FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By *amnationsedge OP Man
over a year ago

Ashborne

I don't pretend to be experienced but so far I've had no messages and no replies from people I've tried to message. I don't want to just sit around waiting so I'd like to hear any advice people have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not a bad profile but u do bang on a bit about cock size lol....i promise ya its more important to you than it is us women lol xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

your 22 some might be put off because they have kids your own. also some might like vwe men. on the plus there is lots that do want younger who big. have look at profiles and you will see some that want vwe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile, I'm a sucker for honesty. You seem really nice. I reckon you should be able to find someone, keep looking.

Cool tattoo's, but what are they? Sorry for being a dope, can't see them very well as only on my phone.

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By *amnationsedge OP Man
over a year ago

Ashborne

Its just pointing out one of my positives, in my last relationship it proved more of a problem so I thought it was a chance for it to do something positive.

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By *amnationsedge OP Man
over a year ago

Ashborne

I guess that makes sense but so far age does seem to be one of the biggest problem. If there are women who want younger larger men then I've not found them despite trying.

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By *amnationsedge OP Man
over a year ago

Ashborne

No point in lying since it'd all come apart upon meeting.

As for my tattoo's they're skeletal wings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a single man on here and like the rest of us you just have to be patient and not take it (or yourself) too seriously (there are a hell of a lot of time wasters and fakes).

I'm sure there are plenty of women in here looking 10inches plus - perhaps look for those into cuckolding etc...

In any case good good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough you posted a similar request for help 3 weeks ago when you had only been here for 2 weeks? Whinging on the forums isn't really a good thing to do. Use the forums as a way of getting yourself noticed for the right reason; you come across very mature and articulate so use them to your advantage

As to your messages; do you read the profile first to make sure that you fit all that they are looking for? Women on here get, so they claim, hundreds of messages per day, your job is to make your message stand out from the rest.

And as you were told on your other post, try the Attic also check out the meets and events tabs for any social events going on as they are another good way of getting yourself noticed, like I said above, use the forums to your advantage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't pretend to be experienced but so far I've had no messages and no replies from people I've tried to message. I don't want to just sit around waiting so I'd like to hear any advice people have."

Read your profile - fuck me mate!!!!! TEN inches to play with????? Why has one not been snapped up by a porn producer????? And that is NOT a flippant remark!!!!

Like others have said, B+ for honesty but personally I wouldn't start with the line 'I don't know what I am looking for in a woman'..... Doesn't come across as particularly decisive.....

As for why you haven't had any replies - as a single guy (and so am I) we outnumber single girls on here (and any other swingers site) by 100:1 or more. So you have GOT to have patience and put the work in to find meets, and it goes without saying YOU have to be proactive - massively proactive.

On the plus side - you are young, not bad looking (but I am a straight guy so what would I know???? lol!) and you WRITE WELL - which is a BIG plus point for girls - guys keep on missing this point and wonder why they are still wanking six months after joining FS!!!

Good start mate, but keep at it and have a bit of patience. It'll come right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're a single man on here and like the rest of us you just have to be patient and not take it (or yourself) too seriously (there are a hell of a lot of time wasters and fakes).

I'm sure there are plenty of women in here looking 10inches plus - perhaps look for those into cuckolding etc...

In any case good good luck "

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By *amnationsedge OP Man
over a year ago

Ashborne

The last one was an effort to introduce myself but decended into a little, this is a proper ask for advice since I'm not an idiot and know I've alot to learn. I always read profiles and only message if I reach the standards and intrests.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

stop guessing and be certain! If you're only looking for women who are a similar age to you then don't worry about offending and say it. It may mean you have to work harder to get a meet, but it will mean you only get meets you want. Women usually do the choosing on here as we're in the minority so you need to start applying some of the advice you've been getting or we will all believe this is a look at me thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe go for women in your age range at first just to get some veries and then you might find it easier

You need to make your messages seem more interested btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"stop guessing and be certain! If you're only looking for women who are a similar age to you then don't worry about offending and say it. It may mean you have to work harder to get a meet, but it will mean you only get meets you want. Women usually do the choosing on here as we're in the minority so you need to start applying some of the advice you've been getting or we will all believe this is a look at me thread..."

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"I guess I'm more intrested in women around my own age but I'm not too hard to convince"

This line put me off to be honest. If you are interested in women your own age, that is fine, just don't expect any woman to try to convince you of anything. In general, we have way to many messages to deal with, rather then just trying to convince you, however easy it may be.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Looking at your Profile, there are mixed messages coming through.

Paragraph #1; whilst trying to get your message across and being honmest, it does tend to sound as if you are dithering! That uncertainty could well be viewed in a negative manner by some.

Paragraph #2 is more on the mark; you state what you want. Have your profile made more like this section, sound positive and that should help you loads.

It comes down to selling yourself; make it sound good without any negativity, however small.

As I have said before to other single guys on here, this is not an "Instant Fix" site. Patience and perseverance are the order of the day.

Get yourself into the Forum pages and look at attending any clubs in your area.

It does get better. Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might want to count up how many guys profiles on here say they have a massive cock and "have been told" their a good fanny licker, then you might have a good idea why your not getting much response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep trying, believe me you have to mail lots to get even a no out of most here.

But it all depends how you come across in you mail to them.

Just be patient and when you get verified more will come.

good luck

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By *amnationsedge OP Man
over a year ago

Ashborne

Well considering a broad amount are probably lying. Alot of guys probably are as big as they claim to be but I know that being big means you need to put even more effort in. If a guy claims he's big and thats all he needs then he's clearly lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well considering a broad amount are probably lying. Alot of guys probably are as big as they claim to be but I know that being big means you need to put even more effort in. If a guy claims he's big and thats all he needs then he's clearly lying."

yeah but what I'm getting at is that your profile reads just like thousands of other guys profiles, hence why you may not be getting much response.

You may need to think hard on how you can make yours stand out from the crown somewhat, then you may get more interest.

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