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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

can anyone give me any advise on how I can improve my profile?

I have had two social meets since joining which I know is still good going. But as one of the genuinely single and honest men on here it’s getting even harder to not be grouped in with those with other agendas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile sentences start with "I"...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok noted loose the Is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks ok to me with a good selection of non normal pictures so best of luck and keep on keeping on.

T

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes to many ‘I’s’

Good range of photos but you’re still competing with guys who show faces on their profiles, so given the choice they’ll always be more likely to go with the face guy.

Text is much better than ‘fill in later’ etc...but it doesn’t stand out either, due to you not enticing the ladies with your handsome looks, you need to make up for it with your sparkling wit and intelligence.

A profile is organic, so should be up to being changed occasionally or more often if you’re not getting any interest.

I’m quite harsh as I look at loads of profiles, the guys who stand out on here, have really thought outside of the box. Yours I’m afraid doesn’t...currently.

However I do wish you luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the dic pics.

You lookime someone with I tegity and respect, the dick pics destroy that.

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Worth showing your veries. As a single man potential meets may want to check that you are respectful and good at what you are offering!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So i clicked on your pics and you look more fun on them than you do your main. I'm not complimenting your cock but was expecting a proper dad type, not tattoos and a stuff. You can take a better main that that and show the formal stuff a bit later on. I was shocked when i clicked your pics and saw the proper you. Should be other way round on a sex site imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say women are spoilt for choice here so it is hard for men to be noticed. Even the good ones. This isn’t a reflection on how good peoples profiles are but more down to whether or not you get noticed. In my experience you’ll find the best place to be is the chat rooms. You’ll find yourself being a lot more noticed on there. This is a community in a sense and you have to be engaged. Good luck though and don’t think this is adultwork for freebies would be my other bit of advice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on this for nearly 10 years in total never had a meet and I get very little to replies and profile views I suffer with depression and the constant ignorance is really soul destroying please help

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish


"I have been on this for nearly 10 years in total never had a meet and I get very little to replies and profile views I suffer with depression and the constant ignorance is really soul destroying please help "

I'd reply to this if you started your own thread!

As to OP--I like pics with smiles! Maybe include one of those along with your otherwise great varied selection of pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone

I have changed the narrative in my profile let me know what you think and I will change the pictures after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems grand to me..

The right profile attracts the right person.

Your woman is out there..

Sometimes it's not you that needs to change.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

It looks ok to us...you sound fun & have humour that works for us...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for the feedback, profile updated

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Thank you everyone for the feedback, profile updated "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a good looking guy and read your profile, it's lengthy like mine but I thought it was very well written. Not to blow my own trumpet but I've been a little bit more successful and only been on just over a year including my previous profile, maybe it's because I got some veris by visiting a club or maybe it's because I really take notice of a profile and message accordingly. Would recommend a club visit though when they reopen.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I have been on this for nearly 10 years in total never had a meet and I get very little to replies and profile views I suffer with depression and the constant ignorance is really soul destroying please help "

Joined 4 mths ago. Maybe this isn't the site for you if you are feeling this way? Or perhaps try the more social side of things eg forums and cam rooms to get to know people on here. There's a lot more to fab than just meets.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I liked your profile OP. Good pics and bio. Good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone let’s see how this goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mixed reviews to the new profile any more suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have updated my profile, can I have your feedback please?

I have tried to keep it fun and note crude

Thanks

Andrew

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I think it's a decent profile, good mix of pics and the bio, although quite long, gives a good idea of who you are.

I do appreciate a man in a kilt.

Good luck OP.

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

It was a friends wedding and I was upskirted by several women that night

It felt like a bell ringers rope

Thanks for the feed back it is so tricky being a male on here

I’d love to replace it in big shouty letters

I’m genuine , I’m not married.

Forget all the other time wasters take the leap of faith

In the end it does end up a bit like roll up roll up read all about it !!!

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