FabSwingers.com forum: Are you a timewaster because you’re not in a hurry to meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else experiencing this?

Maybe i need to look at my profile if its sending out conflicting messages (Feedback welcome) but I'm not in a hurry to meet anyone. Numbers have dropped but covid is still a thing. Plus theres no where to go or are all socials in random parks etc.

I’d like to hear ppls opinions

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"Anyone else experiencing this?

I’d like to hear ppls opinions "

No you're not being a timewaster, coronavirus or no coronavirus don't let anyone rush or harass you into anything you're not ready for

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By *ivelaughlove16Couple
over a year ago

norfolk/Suffolk border

We are definitely not in a hurry to meet ,no point taking unnecessary risks as nothings gone away at the moment,just keeping in contact with friends and if people do not want to wait then not worth meeting as far as we are concerned,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else experiencing this?

I’d like to hear ppls opinions "

It seems precise and that you know what you want.

If you have the wrong type messaging, it'll be that they are chancing their arm....

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By *hy-totCouple
over a year ago

Skellow

stay as you are its what you want and that my dear is your choice never forget that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, for lots of guys its "meet me tonight" and then when I won't they disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Meet who you want to meet when you want to meet them, there's no rush

It should be a mutual decision to meet

Ray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you’re not a time waster.

Your adventure at your speed!!!

We find that most people that have NO TIMEWASTERS on their profile generally turn out to be just that and time wasters them self’s.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Not at all. I won't be meeting even my regular playmates until it is safe and at the moment the experts are still saying no.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's normally the faceless instashaggers that accuse me of being a timewaster as I won't invite them to mine and instantly drop my knickers for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in no hurry to meet covid or no covid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing that suggests you are a time waster to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going to put you in the mindset of a normal honest guy.....

He logs on to Fab... reads your profile, likes the picture , looks at your location , and you are 10 miles away..... Great ......

He writes a great message, sends over a few face pics, and hopes you reply.....

You reply, you guys have great banter....

Guy starts to think “ Hey , this girl is cool. I would like to meet her “

He then proceeds to ask if you can meet tonight, or tomorrow during the day....

You tell him no you’re busy..... Ok no problem...

You continue to talk , weekend passes....

He checks the forums..... You have been on Fab posting 24/7.... Which is your right....

Now he sends you a message asking politely “ When are you available to meet this week “

You tell him you’re very busy, you will get back to him....

Now this guy is thinking wow ... This lady posts everyday on Fab , is constantly online but she is too busy to meet even for a quick social , and I’m only 10 miles away....

Hmmm..... she must be a time waster

Now I’m not saying you’re doing anything wrong and your profile is fine... I’m just trying to showing you how some men may think you’re a time waster...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was never in a hurry before. I'm not in a hurry now either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else experiencing this?

Nothing wrong with that; I have been blocked for something very similar. Scotland still have the lockdown with no social bubble. People aren’t taking it seriously up here

I’d like to hear ppls opinions "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am apparently a time waster because I don't meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am apparently a time waster because I don't meet...

Your profile is very clear as to what you are here for

They are the timewasters for asking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As to when we meet,or when we will meet,that's up to us,it's our decision,and if others don't like that,well,it's not like we are missing out on anything

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

Only meet when you want with you want. That does not mean that you are jumping into bed either.

Covid or no Covid.

I am following the Dutch advice and trying to find 1 FWB to spend time with during the crisis. Finding them near me in Germany is being a challenge.

Happy fabbing all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you make it clear from the start you are not looking for instant meets thats not time-wasting. Ive chatted to people recently established we seem compatible and asked them to keep in touch with a view to meeting after lockdown.

If someones post says.. Looking to meet today.. And you string them along with no intention of meeting.. Time-wasting

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I am apparently a time waster because I don't meet...

Your profile is very clear as to what you are here for

They are the timewasters for asking to meet."

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If they don't read a profile before messaging they are wasting their own time too.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

The first two paragraphs make it perfectly clear.

If anyone says that you are time wasting then I think they need to look a little closer to home.

The change needed is not with your profile. It's with the idiots sending the messages.

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