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By *ettnfran OP   Couple
over a year ago

a12 near rivenhall

Have just been messaged by someone who's profile says won't smokers when we replied with a thanks but no thanks as we are both smokers as our profile states they replied that it was a mistake that they actually are a smoker checked their profile again says they are a non smoker pointed this out again to be told what's the big deal well the deal is what else they not being upfront about

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

They obviously need to change that setting.

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By *ettnfran OP   Couple
over a year ago

a12 near rivenhall

That's what we told them only to be told that are the most genuine person on fab and that we are over thinking it

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By *istress Spank and SissyCouple
over a year ago

r

We have loads of people similar say won't meet smokers and when pointed out say that's an error

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

The most annoying thing is when they say no problem with smokers yet they feel the need to say something when u have a cig so they do have a problem with it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get it often. We reply with no thanks you don't meet smokers, half the time they go oh its a mistake... rest of time we get oh we didn't see you were smokers .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the degree of smoking. Id be ok unless they whip out a sherlock holmes pipe and fill the room up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men tend to bullshit to tell you what they think you want to hear which is bollocks.

We get the back tracking crap all the time.

No no I’m not bi that’s a mistake

No no I don’t smoke

Blah blah blah bye bye.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the degree of smoking. Id be ok unless they whip out a sherlock holmes pipe and fill the room up "

For us it is something similar, K hates anything to do with cigarettes and wouldn't want to play with a guy who smoked. A is far more relaxed about smoking (and is an ex-smoker) so doesn't mind playing with a female smoker as long as they aren't actually smoking on a meet but explaining that is a bit much so it's easier for us to just say we don't meet smokers when in reality it's a bit more nuanced than that.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

We’d be thinking if they can’t decide whether they are smokers and whether they meet smokers then it’s gonna be a painful night waiting for them to decide if they want milk in their coffee etc

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By *elleshellsCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

Our profile says we won’t meet smokers, but we would meet people who vape. But do they class themselves as smokers or non smokers?? Xx

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Our profile says we won’t meet smokers, but we would meet people who vape. But do they class themselves as smokers or non smokers?? Xx"

I vape but put I am a non smoker but it says in our profile I vape..

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By *rattylilfucktoyWoman
over a year ago

London

I always find this one a difficult one..

I smoke during the week day only and 2 for the day.

I dont need it during socials/meets.

I dont count myself as a smoker as I go months without and then I dabble again.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Tbh I get this constantly from men saying they just made an error. No idea if they being truthful. But some people don't mind smokers. Personally it's not me. But friends tell me they don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both smoke and have also had messages from people who say wont meet smokers wanting to meet (pre.lockdown or after lockdown) think some people see someones photos and think they can accept the smoke smell..for that person..we politely remind them.we do smoke....then its their choice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to do with smoking specifically, but I get this a lot with my public hair. I clearly state in my profile that I have it, only to be messaged by people who specify they will only meet people who don't have hair there.

So I reply to say that we'd be incompatible for that reason and I'm often told "I/we would make an exception for you" or "oh don't worry about that"

I wish people would just say what they mean and mean what they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have just been messaged by someone who's profile says won't smokers when we replied with a thanks but no thanks as we are both smokers as our profile states they replied that it was a mistake that they actually are a smoker checked their profile again says they are a non smoker pointed this out again to be told what's the big deal well the deal is what else they not being upfront about"

Wow.. someone not being upfront about being a smoker or not.. what else could they be hiding?

Bodies under the floorboards I reckon. The horror!!!

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

When you first set up on Fab it is easy to click the wrong boxes. The number of women who are actually men is quite high!

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner


"When you first set up on Fab it is easy to click the wrong boxes. The number of women who are actually men is quite high! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um not a smoker, but have no issues with smokers, most either have a cigarette in my kitchen or outside, not sure how it's a mistake and if so why don't they just change the setting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you first set up on Fab it is easy to click the wrong boxes. The number of women who are actually men is quite high!

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Strange how that happens

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Have just been messaged by someone who's profile says won't smokers when we replied with a thanks but no thanks as we are both smokers as our profile states they replied that it was a mistake that they actually are a smoker checked their profile again says they are a non smoker pointed this out again to be told what's the big deal well the deal is what else they not being upfront about"

Just block them if you don’t like them

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Have just been messaged by someone who's profile says won't smokers when we replied with a thanks but no thanks as we are both smokers as our profile states they replied that it was a mistake that they actually are a smoker checked their profile again says they are a non smoker pointed this out again to be told what's the big deal well the deal is what else they not being upfront about"

Some people will configure their profile to remove barriers, people won't refuse to meet a non-smoker but some will refuse to meet smokers. I've seen people who claim to be non-smokers but have photos that show them with a cigarette... or they mention they're 420 friendly.

Generally though a non-smoker will smell that somebody is a smoker straight away... it would be end of meet for us.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not to do with smoking specifically, but I get this a lot with my public hair. I clearly state in my profile that I have it, only to be messaged by people who specify they will only meet people who don't have hair there.

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Oh, we've had that several times with both men and couples, we've had messages saying they like the look of us and they would love to meet us. Then we message back and then get a reply saying that they actually don't want to meet us as they don't like hairy women.

This wouldn't be a problem but given that K is all natural and it is clearly shown in so many of our public pictures and it's written in our profile description we have no idea what they were thinking of when they first messaged us.

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