FabSwingers.com forum: What’s wrong with my profile?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve been trying for months on here and haven’t found success is there anything I should change about my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been trying for months on here and haven’t found success is there anything I should change about my profile?"

Too many dick pics, are you really to fuck a 99 year old.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

You’ll be seen as too young for some people but there’s all kinds of people looking for different things on here. We all had to get our first meet somewhere. Don’t lose heart x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been trying for months on here and haven’t found success is there anything I should change about my profile?"

Everything, what there is, most probably

You're username has "Dom Bull" yet you say you can be submissive

Young, many looking for a Dom bull may be looking for an experienced bull but at early 20's you may not fit the bill as one.

I'd start again with a different username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dom" comes with experience. Given your age I'd bet you don't have a clue what it involves. I'd pass you by because of it.

Also dirty fingernails in one of your pictures. Instant turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been trying for months on here and haven’t found success is there anything I should change about my profile?"
you dont really have a profile your username suggests you're a dombull at 23 and your little write up says you can be a sub for the right woman, you need to put effort into the write up show some personality check it to make sure its not ambiguous that coupled with well thought out varied pics should help but your age may be a minor problem but good luck

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

One of your pictures seems to belong to someone else online too

You might want to ask them why they are using your face....m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of your pictures seems to belong to someone else online too

You might want to ask them why they are using your face....m"
tin?

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"One of your pictures seems to belong to someone else online too

You might want to ask them why they are using your face....m"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im sorry but your username puts us right off, at 23 you are not likely to be dom or a bull, its just off putting, anyway, too young for us, but you cant help that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 19/05/20 13:11:01]

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for help I’ll get the name sorted and add a bit more to my about me, cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One of your pictures seems to belong to someone else online too

You might want to ask them why they are using your face....m"

Does anyone know who this might be ?

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Reverse image search the oldest face pic you have.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Straightly straight slough" ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

""Straightly straight slough" ?"

That and the fact that there appear to be two different men on the profile. Also confused by your name and that you also appear to be sub, or I'm assuming perhaps you switch OP? Don't change it if it truly reflects who you are and what you are looking for. If you do, it's almost like false advertising. There's general advice on mine should you wish to use it. Good luck. Xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"One of your pictures seems to belong to someone else online too

You might want to ask them why they are using your face....m

Does anyone know who this might be ? "

Ivan Valigy apparantly. A 39 year old man from Washington DC.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"I’ve been trying for months on here and haven’t found success is there anything I should change about my profile?"

I’d probably start again if I was you. Read all of the advice above. You need a new Fab name, some decent pictures of you, hide the cockshots, and write a profile that explains what you could bring to a meet. At the moment you really don’t have much chance at all I’m afraid. Most women won’t even read a message until they’ve had a look at your profile, and yours is extremely uninspiring, and somewhat lazy.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

You've removed the picture someone else was using.

Was it really you?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You've removed the picture someone else was using.

Was it really you?"

See my above post ^^^

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

"You've removed the picture someone else was using.

Was it really you?

See my above post ^^^"

I know.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You've removed the picture someone else was using.

Was it really you?

See my above post ^^^

I know."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You've removed the picture someone else was using.

Was it really you?"

I have t removed it just changed my profile picture

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

[Removed by poster at 19/05/20 15:03:41]

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You've removed the picture someone else was using.

Was it really you?

I have t removed it just changed my profile picture

Obviously been reported to admin then. If it's broken a pic rule or been rejected for any reason it would say the reason next to the pic in your gallery.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You've removed the picture someone else was using.

Was it really you?

I have t removed it just changed my profile picture

Obviously been reported to admin then. If it's broken a pic rule or been rejected for any reason it would say the reason next to the pic in your gallery. "

Yeah I just checked it was removed for not being me for some reason ? Don’t know why if I was using a fake photo I would use a better one hahaha

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You've removed the picture someone else was using.

Was it really you?

I have t removed it just changed my profile picture

Obviously been reported to admin then. If it's broken a pic rule or been rejected for any reason it would say the reason next to the pic in your gallery.

Yeah I just checked it was removed for not being me for some reason ? Don’t know why if I was using a fake photo I would use a better one hahaha "

Are you Ivan Valigy, a 39 year old man from Washington DC? If not, then it's clearly no you, is it lol?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You've removed the picture someone else was using.

Was it really you?

I have t removed it just changed my profile picture

Obviously been reported to admin then. If it's broken a pic rule or been rejected for any reason it would say the reason next to the pic in your gallery.

Yeah I just checked it was removed for not being me for some reason ? Don’t know why if I was using a fake photo I would use a better one hahaha

Are you Ivan Valigy, a 39 year old man from Washington DC? If not, then it's clearly no you, is it lol?!

Does that photo look like a 39 year old man ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You've removed the picture someone else was using.

Was it really you?

I have t removed it just changed my profile picture

Obviously been reported to admin then. If it's broken a pic rule or been rejected for any reason it would say the reason next to the pic in your gallery.

Yeah I just checked it was removed for not being me for some reason ? Don’t know why if I was using a fake photo I would use a better one hahaha

Are you Ivan Valigy, a 39 year old man from Washington DC? If not, then it's clearly no you, is it lol?!

Does that photo look like a 39 year old man ?"

Was obviously taken when he was younger. It's irrelevant as it's clearly not you. If he's on fab and using that pic, then it's him lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You've removed the picture someone else was using.

Was it really you?

I have t removed it just changed my profile picture

Obviously been reported to admin then. If it's broken a pic rule or been rejected for any reason it would say the reason next to the pic in your gallery.

Yeah I just checked it was removed for not being me for some reason ? Don’t know why if I was using a fake photo I would use a better one hahaha

Are you Ivan Valigy, a 39 year old man from Washington DC? If not, then it's clearly no you, is it lol?!

Does that photo look like a 39 year old man ?

Was obviously taken when he was younger. It's irrelevant as it's clearly not you. If he's on fab and using that pic, then it's him lol. "

I just searched him up on Twitter he is a black man so that is not even possible

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

It’s hard for a single man on here as there are a lot of dick heads that’s just send dick pic and are not respectful

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"You've removed the picture someone else was using.

Was it really you?

I have t removed it just changed my profile picture

Obviously been reported to admin then. If it's broken a pic rule or been rejected for any reason it would say the reason next to the pic in your gallery.

Yeah I just checked it was removed for not being me for some reason ? Don’t know why if I was using a fake photo I would use a better one hahaha

Are you Ivan Valigy, a 39 year old man from Washington DC? If not, then it's clearly no you, is it lol?!

Does that photo look like a 39 year old man ?

Was obviously taken when he was younger. It's irrelevant as it's clearly not you. If he's on fab and using that pic, then it's him lol.

I just searched him up on Twitter he is a black man so that is not even possible "

There's lots by that name but that picture was the one I quoted. Google reverse image search. Try it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It’s hard for a single man on here as there are a lot of dick heads that’s just send dick pic and are not respectful "

Hard for us ladies with so many fake pics around too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s hard for a single man on here as there are a lot of dick heads that’s just send dick pic and are not respectful "

Aye that’s true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s hard for a single man on here as there are a lot of dick heads that’s just send dick pic and are not respectful

Hard for us ladies with so many fake pics around too. "

It’s so funny because it’s not a fake picture hahahah

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It’s hard for a single man on here as there are a lot of dick heads that’s just send dick pic and are not respectful

Hard for us ladies with so many fake pics around too.

It’s so funny because it’s not a fake picture hahahah"
Not to the real owner, no. You aren't doing yourself any favours on this thread OP. I would suggest you leave it there and wait for it to disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s hard for a single man on here as there are a lot of dick heads that’s just send dick pic and are not respectful "

But surely that would make it easier for you? Having the right approach amongst a sea of dickheads would make you stand out...

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Too young.

User name is comical.

One of 1000. Other sites would be better for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too young.

User name is comical.

One of 1000. Other sites would be better for you."

Yeah I’m gonna just change it back to my original name which was just JasonR28

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s hard for a single man on here as there are a lot of dick heads that’s just send dick pic and are not respectful

But surely that would make it easier for you? Having the right approach amongst a sea of dickheads would make you stand out..."

I have tried to do that i would never send an unsolicited dick pic as it’s just weird and rude but still not much is happening

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You’ll be seen as too young for some people but there’s all kinds of people looking for different things on here. We all had to get our first meet somewhere. Don’t lose heart x"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s hard for a single man on here as there are a lot of dick heads that’s just send dick pic and are not respectful

But surely that would make it easier for you? Having the right approach amongst a sea of dickheads would make you stand out...

I have tried to do that i would never send an unsolicited dick pic as it’s just weird and rude but still not much is happening "

Just not sending a dick pic isn't suddenly going to make your profile and messages amazing. Just means you still have a shit profile/message but without a dick pic attached.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"i would never send an unsolicited dick pic as it’s just weird and rude..... "

It until it was pointed out, your public pics were full of them, which is pretty much the same thing.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

The sad truth for most men on here is that they're unlikely to get anywhere because they actually have very little social skills when it comes to interacting with women who frequent sites like this. Most come across as creepy or neathanderthal.

The secret, such as it is, is to actually engage women as human beings. That means chatting about stuff other than sex and not just seeing them as walking vaginas.

My view, from some 15 years on the scene, is that most guys on the scene can't do that.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

At 23 sadly we say far too young to even be on here (our preference).

You haven't even begun your sexual journey yet so joining a swingers site and using the name Dom Bull is a BIG No No from us.

Sorry OP.

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

"It’s hard for a single man on here as there are a lot of dick heads that’s just send dick pic and are not respectful

Hard for us ladies with so many fake pics around too. "
well I am very real

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

"It’s hard for a single man on here as there are a lot of dick heads that’s just send dick pic and are not respectful

But surely that would make it easier for you? Having the right approach amongst a sea of dickheads would make you stand out..."
not really lol

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

What's wrong with my profile? is the original question.

Bottom line is everything and nothing.

As I've posted countless times on similar threads, your profile is just one tool in the box.

It can be useful but single guy after single guy comes on here with the same question.

They really just don't get it at all.

You could get fucking Shakespeare to write it for you but if you can't interact with people and get yourself out and about you may just as well post it on sexstarvedlazybastarddotcom.

Get this. A profile on here is nothing more than an accessory that is buried among hundreds of thousands of others.

Any guy expecting it to be (on its own) the magic key to a whole new sex life is naive, deluded or both.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Oh! I almost forgot.

The user name is an instant turn off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The sad truth for most men on here is that they're unlikely to get anywhere because they actually have very little social skills when it comes to interacting with women who frequent sites like this. Most come across as creepy or neathanderthal.

The secret, such as it is, is to actually engage women as human beings. That means chatting about stuff other than sex and not just seeing them as walking vaginas.

My view, from some 15 years on the scene, is that most guys on the scene can't do that. "

That’s makes sense thanks for your input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The secret, such as it is, is to actually engage women as human beings. That means chatting about stuff other than sex and not just seeing them as walking vaginas.

My view, from some 15 years on the scene, is that most guys on the scene can't do that. "

This! Can't remember the last time a guy on here actually spoke to me like a real human being.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh! I almost forgot.

The user name is an instant turn off."

Thank you for your input I’m going to try sort the name out

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