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"I wouldn't recommend calling them unicorns. " Didn’t think that was offensive, I’d quite like to be a majestic mythical unicorn. Will take note for future | |||
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"I wouldn't recommend calling them unicorns. Didn’t think that was offensive, I’d quite like to be a majestic mythical unicorn. Will take note for future " The term doesn't bother me x | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " Just approach us as normal... speak to us and don't treat us like mythical creature's I still find the whole unicorn funny it amuses me...just speak to me and treat me like the way you want to be treated honestly we ain't that special lmfao | |||
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"I wouldn't recommend calling them unicorns. " Except for the ones who refer to themselves as unicorns, or the other ones who don't care either way | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " Don’t label them, most won’t like it and backs are up instantly!!! | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " I will do the chatting if a woman messages us looking for FF fun. MrD does send out the odd message to single bi women. Its on our profile I would love FF fun & will only chat if I think I might be attracted to the lady. I am not a dirtbag & will chat respectfully & express my desires. MsD | |||
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"Unicorn is actually referring to the rareness of a single woman being kinky and swinging alone ." | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " Pretend to be a tall and muscular single guy.... I’m way more likely to reply to him | |||
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"I'm finding that I'm not used to talking to other women, so unsure of how to take it to that "next step" online whereas men are more direct! I like being called a unicorn " Me neither and to be fair I can’t honestly say I’ve ever approached anyone so have no clue what to say | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? Pretend to be a tall and muscular single guy.... I’m way more likely to reply to him " Yeah but you’ll be disappointed when a curvy lingerie clad woman turns up lol | |||
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"I wouldn't recommend calling them unicorns. Except for the ones who refer to themselves as unicorns, or the other ones who don't care either way" The term definitely doesn’t offend me, I quite like it x | |||
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"Good to see this question being asked OP. I personally don't particularly like the term 'unicorn', but I am past the point of finding it a little offensive/off putting now. I just like to be treated respectfully by couples approaching me. An understanding that any meet is for mutual pleasure, not for me to be used as some pawn, or toy in a role play by others, which is often the approach I get in messages. Very disappointing at times, and results in a lot of messages being deleted. I have found a few couples who seem to 'get it right' though thankfully. " I’d agree, I have had some experiences similar to this, it’s lovely when you find the right couple and really connect with Them both x | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? Pretend to be a tall and muscular single guy.... I’m way more likely to reply to him Yeah but you’ll be disappointed when a curvy lingerie clad woman turns up lol " Probably. I’m More into shopping with women. | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? Pretend to be a tall and muscular single guy.... I’m way more likely to reply to him Yeah but you’ll be disappointed when a curvy lingerie clad woman turns up lol Probably. I’m More into shopping with women. " Shopping is ALWAYS fun lol but lockdown is killing all the fun! | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " Try the message function and communication. | |||
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"I've only met MF from here. Still trying for the illusive single bi lady. Each time I think I'm doing well, the lady starts mentioning her boyfriend wants to meet too...... " I’ve not got a bf...... Not got a great deal of interest in women tho. Sorry | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " I'm always happy to get messages from other women. As long as they've taken the time to read my profile and put a little thought in to what they write. "Hey, how are you babe?" will put me off whether it's coming from a man, woman or couple. | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " seance its the only way | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " A nice friendly message. Ideally with a photo, if you are genuinely interested in meeting. Meeting other ladies isn't that easy, most women on here are looking for men. Most of my sexual experiences with women have been at clubs. That said, I have a social to reschedule when meets are safe again. | |||
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"We always starting with a recent face and body pics and just have a nice chat.. If we vide we like to get to know each other better in a safe public place to make sure we all click and fancy each other We always remind the girl that there is no expectation and that she is the driver and we'll take things at her own pace.. Worked out pretty well for us so far x " That sounds like a perfect approach x | |||
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"We always starting with a recent face and body pics and just have a nice chat.. If we vide we like to get to know each other better in a safe public place to make sure we all click and fancy each other We always remind the girl that there is no expectation and that she is the driver and we'll take things at her own pace.. Worked out pretty well for us so far x " That's a great approach. Too often I get faceless messages from women and couples telling me what they want from me or what fantasy they'd like me to fulfill. . Anyone I've met away from clubs have always been due to a polite message with clear pics followed by a video call or no pressure social x | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " Send a picture of your pussy, with a one line message to the effect of "Fancy a suck" On second thoughts, no, don't | |||
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" Send a picture of your pussy, with a one line message to the effect of "Fancy a suck" On second thoughts, no, don't " Yeah don’t think they works for guys either lol | |||
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"I wouldn't recommend calling them unicorns. Didn’t think that was offensive, I’d quite like to be a majestic mythical unicorn. Will take note for future " not everyone minds it :P I like it haha | |||
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"We had our FMF when a single lady saw a picture on our profile that she liked. " Ive had a couple of FMF fun.... but not sure if they were unicorns as only had four legs between them....and the only horn was mine! | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " Just a normal girlie chat. Genuine fems interested in other fems with no male input are rare on here. | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " I’ve always wondered how women meet other women seeing as neither of you will send the first message and whoever received a message will likely ignore/delete. | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? I’ve always wondered how women meet other women seeing as neither of you will send the first message and whoever received a message will likely ignore/delete." Lol I can confirm that women don’t message other women either lol I have a lot of new found respect for guys who get knocked back all the time. | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? I’ve always wondered how women meet other women seeing as neither of you will send the first message and whoever received a message will likely ignore/delete. Lol I can confirm that women don’t message other women either lol I have a lot of new found respect for guys who get knocked back all the time. " I've sent first messages to men AND women x | |||
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"Sprinkle some fairy dust Spin around a few times Then woosh! They appear " Wait. I was informed there was a step that involved chocolate and or skittles | |||
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"I play alone with girls and tend to let single girls approach me. Finding girls that play with girls alone can be too hard work. Prob easier to find a woman from a couple but chances are she will want her dude to watch but frustrating at time how hard it is to get some pussy " Glad it’s not just me. Was starting to get a complex lol | |||
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"Sprinkle some fairy dust Spin around a few times Then woosh! They appear Wait. I was informed there was a step that involved chocolate and or skittles " Where’s the chocolate?? Lol | |||
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"I’ve found it far easier to meet other females in clubs. It tends to be far more an “In the heat of the moment “ thing. On Fab two things tend to happen. You get a good connection with someone but then it tends to drift into a friendship type of messaging and goes off the boil. You start talking about the kids, your other half etc. The second one is again you get a good connection going then they spoil it by asking if you’ll let their partner watch/join in. Kills it stone dead for me. I find it much easier to flirt in person, hence preferring club shenanigans Miss V x" This was exactly my point “ they want to explore there bi side but only if their dude gets to watch ‘ Too much like hard work on here. Clubs are the way forth or should I say was. That being said I did meet my GF in the chat rooms | |||
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"I’ve found it far easier to meet other females in clubs. It tends to be far more an “In the heat of the moment “ thing. On Fab two things tend to happen. You get a good connection with someone but then it tends to drift into a friendship type of messaging and goes off the boil. You start talking about the kids, your other half etc. The second one is again you get a good connection going then they spoil it by asking if you’ll let their partner watch/join in. Kills it stone dead for me. I find it much easier to flirt in person, hence preferring club shenanigans Miss V x This was exactly my point “ they want to explore there bi side but only if their dude gets to watch ‘ Too much like hard work on here. Clubs are the way forth or should I say was. That being said I did meet my GF in the chat rooms " Sometimes I think the dude getting to watch is the compromise. I mean if my dude said he was going to go fuck some guy, I’d want to watch lol maybe take notes | |||
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"Avoid the ones that get in a strop about being called a unicorn - they likely equally have a chip on their shoulder about pretty much everything else and why they a single woman :- It's not about getting into a strop. Some women find the term offensive. I am bisexual. There's nothing mythical about that. It's not a fantasy. I don't have a chip on my shoulder whatever that means and I am single through choice. Your attitude sucks! Other than that have a good profile send a good message with clear intent with what you interested in doing and decent picks that clearly make it obvious you not some single guy living in same fantasy land these unicorns come from! " | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " Hang on wat now ????? Knew it was nonsense That whole status is very misleading I’m sorry ! | |||
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"I can't speak for everybody but the way to approach us is to say hello, be friendly and chatty, and include a face pic. It's worth not ruling out ladies who are part of a couple. There are some whose man doesn't feel the need to impose themselves. Hannah has had sex with a woman on more than one occasion and I (Luke) wasn't involved in any way. In fact, I wasn't even in this country at the time. There's also Skirt Club in London. I don't know if there's anything like that up your way. " Oh brilliant! I’ll look into that. | |||
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"I run all girl parties and find that environment great for meeting new friends and those you want to play with. Obviously not running right now but when things restart there’s maybe 2-3 good ladies only events across the country " That sounds like a fun place to meet people. Thank you. PS love your profile pic. | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? I’ve always wondered how women meet other women seeing as neither of you will send the first message and whoever received a message will likely ignore/delete. Lol I can confirm that women don’t message other women either lol I have a lot of new found respect for guys who get knocked back all the time. " Feel my pain | |||
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"I run all girl parties and find that environment great for meeting new friends and those you want to play with. Obviously not running right now but when things restart there’s maybe 2-3 good ladies only events across the country " I would so be up for that | |||
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"I run all girl parties and find that environment great for meeting new friends and those you want to play with. Obviously not running right now but when things restart there’s maybe 2-3 good ladies only events across the country " I’d be up for this xx | |||
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"I run all girl parties and find that environment great for meeting new friends and those you want to play with. Obviously not running right now but when things restart there’s maybe 2-3 good ladies only events across the country That sounds like a fun place to meet people. Thank you. PS love your profile pic. " Thank you. It was actually taken the morning after a ladies night a few years back. Fond memories | |||
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"I run all girl parties and find that environment great for meeting new friends and those you want to play with. Obviously not running right now but when things restart there’s maybe 2-3 good ladies only events across the country I’d be up for this xx" I’ll post about it as soon as we can restart them x | |||
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"I run all girl parties and find that environment great for meeting new friends and those you want to play with. Obviously not running right now but when things restart there’s maybe 2-3 good ladies only events across the country I would so be up for that " Would be great for you to join us | |||
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"Best of luck when you do reopen, I’ll be on the lookout for something like this on the south coast " Thank you. I’m not aware of any on the south coast. I used to run one in London/Thames valley before I moved up north. There’s the skirt club in London but I didn’t find them to my taste. Tastes vary though! I hear good things about the ladies events at xtasia and townhouse if you want to travel | |||
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"I run all girl parties and find that environment great for meeting new friends and those you want to play with. Obviously not running right now but when things restart there’s maybe 2-3 good ladies only events across the country I’d be up for this xx I’ll post about it as soon as we can restart them x" Bookmarking this x | |||
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"I run all girl parties and find that environment great for meeting new friends and those you want to play with. Obviously not running right now but when things restart there’s maybe 2-3 good ladies only events across the country I’d be up for this xx I’ll post about it as soon as we can restart them x Bookmarking this x" Me too I’d need notice to book hotel but I’d defo travel for a ladies night !! I’m scared I’m nearly straight after lockdown !!! | |||
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"I run all girl parties and find that environment great for meeting new friends and those you want to play with. Obviously not running right now but when things restart there’s maybe 2-3 good ladies only events across the country " | |||
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"I run all girl parties and find that environment great for meeting new friends and those you want to play with. Obviously not running right now but when things restart there’s maybe 2-3 good ladies only events across the country I’d be up for this xx I’ll post about it as soon as we can restart them x Bookmarking this x Me too I’d need notice to book hotel but I’d defo travel for a ladies night !! I’m scared I’m nearly straight after lockdown !!! " The venue I use now means we have stayovers | |||
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"I run all girl parties and find that environment great for meeting new friends and those you want to play with. Obviously not running right now but when things restart there’s maybe 2-3 good ladies only events across the country " Exactly this. I have attended an all female social event. Great way to meet like minded females. | |||
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"I wouldn't recommend calling them unicorns. Didn’t think that was offensive, I’d quite like to be a majestic mythical unicorn. Will take note for future " No offence taken by this unicorn! | |||
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"The single female type Looking for a little girly fun and don’t know where to start. How would you like to be approached by another woman? " Alice LOVES playing with other women! | |||
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"I run all girl parties and find that environment great for meeting new friends and those you want to play with. Obviously not running right now but when things restart there’s maybe 2-3 good ladies only events across the country " Never heard of anyone doing this - I'm certainly interested when it's safe! Sounds fab, I bet they're great X | |||
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"I’ve found it far easier to meet other females in clubs. It tends to be far more an “In the heat of the moment “ thing. On Fab two things tend to happen. You get a good connection with someone but then it tends to drift into a friendship type of messaging and goes off the boil. You start talking about the kids, your other half etc. The second one is again you get a good connection going then they spoil it by asking if you’ll let their partner watch/join in. Kills it stone dead for me. I find it much easier to flirt in person, hence preferring club shenanigans Miss V x This was exactly my point “ they want to explore there bi side but only if their dude gets to watch ‘ Too much like hard work on here. Clubs are the way forth or should I say was. That being said I did meet my GF in the chat rooms Sometimes I think the dude getting to watch is the compromise. I mean if my dude said he was going to go fuck some guy, I’d want to watch lol maybe take notes " My man is perfectly happy to meet another woman on my own - as long as he knows I'm safe! Am debating doing a single fem profile actually (it's a new revelation is this!) Similar to you, he's said if he were to be there, he'd be more interested in seeing what I do to another woman so he can learn even more about me! | |||
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"My man is perfectly happy to meet another woman on my own - as long as he knows I'm safe! Am debating doing a single fem profile actually (it's a new revelation is this!)" I would recommend starting your own profile. Alice did so when she decided to meet women on her own, as people were suspicious it was some kind of ploy to get threesomes (or that I'd be there). | |||
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"Best of luck when you do reopen, I’ll be on the lookout for something like this on the south coast Thank you. I’m not aware of any on the south coast. I used to run one in London/Thames valley before I moved up north. There’s the skirt club in London but I didn’t find them to my taste. Tastes vary though! I hear good things about the ladies events at xtasia and townhouse if you want to travel " I joined SK and found that their events are only ever in London - I don’t have the spare dosh for extravagant nights out! I don’t mind the term of unicorn - it does make me chuckle seeing all the stuff in the shops related to them I’ve met a few lady friends - one through my couples profile & the others from an all-girl party I was lucky to be invited to It helps when you just read a lady’s profile first. I’d like to try Townhouse’s girly night, they’re not often but I’ve heard good things | |||
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