FabSwingers.com forum: Big Cock Without the Big Head.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey all my question is directed at women.

The question is, how does a man on this site or indeed at swinger party convey the fact they are well hung without seeming big headed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You leave it as a surprise, be that a good one or a bad one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for this feedback. It is solid advice and what I do in general life.

However on a swinger site I feel conveying this information increases the general interest from women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put some picture on your profile so people can see for themselves. Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No picture we just ignore profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just show by photo what a big knob you have

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the advice, I will upload pic or two.

Any advice on opening messages or verbal approaches on here or a swingers party, in relation to conveying dick size position?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

It isn't all about your dick size. If you can't portray a fun, decent personality in your profile, then your dick size isn't going to get you anything.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

"Thank you for the advice, I will upload pic or two.

Any advice on opening messages or verbal approaches on here or a swingers party, in relation to conveying dick size position?"

Don't. The majority of people are more interested in the person first as opposed to the size of the penis.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Maybe stating that you’re vwe in you’re profile mite come across as a bit big headed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your profile header.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok seems like to loads of conflicting information. I will change my header which could help with the not being headed aspect, however not so with conveying the well hung aspect.

Further to this the concept of being a nice guy with no specific trait to make you stand out from the average joe seems some what like a falacy.

100s of men like this will sign up everyday with no success if we are honest.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"Ok seems like to loads of conflicting information. I will change my header which could help with the not being headed aspect, however not so with conveying the well hung aspect.

Further to this the concept of being a nice guy with no specific trait to make you stand out from the average joe seems some what like a falacy.

100s of men like this will sign up everyday with no success if we are honest. "
100s more like 1000s

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Ok seems like to loads of conflicting information. I will change my header which could help with the not being headed aspect, however not so with conveying the well hung aspect.

Further to this the concept of being a nice guy with no specific trait to make you stand out from the average joe seems some what like a falacy.

100s of men like this will sign up everyday with no success if we are honest. "

Most people don't care about the size of your dick, in fact quite a lot of people will actually see it as a negative thing. If you think being vwe is going to be enough to get results on here then you may be in for disappointment.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"It isn't all about your dick size. If you can't portray a fun, decent personality in your profile, then your dick size isn't going to get you anything."

100% agree

It might be a swingers site but it's not all about your cock.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Maybe stating that you’re vwe in you’re profile mite come across as a bit big headed

Or it might appeal to people looking for VWE men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say put a pic of your cock on the profile and wait to be asked how big it is ?

The ones who are interested in large cocks Will definitely ask you

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"Ok seems like to loads of conflicting information. I will change my header which could help with the not being headed aspect, however not so with conveying the well hung aspect.

Further to this the concept of being a nice guy with no specific trait to make you stand out from the average joe seems some what like a falacy.

100s of men like this will sign up everyday with no success if we are honest. "

So you think those that are successful all have big cocks?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

If guys use;

- Lynx cans

- Sky remotes

- Coke cans

as a way of showing their size, why don't women do the equivalent on what size they are looking for?

PS - OP you name indicates you might be a big boy

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Hey all my question is directed at women.

The question is, how does a man on this site or indeed at swinger party convey the fact they are well hung without seeming big headed? "

Slap it on the bar, but stay away from the buffet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the feedback all,

Anymore to add?

Possibly from someone who actively seeks Well Hung men, how do you like to be approached?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Thank you for the feedback all,

Anymore to add?

Possibly from someone who actively seeks Well Hung men, how do you like to be approached?"

I prefer a well hungish man but, for me, there's no bigger turn off than a man who is obsessed with the size of his!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok seems like to loads of conflicting information. I will change my header which could help with the not being headed aspect, however not so with conveying the well hung aspect.

Further to this the concept of being a nice guy with no specific trait to make you stand out from the average joe seems some what like a falacy.

100s of men like this will sign up everyday with no success if we are honest. "

I think you're thinking too much, just a thought

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Maybe put some picture on your profile so people can see for themselves. Just a thought "

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Thank you for the feedback all,

Anymore to add?

Possibly from someone who actively seeks Well Hung men, how do you like to be approached?"

By someone who's read my profile, understands what I'm seeking and explains why they think they have those qualities.

Oh and a well crafted profile (with pictures) that might excite interest!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Ok seems like to loads of conflicting information. "

Of course there's conflicting information, we're all individuals with different interests and requirements.

One size doesnt fit all (pardon the pun!)

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire

Do a helicopter video and post it up

lol

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By *eivers101Couple
over a year ago

Carlisle

The genuinely well hung tend to think they're average or even below average and the decidedly average at best guys make the biggest deal about being well endowed in my experience. Just put a pic of it on your profile and let people decide for themselves.... If they like the look of it it doesn't matter wither it's 6", 7", 8" or 9+"!!!!! And there is such a thing as"too big" so as stated by previous posters it's really not about what the measuring tape says and much more about the right fit which is always going to feel fabulous

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Waves his willy then leaves

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

To be honest OP, your profile is one of the worst on fab. No pictures, devoid of any info whatsoever. I would be surprised if you got any success at all. From our perspective and it seems from many others, your profile would not garner any interest because of zero info. Sorry buddy!

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We have found that big cocks quite often come with even bigger ego's.

To be fair Mrs H doesn't really like huge ones average or a bit more is her preference.

When we read profiles on here the biggest turn offs are profile names like hugecock bigdick Etc.

It tells us all we need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of want to see it after all this chat lol!

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Thank you for the feedback all,

Anymore to add?

Possibly from someone who actively seeks Well Hung men, how do you like to be approached?

I prefer a well hungish man but, for me, there's no bigger turn off than a man who is obsessed with the size of his!"

Good answer.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"To be honest OP, your profile is one of the worst on fab. No pictures, devoid of any info whatsoever. I would be surprised if you got any success at all. From our perspective and it seems from many others, your profile would not garner any interest because of zero info. Sorry buddy! "

It was your answer that made us look.

Yep, you are right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kind of want to see it after all this chat lol! "

Yeah OP, show us your dick already

General advice "show, don't tell" (goes for both physical and personality traits). A nicely lit, not too cropped picture of your genitals will be enough for women to decide if your erection is the size/shape they prefer. Please consider what has already been said on this thread, that having a big penis is not as potent or advantageous a USP as you seem to believe, esp. when it is the only distinguishing feature. Be a whole person!

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm average an never fib if asked regards size, always pays to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the additional feedback.

For those asking / interested I added a few pics to my profile

In regards to my profile not having much on it, I'm aware that's why I cam seeking advice

Any more feedback, maybe in terms of what I should write about on my profile, or different pictures?

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By *9Viking69Man
over a year ago

Chobham

As has been said previously, your size is irrelevant, if you have a big willy and that’s all you’re focused on then it demonstrates to a woman that you have no “substance”, women don’t want to be treated like a piece of meat, they want to be seduced first and leave your size to their imagination then they will be surprised.

Personally if asked I say I’m bigger than average and quite girthy.

The main problem is trying to get into a conversation with women, you write an intelligent first message with just a face pic (similar to if you were talking to them in a bar). If you’re lucky, they spot your message amongst the 400-500 they’ve received and don’t delete it but save it intending to reply later. However, when they next login, they have received another 400-500 messages and so yours becomes overlooked.

I think it would be better, bearing in mind the single men vastly outnumber the females that females/couples should be the ones that make first contact thereby allowing them space and time to actually browse the criteria they are looking for?

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

There are differing opinions, I’ve been rejected because of user name and cock pics on profile, I’ve had messages for same reason!

That is what makes this a wonderful place, there is something or someone for everyone.

The main thing is not to worry about these and be yourself, providing you’re not the big cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All added pictures are of cock. With a drink can.

Definitely original

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"Thank you for the additional feedback.

For those asking / interested I added a few pics to my profile

In regards to my profile not having much on it, I'm aware that's why I cam seeking advice

Any more feedback, maybe in terms of what I should write about on my profile, or different pictures?"

Your profile needs to reflect your personality.

Currently, it tells me you are, sorry have a big dick. And that is pretty much all I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers for the feedback so far, I have made a few updates to my profile and will continue to do so.

What kind of other photos should I upload?

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

"Cheers for the feedback so far, I have made a few updates to my profile and will continue to do so.

What kind of other photos should I upload? "

Sorry again OP, do you want everyone else to write your profile for you? Read a few other male profiles for information and guidance. You're only on three weeks, give it a chance and with a vastly improved profile things will change. Considering the current situation, it could be a while before anyone meets anyway.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Cheers for the feedback so far, I have made a few updates to my profile and will continue to do so.

What kind of other photos should I upload? "

Anything other than your cock. You're more than just that.....surely

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By *tokeman4str8funMan
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"Hey all my question is directed at women.

The question is, how does a man on this site or indeed at swinger party convey the fact they are well hung without seeming big headed? "

What is deemed as small, medium, big and well endowed nowadays?

7 to 8 inches seems like just right, so I get told, but is this medium or big?

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Don't say anything!

As soon as you get naked it will be obvious!

Just be yourself and use your personality rather than the size of your cock.

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood

It was your answer that made us look.

Yep, you are right.

And with the current profile pic, we wouldn’t even look at the profile text!

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