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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

After lockdown, I love to learn how to peg properly. My lovers are usually much taller than me (I am 5ft 3 but like to wear heels whilst having sex and my exes been around 6ft 3 in height)

Any tips about being first time pegger where there's a height difference or doe it not matter?

Happy Friday fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have them lie or sit on the edge of a bed? Prop them up with a few pillows if that's too low.

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

i was taller than my ex who loved pegging me... doggy on the end of the bed so you can either stand or stand over them when entering...

Once going you can get them flat and lie on top, she#d often fuck me into a lying position from doggy. Them on their back, like missionary and it's combos works well too. Getting them to ride cowgirl work's as long as they manage their weight transfer (ie, don't expect you to take the entire weight and handle some themselves)

So height shouldn't be an issue and who doesn't love wearing heels during sex he he x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say have him on all fours and go in from behind or lying on his back missionary. Get a good harness that fits well and start small if he has not had it done before. Use lots of lube too-VIP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read somewhere that the easiest position for anal, and recommended for those new to it, is to lie on your side spooning.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I can't wait until lockdown is over so i can try this

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


"I read somewhere that the easiest position for anal, and recommended for those new to it, is to lie on your side spooning."

Not for pegging, but yes for solo anal play absolutely spot on. Pegging it depends on the person to be honest. I'd suggest the guy laying on his back, with pillow support as needed. That way you can see the terror fill his eyes as your rubber cock slips in for the first time.

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By *ohn Wilson96Man
over a year ago

from inside your wardrobe

Have him ride your strap on if hes a beginner, it gives him the confidence of controlling the depth of penetration. Or have him on his back on the edge of the bed and you stand close to the edge of the bed and peg him

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"After lockdown, I love to learn how to peg properly. My lovers are usually much taller than me (I am 5ft 3 but like to wear heels whilst having sex and my exes been around 6ft 3 in height)

Any tips about being first time pegger where there's a height difference or doe it not matter?

Happy Friday fabbers "

Have the guy get his arse to a height that is comfortable for you. By that that I mean the easiest way for you to learn how to peg somebody is for you to fuck them doggy. Use a bed or something to get his arse at a height you can stand up and comfortably fuck his arse.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If you possibly can somehow get access to a sex swing that really will help, you can adjust the height and obviously swing it towards you giving you more control over the power of your thrust.

If not, bending over the side of a bed works too!

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


"If you possibly can somehow get access to a sex swing that really will help, you can adjust the height and obviously swing it towards you giving you more control over the power of your thrust.

If not, bending over the side of a bed works too!"

I'm not entirely sure that thrusting blindly into a moving target is necessarily the best way to introduce someone to having a rubber dick in their popper, if I'm honest

Side of the bed, nice and slow, lots of lube, and only slam it in balls deep once or twice to establish dominance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think everyone needs to try it’s amazing

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"If you possibly can somehow get access to a sex swing that really will help, you can adjust the height and obviously swing it towards you giving you more control over the power of your thrust.

If not, bending over the side of a bed works too!

I'm not entirely sure that thrusting blindly into a moving target is necessarily the best way to introduce someone to having a rubber dick in their popper, if I'm honest

Side of the bed, nice and slow, lots of lube, and only slam it in balls deep once or twice to establish dominance. "

I wasn't for a second encouraging someone to thrust blindly into any part of anybody. With a swing you can easily adjust height to suit both people and control motion very easily. It doesn't have to be moving very far or very fast.

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


"If you possibly can somehow get access to a sex swing that really will help, you can adjust the height and obviously swing it towards you giving you more control over the power of your thrust.

If not, bending over the side of a bed works too!

I'm not entirely sure that thrusting blindly into a moving target is necessarily the best way to introduce someone to having a rubber dick in their popper, if I'm honest

Side of the bed, nice and slow, lots of lube, and only slam it in balls deep once or twice to establish dominance.

I wasn't for a second encouraging someone to thrust blindly into any part of anybody. With a swing you can easily adjust height to suit both people and control motion very easily. It doesn't have to be moving very far or very fast. "

Oh I'm mostly just teasing - smack my bottom and call me Wendy. And yes, you're absolutely right it's easy (ish) to control speed (I mean, perpetual momentum is a real thing), but I'd still a thousand percent recommend being boring as balls to begin with. Fuck a butthole that ain't moving first.

I mean I'm no expert, but I have had the odd rubber willy in my bum and (shockingly) most ladies aren't inherently skillful when it comes to welding a cock (how is that not an intrinsically valuable biological skill!?) and it takes practice to be able to smash an ass.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Fabulous Wendy glad you were teasing!!!!

And only water-based lube, oil based lubes can damage the dong and nobody goes looking for that.

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


"Fabulous Wendy glad you were teasing!!!!

And only water-based lube, oil based lubes can damage the dong and nobody goes looking for that."

I am but a tease babezzzz. Also don't use silicone lube with silicone toys. But always buy silicone toys if you can afford them. Expensive mofos but they make your butt feel a million bucks.

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By *orthsouthguyMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

First time I did it was on my back, it felt counterintuitive (doggy being the obvious way?) but got to say it worked well!! Managed 8” (I know sounds like I’m bragging, I’m not) so it just shows what’s possible. Played in different positions since. I know it’s getting more popular, maybe as it’s seen as a bit taboo... but get the right partner, plenty of lube, patience and a sense of humour... you’ll have a great time!!!

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"First time I did it was on my back, it felt counterintuitive (doggy being the obvious way?) but got to say it worked well!! Managed 8” (I know sounds like I’m bragging, I’m not) so it just shows what’s possible. Played in different positions since. I know it’s getting more popular, maybe as it’s seen as a bit taboo... but get the right partner, plenty of lube, patience and a sense of humour... you’ll have a great time!!!"

Yes in my head it sounds really awkward doing it when they lying down. He is a big boy as well. I'm going to try doggy as I can see exactly where to go! But yes lots of lube, slowly does it and good foot wear?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"If you possibly can somehow get access to a sex swing that really will help, you can adjust the height and obviously swing it towards you giving you more control over the power of your thrust.

If not, bending over the side of a bed works too!

I'm not entirely sure that thrusting blindly into a moving target is necessarily the best way to introduce someone to having a rubber dick in their popper, if I'm honest

Side of the bed, nice and slow, lots of lube, and only slam it in balls deep once or twice to establish dominance. "

The ultimate dominance excites me the most. I can't wait to get to expert level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After lockdown, I love to learn how to peg properly. My lovers are usually much taller than me (I am 5ft 3 but like to wear heels whilst having sex and my exes been around 6ft 3 in height)

Any tips about being first time pegger where there's a height difference or doe it not matter?

Happy Friday fabbers "

People peg in different ways. I personally peg pants, trousers etc from the bottom. By their ankles as such. Tshirts, jumpers etc too from the bottom(waistband). I mean i'm no dictator, each to their own like, but it does make me itch a bit when i see a nice sweater bein pulled out of shape by bein pinned up by the shoulders.

Btw.. don't let your height get you down. I mean sure you're never gonna be chosen 1st to clean the ceiling fan, but 5'3 is ample for pegging... Ample!

I don't wanna sound presumptious or offensive, but have you taken the prop down? I mean i'm 6'4.. but even i'd struggle.

Hope ya get sorted anyway, and hope i've been any sort of help... if not.. it's trying that counts.

Happy pegging.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"After lockdown, I love to learn how to peg properly. My lovers are usually much taller than me (I am 5ft 3 but like to wear heels whilst having sex and my exes been around 6ft 3 in height)

Any tips about being first time pegger where there's a height difference or doe it not matter?

Happy Friday fabbers

People peg in different ways. I personally peg pants, trousers etc from the bottom. By their ankles as such. Tshirts, jumpers etc too from the bottom(waistband). I mean i'm no dictator, each to their own like, but it does make me itch a bit when i see a nice sweater bein pulled out of shape by bein pinned up by the shoulders.

Btw.. don't let your height get you down. I mean sure you're never gonna be chosen 1st to clean the ceiling fan, but 5'3 is ample for pegging... Ample!

I don't wanna sound presumptious or offensive, but have you taken the prop down? I mean i'm 6'4.. but even i'd struggle.

Hope ya get sorted anyway, and hope i've been any sort of help... if not.. it's trying that counts.

Happy pegging. "

Oh dear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After lockdown, I love to learn how to peg properly. My lovers are usually much taller than me (I am 5ft 3 but like to wear heels whilst having sex and my exes been around 6ft 3 in height)

Any tips about being first time pegger where there's a height difference or doe it not matter?

Happy Friday fabbers

People peg in different ways. I personally peg pants, trousers etc from the bottom. By their ankles as such. Tshirts, jumpers etc too from the bottom(waistband). I mean i'm no dictator, each to their own like, but it does make me itch a bit when i see a nice sweater bein pulled out of shape by bein pinned up by the shoulders.

Btw.. don't let your height get you down. I mean sure you're never gonna be chosen 1st to clean the ceiling fan, but 5'3 is ample for pegging... Ample!

I don't wanna sound presumptious or offensive, but have you taken the prop down? I mean i'm 6'4.. but even i'd struggle.

Hope ya get sorted anyway, and hope i've been any sort of help... if not.. it's trying that counts.

Happy pegging.

Oh dear... "

Oh dear indeed.. lockdown really has sucked away everyones sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After lockdown, I love to learn how to peg properly. My lovers are usually much taller than me (I am 5ft 3 but like to wear heels whilst having sex and my exes been around 6ft 3 in height)

Any tips about being first time pegger where there's a height difference or doe it not matter?

Happy Friday fabbers

People peg in different ways. I personally peg pants, trousers etc from the bottom. By their ankles as such. Tshirts, jumpers etc too from the bottom(waistband). I mean i'm no dictator, each to their own like, but it does make me itch a bit when i see a nice sweater bein pulled out of shape by bein pinned up by the shoulders.

Btw.. don't let your height get you down. I mean sure you're never gonna be chosen 1st to clean the ceiling fan, but 5'3 is ample for pegging... Ample!

I don't wanna sound presumptious or offensive, but have you taken the prop down? I mean i'm 6'4.. but even i'd struggle.

Hope ya get sorted anyway, and hope i've been any sort of help... if not.. it's trying that counts.

Happy pegging.

Oh dear...

Oh dear indeed.. lockdown really has sucked away everyones sense of humour. "

I laughed....I love pegging out.....but I also looovvveeeee pegging!!!! I sound like that old lady on the Aldi advert for tea and gin lol.

At the end of the day, it’s whatever you feel most comfortable with. Best going in slow and steady with a non moving target at first as after all us ladies have no sense of feeling with a plastic dong and it can quite easily go anywhere at any speed and we have no feeling (poor butt hole does tho just remember!!)

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read somewhere that the easiest position for anal, and recommended for those new to it, is to lie on your side spooning.

Not for pegging, but yes for solo anal play absolutely spot on. Pegging it depends on the person to be honest. I'd suggest the guy laying on his back, with pillow support as needed. That way you can see the terror fill his eyes as your rubber cock slips in for the first time. "

Thats how I do it! I love to see the look on their face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have pegged males, females and TV’s in every position possible and then some!

When myself and Abby have had a prolonged night of play, the best way to finish off is spooning. It’s more intimate and at that stage I’m knackered so I can ease the pace.

In the case of a big night difference it’s certainly easier if they sit on top and it’s always exciting to watch them bounce up and down

Miss V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started with a guy alot taller than me. He used to lie on his front, with one leg bent up a little, to his side and I would straddle his straight leg, I could either lie on top of him or be a bit more upright, it was usually quite comfortable and easy to move about, if needed, aswell as good for both of us

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"After lockdown, I love to learn how to peg properly. My lovers are usually much taller than me (I am 5ft 3 but like to wear heels whilst having sex and my exes been around 6ft 3 in height)

Any tips about being first time pegger where there's a height difference or doe it not matter?

Happy Friday fabbers "

The funny thing is I would worry about being pegged by a lady but would be ok with a guy fucking me of his cock was small enough.

Had two tv fuck me once after I had fun with them. Now that was fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be pegged anyone want to help me am a anal virgin

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By *allBristolManMan
over a year ago

nowhere

I'm really looking for a woman who is into pegging and anal stuff...

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"After lockdown, I love to learn how to peg properly. My lovers are usually much taller than me (I am 5ft 3 but like to wear heels whilst having sex and my exes been around 6ft 3 in height)

Any tips about being first time pegger where there's a height difference or doe it not matter?

Happy Friday fabbers

People peg in different ways. I personally peg pants, trousers etc from the bottom. By their ankles as such. Tshirts, jumpers etc too from the bottom(waistband). I mean i'm no dictator, each to their own like, but it does make me itch a bit when i see a nice sweater bein pulled out of shape by bein pinned up by the shoulders.

Btw.. don't let your height get you down. I mean sure you're never gonna be chosen 1st to clean the ceiling fan, but 5'3 is ample for pegging... Ample!

I don't wanna sound presumptious or offensive, but have you taken the prop down? I mean i'm 6'4.. but even i'd struggle.

Hope ya get sorted anyway, and hope i've been any sort of help... if not.. it's trying that counts.

Happy pegging. "

Haha this took me a while to get but I lol'd when I got it! My brain is absolute mush today...!

Hope your pegging experience is a good one!

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Wish lockdown will hurry up and finish so we can get back to some normality and try to fufill our dreams stay safe

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