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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been here a long time about 10 years on and off never had a meet I never get many replies or profile views and I know I'm not the only guy on here that gets completely ignored we should be a community and help each other could I get some help and advice to potentially get a meet?

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Yes.

When lockdown and social distancing is over, go to a party, or a club or a social swingers event.

You'll meet loads of people get verified and chances are someone may want to meet you again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Than you for the advice until then would you recommend any changes to my profile at all?

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Change your profile name

Get rid of all drug references

Get rid of all the negativity about never having met anyone

Use punctuation

Learn to drive or move out of your mums house as you need to be able to accom or travel (limited on both is a problem)

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Than you for the advice until then would you recommend any changes to my profile at all?"

Many won't look past the blunt drug related username. Advertising the use of illegal substances, hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your profile name

Get rid of all drug references

Get rid of all the negativity about never having met anyone

Use punctuation

Learn to drive or move out of your mums house as you need to be able to accom or travel (limited on both is a problem)"

Took the words out of our mouths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that your profile is only going to attract a very small percentage of people on here. And while I admire the honesty in your preferences, the niche aspect combined with the limitations of not travelling or accommodating means the odds are stacked for you.

As others have said look at how you can travel rather than actually asking people to pick you up!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

My advice, take the advice.

Too many come on the forums then don’t take the advice given.

It’s no guarantee for success but at least it’s worth a shot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the advice I have made some changes the username the profile I think I'll add abit more saying that the bucket list isn't all I'm looking for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for the advice I have made some changes the username the profile I think I'll add abit more saying that the bucket list isn't all I'm looking for lol "

The username is already a huge improvement

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Maybe remove the 2 dick pics and the one of you with a blunt in your mouth.

A better less grainy selection of pictures will help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Replace those pics with what though? I don't really buy into tech so my camera on my phone isn't the best lol

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford


"Replace those pics with what though? I don't really buy into tech so my camera on my phone isn't the best lol "

Body shots, you in a suit?

Just better photos. Shake it up a bit. Have fun. Get creative.

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By *aks036Man
over a year ago

swindon

I’ve got a similar issue. I struggle with getting profile views and very rarely get replies. Whist we are helping a guy out any chance of some of that falling back onto me and my profile

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By *ungRee4Man
over a year ago

falkirk

For both profiles (esp the former) be careful to not sound like it’s all for your own pleasure. It takes two to tango and really, the other person is only going to get with you so they can get the final do satisfaction they seek - not just to let you fill your boots, spunk and do a bunk.

If you’re selling yourself, sell the experience you offer the other person...not what you’re wanting to get from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got a similar issue. I struggle with getting profile views and very rarely get replies. Whist we are helping a guy out any chance of some of that falling back onto me and my profile "

You have pics of lavatory paper on your profile

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Would suggest that you review your bucket list and think about some of your role play requests.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

I would rather a profile reflects who you are. If you are into drugs no point you meeting someone like me who would just walk out. Big turn off for me, but why be something you are not. If you change you profile to please strangers then they will be disappointed that your profile isnt really you.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Your status puts me off and the bit about r@pe role play.

Don't change it if it truly reflects who you are and what you are looking for. If you do, it's almost like false advertising. There's general advice on mine should you wish to use it. Good luck. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would let them know through messages and I don't have to meet under the influence so to speak

And I could do the same with the rrp i could just say on my profile other items on the list available upon request

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"I would let them know through messages and I don't have to meet under the influence so to speak

And I could do the same with the rrp i could just say on my profile other items on the list available upon request "

That sounds like an ebay listing

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Would suggest that you review your bucket list and think about some of your role play requests."

Agreed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual bucket list - somewhat off putting.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Sexual bucket list - somewhat off putting. "

Have to agree with this, I wouldn't want to be a tick in a box tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Willing to pick you up?

You're 28. There are taxis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bucket list gone although is still referenced that I have one after all we all have kinks and fantasies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know trying not to offend or put people off is difficult while keeping true to you and most importantly honest I don't believe in dishonesty

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