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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always wondered, what works best for you, or what to avoid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually ask them to show me their knickers. Never fails.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha ?? well fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear "sex now" is particularly effective

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall


"Always wondered, what works best for you, or what to avoid? "

Before messaging a profile best to read it through. so annoying receiving messages from not what we're looking for... Nik

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i guess you get that a lot ahahah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, ALWAYS read the profile. You’ve no idea how many people don’t bother. And if they’re not putting effort there, the sex would be crap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah i picked up on that one, not sure why anyone wouldn’t anyway! Surely a good way to make an impression

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha! Of course

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By *izzie and VictorCouple
over a year ago

worcestershire

Copy and paste the same message to the same profile every week or whenever they are online...

Definitely gonna grab their attention.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Try saying. I like your wallpaper

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By *D125Man
over a year ago

Letterkenny

''Can I suck you now & meet for a quick fuck'' is also tantalising, who could refuse??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a fuck?

Does the carpet match the curtain

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Can I bite you on the bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the profile...if it appears to click with your requirements then simply tell them a bit about yourselves and what you are looking for. Highlight the similaritiesans ask if they would wish to continue the correspodance with a view to eventually meeting. Write as an adult to another adult.

Hi? X ? Hows you? Mmm ? Doesnt really get the same point across and makes you appear a moron. I havent met anyone who has "must meet a moron for sex " at the top of their bucket list.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

First time is about not fucking it up. Don’t be too ambitious. Get a nice big thick towel down on the floor and a soft cushion for her head. Make sure the room is warm, lights dimmed and relaxing music on. Undress her to her underwear, lie her on her front and pop those three eyelets. Don’t get cocky, use both hands just in case it’s super tight, wouldn’t want to embarrass yourself so early. First time just use plain sweet almond with no essential oil added or maybe a tiny bit of Neroli or Ylang Ylang, literally 1 drop. Use a mix of firm and relaxing / gentle on the shoulders and back and ask her how it feels, ask lots of questions, you’ll soon find the sweet spot.

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