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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fairly newbie here with clearly no idea of what to do or how to go about this site.i was told about it and what it was all about etc basically a place where peopel get to meet amd possibly go further more etc(obviously once lockdown rules lift)

Im not looking for a relationship but wouldnt mind the odd NSA or meets when and as

Im not going to lie like but im 75% of the time horny as hell but i cant seem to get to chat or start a chatcto actually progress..really frustrated

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Are you gonna post the same (spelling mistakes in all) in all the forums till you get a reply you want to read?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't you get the response you wanted in the thread you started half an hour ago?

I'd probably recommend deleting your profile and starting again.. As previously mentioned, the green arrow next to your name shows all the threads you've commented on/started.... Its not pretty reading...

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland


"Are you gonna post the same (spelling mistakes in all) in all the forums till you get a reply you want to read?"

I think the answer to that is... yus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing stopping you doing well on this site is looking at you in the nearest mirror that you can find op and starting multiple look at me threads is really not helping so can I please suggest the following.

Calm down.

Proof read your posts/messages to make sure they make sense.

Google the words RESPECT and PATIENCE.

Nothing is a god given right on here and you only get out what you put in.

Best of luck.

T

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

You've not asked for profile advice so we'll keep it vague but there's nothing tempting in it, and the language and grammar make you sound like a bit of a lad just looking for a quick (and dirty?) bunk up. Every single girl and every single couple on here already have a list of single guys they can call on for a quickie.

And your comment about chat.....now is really the wrong time for it. I'm sure you wake up and feel lucky if there's one or two messages in your inbox and you don't mind replying to them. Single girls and couples get ten/twenty/fifty/hundreds per day, all asking the same questions: "what are you doing today?", "How's your day going?", etc, and it's just not possible to answer them all.

With lockdown meaning we can't meet, we're trying to maintain a list of guys we will meet but we really don't want to chat to them. We have "real" friends that we have stuff in common with. It seems rude to tell them to shush and get back to us after lockdown, yet it's also really difficult to maintain communication with so many people.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There is a particular thing noticably absent from your threads and profile: RESPECT.

You seem to be under the impression that just because you feel horny then a woman will just open her legs for you. It really doesn't work like that. You are not a charity. Women generally speaking find there is more to sex that just having a cock rammed into them. You seem unaware of this.

It is true that this is a site for sexually-liberated people, but that's not the same thing as people who have no standards.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"There is a particular thing noticably absent from your threads and profile: RESPECT.

You seem to be under the impression that just because you feel horny then a woman will just open her legs for you. It really doesn't work like that. You are not a charity. Women generally speaking find there is more to sex that just having a cock rammed into them. You seem unaware of this.

It is true that this is a site for sexually-liberated people, but that's not the same thing as people who have no standards. "

Well said!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Are you a troll, OP? You start these threads and only on one thread have you responded to anything anybody has said. Your disrespectful approach with unrealistic hopes make me think you just want to see what reaction to can get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way you think women are just somewhere to dump your cum does you no favours. I do not wish you the best of luck.

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