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By *rad_ell12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

Do you guys use search function for this or do you stick to forums and message people from here?

Also, more for the single ladies and couples, what would elicite a response for you, I do try to tailor my messages to the profile, but don't seem to get much luck with that. I get I won't be too everyones taste but I'm intruiged as to what I may be doing wrong when I do send out messages. Granted it's only a few a day if that, and I don't send them out to every profile but would be nice to know if I'm doing something that's generally off putting

Thank you!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Personally speaking, OP, I prefer it if people post a response on the forum rather than messaging me privately. As regards to normal messaging, reading a profile before doing so is always a good idea. If you aren't getting replies, it's probably because the recipient isn't interested. There is a section on this in the Fab FAQ section.

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By *rad_ell12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighouse


"Personally speaking, OP, I prefer it if people post a response on the forum rather than messaging me privately. As regards to normal messaging, reading a profile before doing so is always a good idea. If you aren't getting replies, it's probably because the recipient isn't interested. There is a section on this in the Fab FAQ section. "

Im tending to stick to forum stuff now but just wondered if there was a general thing I may be doing wrong, as I say, I get I'm not going to be to everyoned tastes, which is absolutly fine! But with the amount of replies I get which is near zero, figured it may be something I have in my profile or even something I'm not doing

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Personally speaking, OP, I prefer it if people post a response on the forum rather than messaging me privately. As regards to normal messaging, reading a profile before doing so is always a good idea. If you aren't getting replies, it's probably because the recipient isn't interested. There is a section on this in the Fab FAQ section.

Im tending to stick to forum stuff now but just wondered if there was a general thing I may be doing wrong, as I say, I get I'm not going to be to everyoned tastes, which is absolutly fine! But with the amount of replies I get which is near zero, figured it may be something I have in my profile or even something I'm not doing"

Perhaps if you could post an example of what you are sending maybe we could help more?

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By *rad_ell12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

It is very different for each individual profile I message as I try to make it relevant for that person, but I start with a slight intro of me and then mention something they have in there profile that caught my eye to message them

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