FabSwingers.com forum: Tantric massage

By *ananas2013 OP Man
over a year ago

wolves

Hi all anyone had a tantric massage and are they any good

Thanks

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Something i would love to try..k

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By *assage Walsall GentMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Tried it, not for me as I prefer hand to skin contact. But everyone is different.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I highly recommend you try it. It could change your life.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Mine was mind blowing

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

When done correctly is is amazing. A tantric massage isn't the same as a sensual or sexual massage. It is as much to do with how the mind receives the pleasure as it is about the body sensations.

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By *ampolCouple
over a year ago

Stevenage

We are looking for some one who gives sensual sexy massages.. not some one who has some baby oil and been told there good at it..

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Thats on my list of things I'd love to experience

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By *ananas2013 OP Man
over a year ago

wolves

"Mine was mind blowing"
where did you go ?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

There’s very little point in having a tantric massage if you haven’t studied Tantra. If you don’t understand the cycle of sexual energy, and how to control that through ejaculation-free or non clitoral orgasms then the massage itself will be of very little benefit. If on the other hand you mean a sensual ‘eastern style’ massage then knock yourself out. One is administered t tough a highly trained Tantra practitioner, the other isn’t.

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

"There’s very little point in having a tantric massage if you haven’t studied Tantra. If you don’t understand the cycle of sexual energy, and how to control that through ejaculation-free or non clitoral orgasms then the massage itself will be of very little benefit. If on the other hand you mean a sensual ‘eastern style’ massage then knock yourself out. One is administered t tough a highly trained Tantra practitioner, the other isn’t. "

I understand where you are coming from and you are 100% right about the difference between a sensual massage and tantric massage but I think you're exaggerating the degree of knowledge required to appreciate a tantric massage.

You don't have to be a highly trained in tantra to give and receive a tantric massage. You do however need to understand the basics.

Like any skill the more you know and the more experience you have the better you become but don't be put off by thinking you have to study for years. There are several good books on Amazon that will give you sufficent info to appreciate tantra and start your journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a tantric massage

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"There are several good books on Amazon that will give you sufficent info to appreciate tantra and start your journey. "

Granted, providing providing you’re willing to invest the time and patience in understanding what Tantra is and how it works. There are lots of books on how to play cricket as well, but reading them won’t make me play like Ben Stokes. I see posts like this on fab all the time about “mind blowing tantric massages” which mean absolutely nothing, and give the impression that it is something done to you, rather than something which assists in facilitating the practice you have learned.

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

"There are lots of books on how to play cricket as well, but reading them won’t make me play like Ben Stokes. "

Yes, but you don't have to be at Ben Stokes standard to enjoy cricket.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"There are lots of books on how to play cricket as well, but reading them won’t make me play like Ben Stokes.

Yes, but you don't have to be at Ben Stokes standard to enjoy cricket. "

My point was that reading about it won’t make you a player (if any standard). You need to put that knowledge into practice.

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

"There are lots of books on how to play cricket as well, but reading them won’t make me play like Ben Stokes.

Yes, but you don't have to be at Ben Stokes standard to enjoy cricket.

My point was that reading about it won’t make you a player (if any standard). You need to put that knowledge into practice. "

I agree. If you look a few posts earlier I said the following -

"Like any skill the more you know and the more experience you have the better you become" I think we are on the same side.

The two biggest misunderstandings I encounter are

1 - Tantric massage is the same as a sensual massage. It isn't

2 - Only the giver of the tantric massage needs knowledge/experience. Not true, both giver and receiver require training.

Unfortunately those misunderstandings are found in the vast majority of people who talk about tantric massage.

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By *ananas2013 OP Man
over a year ago

wolves

As l read it, it was aboutyour pleasure but if want the masseur will join in if wanted maybe wrong as new to this.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"As l read it, it was aboutyour pleasure but if want the masseur will join in if wanted maybe wrong as new to this."

Yes. Completely wrong. You should google Tantra. It’s not really about sex in a traditional sense at all.

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By *ananas2013 OP Man
over a year ago

wolves

"As l read it, it was aboutyour pleasure but if want the masseur will join in if wanted maybe wrong as new to this.

Yes. Completely wrong. You should google Tantra. It’s not really about sex in a traditional sense at all. "

I will it was only what l read on the website. It was about you enjoying it and getting the best out of the experience mind and body. With the benefit of anything you wanted

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By *enreillyMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Hi all anyone had a tantric massage and are they any good

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I had it and I experienced a male dry orgasm... My entire body was shivering yet no ejaculation... Strongest orgasm ever...

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

We have read a lot about Tantra massage, if done by someone who has studied the art it sounds very good

Jess would love to try it but has only had offers from guys who obviously don’t have the first clue about the art of Tantra massage

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By *ananas2013 OP Man
over a year ago

wolves

"We have read a lot about Tantra massage, if done by someone who has studied the art it sounds very good

Jess would love to try it but has only had offers from guys who obviously don’t have the first clue about the art of Tantra massage "

It is a proper place that does them.

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By *ookinginspainMan
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Wonderfull if done right.. can highly reccomend it

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

So how do you practice... who are the Guinea Pigs ?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"So how do you practice... who are the Guinea Pigs ? "

You need to train, in the same way was any other massage discipline. Tantra is a holistic, one might even say lifestyle discipline. It’s not just a way of getting great orgasms.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

It is possible to separate the esoteric and sexual elements of Tantra, but there are no quick paths to sacred sexual ecstasy. There are plenty of books, online courses and videos which concentrate on the sexual elemsts. For most beginners I’d recommend Barbara Carrellas: Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

But I mean recipients .. do you practice with a loved one?

Presumably you cant charge while you are putting the theory into practice so who volunteers for such an intimate training experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I'm so far away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome if you are this way for the massage to remember,

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s something I really enjoy giving.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"But I mean recipients .. do you practice with a loved one?

Presumably you cant charge while you are putting the theory into practice so who volunteers for such an intimate training experience? "

As with and training of this nature, you would practice on other trainees and the trainers, and slowly extend this outwards Many couples learn together, so would also practice on each other.

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By *ananas2013 OP Man
over a year ago

wolves

"But I mean recipients .. do you practice with a loved one?

Presumably you cant charge while you are putting the theory into practice so who volunteers for such an intimate training experience?

As with and training of this nature, you would practice on other trainees and the trainers, and slowly extend this outwards Many couples learn together, so would also practice on each other. "

Mr jake thanks for info you seem to know alot about it. Have read about it some more and can't wait to try one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must try this. Its awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you know how to massage a body properly, evoking sexual feelings. You don’t need tantric options!

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By *iratedave2Man
over a year ago

dartford

"If you know how to massage a body properly, evoking sexual feelings. You don’t need tantric options!"

Unfortunately this shows that you don't understand tantra.

It took a year of one to one "training" for me to get it. Its opening up your mind, and stimulating your whole body.

You can practice some of the techniques on yourself (no, not having a wank!)

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By *ananas2013 OP Man
over a year ago

wolves

"If you know how to massage a body properly, evoking sexual feelings. You don’t need tantric options!

Unfortunately this shows that you don't understand tantra.

It took a year of one to one "training" for me to get it. Its opening up your mind, and stimulating your whole body.

You can practice some of the techniques on yourself (no, not having a wank!) "

Yes l read its about mind and body not just wam bam.

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

"If you know how to massage a body properly, evoking sexual feelings. You don’t need tantric options!"

A typical comment from someone who has no idea about tantra and how powerful the mind can be in apreciating physical sensations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does it offer to someone who is already capable of experiencing ecstatic joy from sexual pleasure? What does it add?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"What does it offer to someone who is already capable of experiencing ecstatic joy from sexual pleasure? What does it add?"

Leaving aside all the meditative and esoteric practices (it’s about much more than sex), here is a good introduction to benefits.... I do this at least once a year: 21daychallenge dot com and indeed have very few spasm orgasms away from play meets.

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By *ananas2013 OP Man
over a year ago

wolves

Not talking about the sex side but if the masseur is hung and fit would a like feel be aloud

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"Not talking about the sex side but if the masseur is hung and fit would a like feel be aloud "

That’s an irrelevant question. It makes no sense.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Hi all anyone had a tantric massage and are they any good

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I had one in Amsterdam years ago. Amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love one. Anyone local need a test subject for practice?

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By *ananas2013 OP Man
over a year ago

wolves

Going to book one after lockdown over can't wait

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By *ellameowCouple
over a year ago

Earls Ct, london

I had this it was amazing:

http://www.ebonyandivory.website/

Had from both of them, and you can have it as one of them and on your own..

Very sensual, life changing experience!

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving tantra and nuru xx

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Some good references,

Margot Anand, The Art of Sexual Ecstasy,

Anything by Sarita,

Lots of talks etc by John Hawken online.

Daniel Odier, a french teacher,

Omooni, a german online teacher, loads of material,

Dawn Cartwright, in USA, lots of writings and trainings.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Groping the therapist without permission...!! Youll end up with a bloody nose or down in the clink.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think most people are just looking for a sensual / sexy buzz. A proper tantra practitioner would not take a client like this , why would they ?

Anyway.... I do a great massage so I’m told. I’m currently using sweet almond oil with a tiny bit of Neroli, it’s super potent. Don’t expect a duck at the end lol , it sometimes happens but I’m more interested in the practice and getting to know the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would love have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome when we can if I'm not too far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fem am trained in tantric massage and always looking for practice

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By *he OriginalsCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

"You must try this. Its awesome"

Don't have a clue what it is but do you think I should have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I fem am trained in tantric massage and always looking for practice

I'm regularly in Bath (well, once we're allowed out again!) if you need a willing victim, I mean, subject!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tantric massage is incredible when done properly. Always makes me cum like a volcano and leaves me euphoric afterward

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"Tantric massage is incredible when done properly. Always makes me cum like a volcano and leaves me euphoric afterward"

With tantric massage you don’t ejaculate. So no volcanic orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tantric massage is incredible when done properly. Always makes me cum like a volcano and leaves me euphoric afterward

With tantric massage you don’t ejaculate. So no volcanic orgasms. "

My bad, I always thought it was the same as sensual massage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could do with one of these for both of us

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By *anzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lanzarote

"Tantric massage is incredible when done properly. Always makes me cum like a volcano and leaves me euphoric afterward

With tantric massage you don’t ejaculate. So no volcanic orgasms. "

It depends on the Tantra. The goal of White Tantra has no Orgasm. Red Tantra is very explosive and Black Tantra, well

Just google that

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By *anzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lanzarote

"Some good references,

Margot Anand, The Art of Sexual Ecstasy,

Anything by Sarita,

Lots of talks etc by John Hawken online.

Daniel Odier, a french teacher,

Omooni, a german online teacher, loads of material,

Dawn Cartwright, in USA, lots of writings and trainings. "

Yes!

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By *tableMasterMan
over a year ago

We can highly recommend NakedSpirit in the Midlands.

Google it.

He offers Tantric massage to men, women and couples.

Several of our friends have raved about him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested in booking a red tantric massage for my gf, never had one myself so what’s involved? Is she brought to orgasm during it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tantric massage is incredible when done properly. Always makes me cum like a volcano and leaves me euphoric afterward

With tantric massage you don’t ejaculate. So no volcanic orgasms.

It depends on the Tantra. The goal of White Tantra has no Orgasm. Red Tantra is very explosive and Black Tantra, well

Just google that

Can I just recommend people google "Dark Tantra" instead of "Black Tantra", which will just give a load of porn links to black girls giving tantric massages. Nothing wrong with that of course, but I don't think it's what the poster was aiming for.

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By *itguy21066Man
over a year ago

leicester

"We can highly recommend NakedSpirit in the Midlands.

Google it.

He offers Tantric massage to men, women and couples.

Several of our friends have raved about him. "

Yes we can both recommend Naked spirit Too, we’ve visited him on a couple of occasions and both had a naked tantric massage each very horny

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By *ananas2013 OP Man
over a year ago

wolves

"We can highly recommend NakedSpirit in the Midlands.

Google it.

He offers Tantric massage to men, women and couples.

Several of our friends have raved about him.

Thanks will give him a try

Yes we can both recommend Naked spirit Too, we’ve visited him on a couple of occasions and both had a naked tantric massage each very horny "

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"Tantric massage is incredible when done properly. Always makes me cum like a volcano and leaves me euphoric afterward

With tantric massage you don’t ejaculate. So no volcanic orgasms.

It depends on the Tantra. The goal of White Tantra has no Orgasm. Red Tantra is very explosive and Black Tantra, well

Just google that

Don’t forget Orange, Pink, Yellow Green and Purple Tantra as well. FFS! We wouldn’t want to confuse things would we?

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Sue loves massage of all types...and has had had the pleasure of tantric ...it spoils you

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By *itguy21066Man
over a year ago

leicester

"We can highly recommend NakedSpirit in the Midlands.

Google it.

He offers Tantric massage to men, women and couples.

Several of our friends have raved about him.

Yes we can both recommend Naked spirit Too, we’ve visited him on a couple of occasions and both had a naked tantric massage each very horny "

And if you ask before the massage he will let you touch his cock which adds to it!!

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By *ananas2013 OP Man
over a year ago

wolves

"We can highly recommend NakedSpirit in the Midlands.

Google it.

He offers Tantric massage to men, women and couples.

Several of our friends have raved about him.

????

Yes we can both recommend Naked spirit Too, we’ve visited him on a couple of occasions and both had a naked tantric massage each very horny

And if you ask before the massage he will let you touch his cock which adds to it!! "

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