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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need some advice or tips please. I have a play mate who is used to rough/painful play on his cock. He told me he was use to being whipped down there. Also hot wax play too. This leaves me feeling well out of my depth. Ive tried a couple of times now to give him a blow job. And its gone soft both times. This kind of play doesnt scare me. But just how do you give oral and keep it hard?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

teeth maybe

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

bite the end off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"bite the end off? "

Haha i chuckled after reading this.

I have tried using my teeth. Also having a firm hold at the base. But both fail after just afew mins.

He is so giving and has me climaxing time and again. I would just like to be able return the pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about squeezing his balls as you give him a blow job?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Cock ring

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Cock ring"

With spikes?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Some guy i met a chams wanted me to chew his cock, how weird was that his wife was stood there telling me to chew harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick your nail up his arse,bit of pain there for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need some advice or tips please. I have a play mate who is used to rough/painful play on his cock. He told me he was use to being whipped down there. Also hot wax play too. This leaves me feeling well out of my depth. Ive tried a couple of times now to give him a blow job. And its gone soft both times. This kind of play doesnt scare me. But just how do you give oral and keep it hard?.

"
if he likes it whip him to bits lol

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By *ursevampsWoman
over a year ago

bucks

try to tease him then ok this one my favourites lol ice cube or a mint and give him a blow job then have a hot drink and again a blow job the intense heat cold will go between pleasure and pain and not actually cause any pain

x

i had a fb years ago had same problem and this worked a treat only problem he wants to keep coming back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick a nice tall leafy and vicious looking nettle and bring it to the bedroom whilst you wear gloves of course!

Start caressing the evil beauty across his ankles as you stroke his cock gently, contrasting pleasure with pain excellently and the stinging sensation will remain prolonging his bliss!

Run the nasty plant in sweeping strokes across his calves and thighs as you in tandem flicker your tongue across his by now diamond hard prick, then take his engorged head into your mouth.

Finally sink your head down, taking his quivering entire cock into your mouth and throat and simultaneously look him right in the eyes as you press the wicked plant into his balls...

Bang! He'll be filling your throat with cream and will remember you forever

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Pick a nice tall leafy and vicious looking nettle and bring it to the bedroom whilst you wear gloves of course!

Start caressing the evil beauty across his ankles as you stroke his cock gently, contrasting pleasure with pain excellently and the stinging sensation will remain prolonging his bliss!

Run the nasty plant in sweeping strokes across his calves and thighs as you in tandem flicker your tongue across his by now diamond hard prick, then take his engorged head into your mouth.

Finally sink your head down, taking his quivering entire cock into your mouth and throat and simultaneously look him right in the eyes as you press the wicked plant into his balls...

Bang! He'll be filling your throat with cream and will remember you forever "

And if you need some nettles I have a garden full of them, please help yourself....

And if you can get rid of the dandelions at the same time that would be great.

Thank you kindly.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If nettles are too vanilla for him, I have brambles! :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah just don't get nettle rash on yer chin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep a cane handy and when it goes soft, hit it...REALLY hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pick a nice tall leafy and vicious looking nettle and bring it to the bedroom whilst you wear gloves of course!

Start caressing the evil beauty across his ankles as you stroke his cock gently, contrasting pleasure with pain excellently and the stinging sensation will remain prolonging his bliss!

Run the nasty plant in sweeping strokes across his calves and thighs as you in tandem flicker your tongue across his by now diamond hard prick, then take his engorged head into your mouth.

Finally sink your head down, taking his quivering entire cock into your mouth and throat and simultaneously look him right in the eyes as you press the wicked plant into his balls...

Bang! He'll be filling your throat with cream and will remember you forever "

Do you know i have a nasty feeling he would enjoy this. He got stung last year and loved that pain.......

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

has he not given you any tips on how others have done it?

a guy i know like me biting the base of his cock as i take him deep...he also likes me grabbing his cock hard as i run my teeth over the tip of his cock.

he also likes me slapping it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"has he not given you any tips on how others have done it?

a guy i know like me biting the base of his cock as i take him deep...he also likes me grabbing his cock hard as i run my teeth over the tip of his cock.

he also likes me slapping it"

Hes told me to use a firm grip. Bite the head and drag my teeth down the shaft. Ive flicked it with my fingers. All works well until i try to get him to cum. Then it just dies on me. Like someone said above. Think we need to invest in a cock ring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pick a nice tall leafy and vicious looking nettle and bring it to the bedroom whilst you wear gloves of course!

Start caressing the evil beauty across his ankles as you stroke his cock gently, contrasting pleasure with pain excellently and the stinging sensation will remain prolonging his bliss!

Run the nasty plant in sweeping strokes across his calves and thighs as you in tandem flicker your tongue across his by now diamond hard prick, then take his engorged head into your mouth.

Finally sink your head down, taking his quivering entire cock into your mouth and throat and simultaneously look him right in the eyes as you press the wicked plant into his balls...

Bang! He'll be filling your throat with cream and will remember you forever

Do you know i have a nasty feeling he would enjoy this. He got stung last year and loved that pain....... "

I know he will. That's why I suggested it...

A few things to do first though...

Make sure he is restrained first so he knows he can't escape even if he wanted to. And then put the gloves on slowly in front of him. Run one gloved hand very lightly across his scrotum whilst the other picks up his green leafy soon to be tormentor. Hold it up so he can see what he is about to have done to him whilst giving him a rather wolfish grin...After pleasure and pain such as this he will worship you.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

Can I just say ouch!!!!!

Core blimey.

It's not like a nettle sting goes when you remove the leaf.

Each to their own indeed, I think if my wife came in with a nettle I would go very soft, probably wet myself and cry alot.

That would be just from having it on my ankle. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pick a nice tall leafy and vicious looking nettle and bring it to the bedroom whilst you wear gloves of course!

Start caressing the evil beauty across his ankles as you stroke his cock gently, contrasting pleasure with pain excellently and the stinging sensation will remain prolonging his bliss!

Run the nasty plant in sweeping strokes across his calves and thighs as you in tandem flicker your tongue across his by now diamond hard prick, then take his engorged head into your mouth.

Finally sink your head down, taking his quivering entire cock into your mouth and throat and simultaneously look him right in the eyes as you press the wicked plant into his balls...

Bang! He'll be filling your throat with cream and will remember you forever

Do you know i have a nasty feeling he would enjoy this. He got stung last year and loved that pain.......

I know he will. That's why I suggested it...

A few things to do first though...

Make sure he is restrained first so he knows he can't escape even if he wanted to. And then put the gloves on slowly in front of him. Run one gloved hand very lightly across his scrotum whilst the other picks up his green leafy soon to be tormentor. Hold it up so he can see what he is about to have done to him whilst giving him a rather wolfish grin...After pleasure and pain such as this he will worship you."

Your nettle scenario is blopdy brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its bloody brilliant by the way, I haven't got my glasses on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why thank you guys, glasses or no glasses!

A fellow fab user mentioned nettles to me and you know my imagination is quite capable of beavering away...

They are found everywhere as every gardener will testify, they are instantly recognisable by the willing victim (I think practically everyone gets stung in childhood so the mental triggers are strong) and the beauty is they don't need strength to be used efficiently most of the pleasure pain stimulation is received from visual taunting and wielding such a potent living instrument with panache. As with most aspects of sex tying the cerebral in with the physical will produce just what the doctor ordered for the receiver...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stick your thumb up his arse when you suck his togde

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By *utmegsMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think


"And if you can get rid of the dandelions at the same time that would be great."

I'll be right over, the tortoise loves them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if you can get rid of the dandelions at the same time that would be great.

I'll be right over, the tortoise loves them.

"

Any chance I can borrow that tortoise mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I used to meet loved having stockings tied tightly around his testicles and being pulled on whilst fucking or sucking him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never laughed so much before on this site,so so funny!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do guys actually do this for real?

Pissing myself laughing here lol

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

For a bit of gentle foreplay try teasing the shaft of his cock with a garden strimmer. That should get him in the mood for the main event. Then lead him over to the table where he will find you have one of those old fashioned school pencil sharpeners. Jam his cock end onto the pencil slot and crank that handle. He'll fucking love it!

You don't want to appear too adventurous though and rush things, that might shock him. So I would wait a while before you massage his prostate with a soldering iron.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Keep the room cool

Don't rest on his thighs

Dont push his cock towards him

Lubrication and don't hold too close to the base, more just beneath the ridge

Pressure on the spot between his anus and scrotum

If all else fails rollup some fine sandpaper inside a empty kitchen roll stuck his cock in it and demand an erection

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By *keenyMan
over a year ago

harrogate

big butt plug up him

kick him in the balls

slap his cock round

then suck him off

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"For a bit of gentle foreplay try teasing the shaft of his cock with a garden strimmer. That should get him in the mood for the main event. Then lead him over to the table where he will find you have one of those old fashioned school pencil sharpeners. Jam his cock end onto the pencil slot and crank that handle. He'll fucking love it!

You don't want to appear too adventurous though and rush things, that might shock him. So I would wait a while before you massage his prostate with a soldering iron. "

Freezer spray should make him hard

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cut his cock off dip it in jam then stuff it up his arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For a bit of gentle foreplay try teasing the shaft of his cock with a garden strimmer. That should get him in the mood for the main event. Then lead him over to the table where he will find you have one of those old fashioned school pencil sharpeners. Jam his cock end onto the pencil slot and crank that handle. He'll fucking love it!

You don't want to appear too adventurous though and rush things, that might shock him. So I would wait a while before you massage his prostate with a soldering iron. "

Omg..... that had me laughing out loud. The mental image of his face.... x

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"For a bit of gentle foreplay try teasing the shaft of his cock with a garden strimmer. That should get him in the mood for the main event. Then lead him over to the table where he will find you have one of those old fashioned school pencil sharpeners. Jam his cock end onto the pencil slot and crank that handle. He'll fucking love it!

You don't want to appear too adventurous though and rush things, that might shock him. So I would wait a while before you massage his prostate with a soldering iron.

Omg..... that had me laughing out loud. The mental image of his face.... x "

Well now imagine the mental image of his face when he looks down and realises his cock looks like a bunch of fucking celery!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Pick a nice tall leafy and vicious looking nettle and bring it to the bedroom whilst you wear gloves of course!

Start caressing the evil beauty across his ankles as you stroke his cock gently, contrasting pleasure with pain excellently and the stinging sensation will remain prolonging his bliss!

Run the nasty plant in sweeping strokes across his calves and thighs as you in tandem flicker your tongue across his by now diamond hard prick, then take his engorged head into your mouth.

Finally sink your head down, taking his quivering entire cock into your mouth and throat and simultaneously look him right in the eyes as you press the wicked plant into his balls...

Bang! He'll be filling your throat with cream and will remember you forever

Do you know i have a nasty feeling he would enjoy this. He got stung last year and loved that pain.......

I know he will. That's why I suggested it...

A few things to do first though...

Make sure he is restrained first so he knows he can't escape even if he wanted to. And then put the gloves on slowly in front of him. Run one gloved hand very lightly across his scrotum whilst the other picks up his green leafy soon to be tormentor. Hold it up so he can see what he is about to have done to him whilst giving him a rather wolfish grin...After pleasure and pain such as this he will worship you."

Think we have Mr Licks's fantasy here

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

if all else fails, give it a good rubbing down for a couple of hours with cheese greater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bite the end off?

Haha i chuckled after reading this.

I have tried using my teeth. Also having a firm hold at the base. But both fail after just afew mins.

He is so giving and has me climaxing time and again. I would just like to be able return the pleasure. "

Ask yourself this, why is he coming back time and time again to get you to climax!? Because you must obviously be doing something for him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bite the end off?

Haha i chuckled after reading this.

I have tried using my teeth. Also having a firm hold at the base. But both fail after just afew mins.

He is so giving and has me climaxing time and again. I would just like to be able return the pleasure.

Ask yourself this, why is he coming back time and time again to get you to climax!? Because you must obviously be doing something for him! "

Very good point!

OP, ask him what he likes/ wants. Make him wank while he tells you and watch what he does. I think the nettle idea is brilliant too.

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By *awty nannaWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

kin `ell my fb would run a mile if he saw me wielding a nettle, lol.....lovin this thread though !!!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

why wait for a cock ring get an elastic band and nd may get the reaction you want from him if he or his cock doesnt do what you want then a short twang of the band may get the reaction youre wanting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow all this to try and get his cock hard again . I would be more afraid of not being able to use it again . Fucking hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pick a nice tall leafy and vicious looking nettle and bring it to the bedroom whilst you wear gloves of course!

Start caressing the evil beauty across his ankles as you stroke his cock gently, contrasting pleasure with pain excellently and the stinging sensation will remain prolonging his bliss!

Run the nasty plant in sweeping strokes across his calves and thighs as you in tandem flicker your tongue across his by now diamond hard prick, then take his engorged head into your mouth.

Finally sink your head down, taking his quivering entire cock into your mouth and throat and simultaneously look him right in the eyes as you press the wicked plant into his balls...

Bang! He'll be filling your throat with cream and will remember you forever

Do you know i have a nasty feeling he would enjoy this. He got stung last year and loved that pain.......

I know he will. That's why I suggested it...

A few things to do first though...

Make sure he is restrained first so he knows he can't escape even if he wanted to. And then put the gloves on slowly in front of him. Run one gloved hand very lightly across his scrotum whilst the other picks up his green leafy soon to be tormentor. Hold it up so he can see what he is about to have done to him whilst giving him a rather wolfish grin...After pleasure and pain such as this he will worship you.

Think we have Mr Licks's fantasy here "

Oh I have so many fantasies good lady...each different but all equally sinful and delicious....

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By *eon85Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Wow all this to try and get his cock hard again . I would be more afraid of not being able to use it again . Fucking hell "
I can imagine a pencil sharpener scenario here, your gonna try that many suggestions there's gonna be nothing left by the time you figure out what it is he likes

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

smash the bulb on the bedside lamp, switch it on and drag it up and down his cock... see how that 'grabs' him...

Wolf

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Pick a nice tall leafy and vicious looking nettle and bring it to the bedroom whilst you wear gloves of course!

Start caressing the evil beauty across his ankles as you stroke his cock gently, contrasting pleasure with pain excellently and the stinging sensation will remain prolonging his bliss!

Run the nasty plant in sweeping strokes across his calves and thighs as you in tandem flicker your tongue across his by now diamond hard prick, then take his engorged head into your mouth.

Finally sink your head down, taking his quivering entire cock into your mouth and throat and simultaneously look him right in the eyes as you press the wicked plant into his balls...

Bang! He'll be filling your throat with cream and will remember you forever "

Sounds like something you have previously experiencd Mr Lick... ouch, ouch, ouch... lol

Devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do guys actually do this for real?

Pissing myself laughing here lol"

Not just guys .. Masochistic girls adore nettles too and in the right frame of mind it's not ouch but way more yes yes yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do guys actually do this for real?

Pissing myself laughing here lol

Not just guys .. Masochistic girls adore nettles too and in the right frame of mind it's not ouch but way more yes yes yes"

Its true. If you're still doubtful then watch this...

http://video.xnxx.com/video232491/bdsm_girl_tortures_herself_with_stinging_nettles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try urethral sounding. Im sure he will love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just watched that clip and although I don't have a pussy my legs were thoroughly clasped together !

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By *obinhood-maidmarionCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

punch him in the bollax first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try urethral sounding. Im sure he will love it "

Now i do have some sounds already. But have yet to give them a go. As hes unsure at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have to say i have enjoyed reading the replies. So thanks to all above for your advice. I now know i'm going to have fun trying afew things out. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a bit of gentle foreplay try teasing the shaft of his cock with a garden strimmer. That should get him in the mood for the main event. Then lead him over to the table where he will find you have one of those old fashioned school pencil sharpeners. Jam his cock end onto the pencil slot and crank that handle. He'll fucking love it!

You don't want to appear too adventurous though and rush things, that might shock him. So I would wait a while before you massage his prostate with a soldering iron. "

Then, when the soldering iron has calmed him down a bit, set your pasta press to 'medium', insert his cock and turn the handle...... Works for me-eeee .....

PMSL!!!!

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By *pecial bbCouple
over a year ago

london


"I have never laughed so much before on this site,so so funny!!! "

So glad I am not alone pmsl

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