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By *rre786 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading

Hello all

I've uploaded a couple of photos to my profile today, and would like to ask for some advice if the t-shirt or topless photo is a better way to go for that all important first impression?

Thanks in advance, happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of last photo. The other 2 are alright.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Get rid of last photo. The other 2 are alright."
. -- THIS

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Get rid of last photo. The other 2 are alright."

Definitely this.

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By *rre786 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading

Well that's a clear response. Thank you for taking the time. .

Ok, so got rid of photo number 3, and made the t-shirt one my profile picture.

Still unsure if the topless one is off-putting though!?!

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Still unsure if the topless one is off-putting though!?!"

Your profile says straight, so my opinion isn't important, but the topless pic is fine. I would

Bry.

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By *rre786 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Still unsure if the topless one is off-putting though!?!

Your profile says straight, so my opinion isn't important, but the topless pic is fine. I would

Bry."

All opinions are important, and I'm flattered by yours. Thank you.

But indeed, sadly not sure I'm appealing to the audience I hope too...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I prefer the Tshirt pic in this pose. Consider how you could have alternative poses that would also work.

Photographers take zillions of pics before they reduce them to the few that they will use. Different environments, poses, lighting etc will all vary the results. I prefer pics taken by other people, so that your posture is free from stretching and you can relax. Get some over the summer outside is my suggestion

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By *rre786 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"I prefer the Tshirt pic in this pose. Consider how you could have alternative poses that would also work.

Photographers take zillions of pics before they reduce them to the few that they will use. Different environments, poses, lighting etc will all vary the results. I prefer pics taken by other people, so that your posture is free from stretching and you can relax. Get some over the summer outside is my suggestion "

Thank you for the feedback. Duly noted.

Yeah, finding someone else to take photos with and the like would be nice...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

First impression do count, but remember the next message after yours to a woman on here could have a face picture and a great write up.

My opinion if you can’t show your face, then the text in the profile needs to make up for it.

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By *rre786 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"First impression do count, but remember the next message after yours to a woman on here could have a face picture and a great write up.

My opinion if you can’t show your face, then the text in the profile needs to make up for it. "

Thank you. I do send face picture in direct messages, just not in public.

And totally agree on the text. I try to do what I can, but I'm sure that could do with some work as well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone wanna give me some help? Send me a message with advice

Tryna get my fab life off the ground haha

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP I think it looks a little odd that your pictures are identical poses, one with the tshirt and one without. Could you try a different pose ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's OP's best pose.

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By *rre786 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"OP I think it looks a little odd that your pictures are identical poses, one with the tshirt and one without. Could you try a different pose ? "

Ha ha, originally I hadn't intended to use both photos, kinda thinking either / or...

The topless photo is getting more likes than I expected, however I still feel better to lead with a covered photo and leave things to be discovered...

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By *rre786 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading


"It's OP's best pose."

I'm taking this as a compliment, thank you.

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