FabSwingers.com forum: Bisexual swinging

By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Can you give us a clue? "

It has to do with meeting people in a club. X

By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We've never arranged to meet a guy in a club but we have taken a guy to a club with us and played with guys we've met there. If you think we can help pm away

By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Some of you couples had replied privately to me and thank you for your input.

If more of you want to give me your insights, I will make this question public. Have you, as a bi MF couple ever found yourselves in a situation where you've gone to a club. And as luck would have it, you came across somebody whom you had rejected because there was no "attraction"...but when you saw the person (or people) up close, you thought to yourselves "hmm he/she/they are not that bad after all"...

If that has ever happened, how did you proceed? Did you just keep it to yourselves out of fear of any awkwardness? Did you get brave and decided to chat to the person and see where things would go?

Or,if it hasn't happened to you yet, how would you--hypothetically--proceed?

And conversely, I also would like to ask you this question: How would you be prepared for the other person to react? Would you expect a "return" rejection or would you like the person to keep an open mind and proceed with you based on the new circumstances of an up-close encounter?

I am asking all this because I am interested in what drives people's psychology if they ever change their minds....

By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Lol we have been to many clubs and experienced many scenarios and close encounters with males, females and couples both straight and bi. Don't ever remember rejecting someone then changing our minds though. There was one couple where the ladies wanted to play alone, leaving the guys outside the room. He claimed he was straight but then dragged me into a room too lol

. Not exactly your scenario. If we changed our minds about someone we'd just dive in and hope for the best, partly driven by a low rejection count and a 'may as well' attitude.