or insert my fingers as part of the session. I suppose the “everyone is different” applies and I will just have to accept my fate.

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By *edGMan
over a year ago

Daventry

You're not alone Surrey Dave. I can't stand it. I did it a couple of times as I had a girlfriend once who loved it.

My wife has developed a liking for it over recent years, she often orgasms when a guy cums in her bum hole.

The benefits of the lifestyle lol.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Love it when j says fuck me up the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to be in the minority as I’ve no desire whatsoever for anal and can’t think of one positive that might make me change my mind. In the past I’ve done anal with two previous long term girlfriends who enjoyed it but even then it was only a couple of times with each as we agreed vaginal sex was better. I have a very thick cock (7” in circumference) so lots of lube and patience was required for anal and unlike vaginal sex once penetrated the variety of alternative positions was limited. I enjoy tantric sex which can last 2 or 3 hours and if anal is part of that the cleaning required before oral or vaginal breaks the flow so if the lady likes anal my solution these days is to use a glass anal dildo or insert my fingers as part of the session. I suppose the “everyone is different” applies and I will just have to accept my fate. "

Yes I agree, if your after a long session it's either best to agree to finish with anal or play with a butt plug in place/other toys for the sensation.

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Anal can be great when receiver has douched properly if not its an instant anti climaxer nothing worse than a poo covered condom or cock yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Following this thread....it really does seem to do it for alot of guys. Hmmm....

MsD

Same! Never done anal sex but always wonder about the fascination...."

What about a finger or thumb?

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Love the feeling the build up and the build up kissing rimming to ladies only may I quote

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I'm an all round anal virgin not been with someone willing to try something different and have a little fun

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Need to find my self a woman who enjoy’s it

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By *agmanMan
over a year ago

Cockermouth

"What is it about anal that drives guys wild ? Just curious.

Mrs N"

Even nowadays, for Mr and Mrs normal in the street, it's still considered a 'taboo' in many ways..........not 'the norm' for a man and wife. We all know that every man and wife couple (and other assorted combinations) have 'sex' - and sex will 'normally' be considered as vaginal sex. For the purposes of procreation.

The vagina was designed for it - the bumhole was designed for something else........so we get excited when we are engaging in an activity that's classed by the majority of society as being a no-no......we're the 1% who are going further.

So, if it's such a 'bad thing to do' why does the anus have so many nerve endings that give so much pleasure when excited?

Maybe it's us who have it wrong......I don't remember being given an instruction booklet that says no anal?

Like age limits and other suchlike restrictions handed down through family discussion and maybe even....eventually coming into being law.......'these norms' have been put in place by our forefathers trying to limit society's penchant for going too far and harming itself.

I can tell how excited by sex Mrs Bag is ..........if she's really turned on she'll whisper those magic words......but for me it's not a goal....if it happens (at her initiation) then great......i know she's enjoying this and is excited - and that is the excitement for me........to have a horny woman beside me letting me play with her........hopefully with no limits.

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I just love how naughty it is and how diferent it feels. Finding myself a woman who does almost exclusively anal would be like a dream come true for me

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Sorry, I just think there is something a bit gay about fucking an ass. Call me old fashioned. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as most on here, I’ve not actually met a lady who fully enjoys it yet. Most are against it and occasional, I’ve been allowed

But I think because I’m told no so many times, it makes me want it more or maybe because I enjoy receiving anal too

Either way if an ass is presented, it sends me into overdrive

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

I like it .... the naughtiness of it... the giving up of it in absolute wanton lust....

But I freaking hate the risk of mess!

And yes I know all the advise... you can 'prepare' and I know that if any man wants to go there well... it's at his risk.

But there's just something about the risk of mess that turns me into an awkward virgin!

So.... yes to anal some days with a regular or long term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just woman, im partial to a bit of it myself

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Anal with the right lady is unbelievably good and intense

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By *reenman19Man
over a year ago

.....no......

It's warm

It's right

It's more degrading to women.

Look up "how to get your girlfriend to have anal sex with you" on YouTube.

The above aren't my ideas, I just like it because it feels naughtier

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By *ooking for fun30Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Personally I'm not a big fan of anal. I prefer the vagina. I know I'm probably in the minority here!

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

"Following this thread....it really does seem to do it for alot of guys. Hmmm....

MsD

Same! Never done anal sex but always wonder about the fascination....

What about a finger or thumb? "

Hold your horses.

Let's start with a kiss and a lick before we move to the fingers n thumb

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"It's warm

It's right

It's more degrading to women.

Look up "how to get your girlfriend to have anal sex with you" on YouTube.

The above aren't my ideas, I just like it because it feels naughtier"

I've never thought of it as degrading to women!

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