FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie advice

By *adapples1980 OP Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

We are interested in getting into swinging, what would people's advice be. Is it best to start with clubs or smaller parties??

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on a few socials when can

Agree your boundaries upfront and stick to them ( easy to get carried away in the moment )

Visit a few clubs

Communicate communicate communicate with each other

Have fun

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you are both very much on the same page then things could be interesting for you guys.

Work out between you what you want and set yourself some clear rules and boundaries and start off soft and build up to were you are both comfortable.

Attend any socials you can or when reopen just go to a club and be a part of the ambiance but don’t put any pressure on yourselfs.

You should in our very humble opinion approach this adventure for you and no one else as people will put pressure on you to do this or that and to be honest we struggled the first couple of times on fab but the way we approach fab now works very well for us and makes it more enjoyable for my wife.

Good luck

Stay safe