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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s the best way to get women to have fun with you on fab ideas ladies I’d love to hear them

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

First port of call is always the profile and pics.....if your struggling start there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not telling you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First port of call is always the profile and pics.....if your struggling start there."

Thanks!!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Wear a dress and know how to do your own make up, it seems to work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m having a tough time meeting people on here!! On the verge of giving up haha

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use tasers. They work!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"What’s the best way to get women to have fun with you on fab ideas ladies I’d love to hear them "

I advise the green arrow..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the best way to get women to have fun with you on fab ideas ladies I’d love to hear them

I advise the green arrow.. "

That lips!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"What’s the best way to get women to have fun with you on fab ideas ladies I’d love to hear them

I advise the green arrow..

That lips! "

Yup

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Fab Lesson 1

This is not Instashag. You want a shag? You gotta put a bit of groundwork in.

Fab Lesson 2

Play it cool. Overeager men desperate for a taste of fanny WILL NOT, i repeat, WILL NOT get the ladies clamouring for cock.

Fab Lesson 3

Just take your time. It’s not a race. Why put pressure on yourself. Treat it as “if i get a meet then great, if not then meh...”

Fab Lesson 4

Don’t get bitter. Don’t be THAT guy.

Fab Lesson 5

Be honest about what you want. Some women can whiff out a bullshitter at 50 paces.

Fab Lesson 6

Have fun. If it’s not fun then is it all really worth it?

Fab Lesson 8

Have a sense of humour and a thick skin. Don’t take a knockback personally. It might be about you or she may have had 25 “fuck me now” messages and she’s fucked off and you were the 26th message.

Hope this helps.

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By *iss_taylorraeWoman
over a year ago

Here and there


"Fab Lesson 1

This is not Instashag. You want a shag? You gotta put a bit of groundwork in.

Fab Lesson 2

Play it cool. Overeager men desperate for a taste of fanny WILL NOT, i repeat, WILL NOT get the ladies clamouring for cock.

Fab Lesson 3

Just take your time. It’s not a race. Why put pressure on yourself. Treat it as “if i get a meet then great, if not then meh...”

Fab Lesson 4

Don’t get bitter. Don’t be THAT guy.

Fab Lesson 5

Be honest about what you want. Some women can whiff out a bullshitter at 50 paces.

Fab Lesson 6

Have fun. If it’s not fun then is it all really worth it?

Fab Lesson 8

Have a sense of humour and a thick skin. Don’t take a knockback personally. It might be about you or she may have had 25 “fuck me now” messages and she’s fucked off and you were the 26th message.

Hope this helps.

"

This

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By *oppy CheeksWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Couldn’t have said it better myself, but what happened to Fab rule number 7? Lol. I just delete & don’t reply to most messages as if I try a thanks but no thanks polite response, just tend to get a load of abuse! ????

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The best way is to he what they're looking for in every respect

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Couldn’t have said it better myself, but what happened to Fab rule number 7? Lol. I just delete & don’t reply to most messages as if I try a thanks but no thanks polite response, just tend to get a load of abuse! ????"

I can’t count

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By *eivers101Couple
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Fab Lesson 1

This is not Instashag. You want a shag? You gotta put a bit of groundwork in.

Fab Lesson 2

Play it cool. Overeager men desperate for a taste of fanny WILL NOT, i repeat, WILL NOT get the ladies clamouring for cock.

Fab Lesson 3

Just take your time. It’s not a race. Why put pressure on yourself. Treat it as “if i get a meet then great, if not then meh...”

Fab Lesson 4

Don’t get bitter. Don’t be THAT guy.

Fab Lesson 5

Be honest about what you want. Some women can whiff out a bullshitter at 50 paces.

Fab Lesson 6

Have fun. If it’s not fun then is it all really worth it?

Fab Lesson 8

Have a sense of humour and a thick skin. Don’t take a knockback personally. It might be about you or she may have had 25 “fuck me now” messages and she’s fucked off and you were the 26th message.

Hope this helps.

"
well said x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Fab Lesson 1

This is not Instashag. You want a shag? You gotta put a bit of groundwork in.

Fab Lesson 2

Play it cool. Overeager men desperate for a taste of fanny WILL NOT, i repeat, WILL NOT get the ladies clamouring for cock.

Fab Lesson 3

Just take your time. It’s not a race. Why put pressure on yourself. Treat it as “if i get a meet then great, if not then meh...”

Fab Lesson 4

Don’t get bitter. Don’t be THAT guy.

Fab Lesson 5

Be honest about what you want. Some women can whiff out a bullshitter at 50 paces.

Fab Lesson 6

Have fun. If it’s not fun then is it all really worth it?

Fab Lesson 8

Have a sense of humour and a thick skin. Don’t take a knockback personally. It might be about you or she may have had 25 “fuck me now” messages and she’s fucked off and you were the 26th message.

Hope this helps.

"

I’m stealing this

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"What’s the best way to get women to have fun with you on fab ideas ladies I’d love to hear them "

Firstly, you don’t GET women to have fun with you.

This is not about some secret formula to get your willy wet. It’s about being yourself and hoping that that corresponds with what some (preferably local) women are looking for.

If you are happy with your profile and how you message women, and that both reflect you as a person then great. In my eyes there’s little to be gained from trying to project yourself as someone that you’re not. If however, you thing that you could better represent yourself while remaining genuine, then perhaps think how to better show that in your profile and the messages you send. It’s not rocket science. Be yourself, but be the best part of that.

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By *ral_isthenewblackMan
over a year ago

london

People are different so what works for me might not for you but I will chip in still.

First of all get some clear better pics on yr profile... u seem to put more emphasis on yr cock... it's a turn of for some ladies esp when yr pics ain't clear.

Secondly once all this is over get yrself to a club. There you meet loads of people. Engage. Make friends and chat with people. From one you know two and 3 and 4... etc..there is no fast track rule. U have to put the work and get some verifications on yr profile. Am sure you should be fine afterwards. Good luck.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Fab Lesson 1

This is not Instashag. You want a shag? You gotta put a bit of groundwork in.

Fab Lesson 2

Play it cool. Overeager men desperate for a taste of fanny WILL NOT, i repeat, WILL NOT get the ladies clamouring for cock.

Fab Lesson 3

Just take your time. It’s not a race. Why put pressure on yourself. Treat it as “if i get a meet then great, if not then meh...”

Fab Lesson 4

Don’t get bitter. Don’t be THAT guy.

Fab Lesson 5

Be honest about what you want. Some women can whiff out a bullshitter at 50 paces.

Fab Lesson 6

Have fun. If it’s not fun then is it all really worth it?

Fab Lesson 8

Have a sense of humour and a thick skin. Don’t take a knockback personally. It might be about you or she may have had 25 “fuck me now” messages and she’s fucked off and you were the 26th message.

Hope this helps.

"

Fab Lesson 9: What happened to Fab Lesson 7?

Fab Lesson 7: Ah. There it is.

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