FabSwingers.com forum: Is fab not for young people?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t seem to be getting much attention to my profile - wether it’s cause I’m to young or just that it doesn’t sound out?

Any suggestions

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Its for all ages. Just write to the right people. Don't assume just because they on fab, they screw everyone who writes to them.. As advice to you if you're interested, plus your main profile photo looks like fb account so I be less inclined to check your profile out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahh okayy, well how do I make it look less like fb?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree that theres not as large an audience on here for younger ages but having said that it cam be overcome by tailoring your profile to those who r interested in our age group

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Hi Op welcome to the forums

Fab is for anyone over the age of 18 but the reality is too young or too old, do struggle on here. For guys I’d say 25-45 and women well any age to be honest is the perfect age for meets. There’s not many women under the age of 30 who want to meet guys around their age group on a swingers site. Due to that the women on here tend to be older, that means they’ll have sons your age, see the problem ?

If you were a young woman, the complaint you’d have is why don’t guys read my profile and too many messages, as a younger guy, you’re just in with the rest of the single guys on here.

A good profile does help, decent pictures and an amusing write up but you’ve not asked to critique your profile so I won’t tell you were I think you’re going wrong or how you can possibly improve it.

I’ve been to clubs (not socials but it’s worth a try) and younger guys do ok at times, a couple may take to you or some of the younger crowd are in attendance, so that’s another possibility.

To answer your question basically, yes it is for younger people, but more heavily in favour for the women over the men.

Good luck Op

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By *ral_isthenewblackMan
over a year ago

london

Bro no surprise no one is checking yr profile.. as a profile pic u got one with u on a skiing trip and a full covered helmet... now the first thing people see on a profile is the profile pic. U must put a pic to draw attention.. something sexy or much more appealing..like the lady said yr profile pic is more like a face book kinda thing and if i was a woman and i see that i will just flip pass.. u should also try and put more public photos.. u got none and the only public kinda pic u got is one on a skying trip wit a big helmet. No chance mate.. now i am not saying put face pics on if u prefer privacy but take some more seductive pics... not dick pics but some wit your chest, maybe arms etc... some thing sensual. Also when this lockdown is over do attend parties and get verified.. most people will take verified guys more serious.. so many fakes here so truth is there is nothing in yr profile to say u are real.. so u need to make yr profile speak. Good luck n hope my little input helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers mate

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There's an age range in which people get the most attention which I think is about 38 to 45. Outside of that you'll need to work a bit harder.

Your profile looks OK to me. Some people take great exception to the word professional for reasons o can't fathom so you might want to remove that.

Good luck

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

"I don’t seem to be getting much attention to my profile - wether it’s cause I’m to young or just that it doesn’t sound out?

Any suggestions "

I you want to get laid try a dating site, you're a fish in a giant ocean. Women swingers don't bang every offer they get, single guys think the opposite and that is their downfall... Nik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re two years younger than me, it is for younger people. 18+.

But you will find there will be patronising folk who think you’re to young to be here and should be on Tinder or in pubs and clubs.

For any man on Fab it’s going to be hard and take a while to get quality meets, but I think for younger men it’ll be even harder as I feel women are far more bothered than age than men are.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

One reason could be you don't accommodate, that puts many off

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm young at heart. Fab is definitely for me

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I don’t seem to be getting much attention to my profile - wether it’s cause I’m to young or just that it doesn’t sound out?

Any suggestions "

Be a young woman. Everyone wants those.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Might I suggest looking here:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/1010807

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Also being on here for 2 weeks is barely a blink, it takes ages to build connections and friends, take your time and don’t rush into anything.

Welcome to the forums..... where nearly all the answers can be found with a quick search, unless your Queen Leviosa - her questions are so random google draws a blank

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge

A username that looks like a wifi password is not a good idea.

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think generally younger guys without amazing bodies don't have much success. Lots of couples and women seem to prefer the middle aged rugged/ toned respectful gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’ll be both. Your profile is very bland and boring.

But I know many successful young men (younger than you OP) who have made a decent effort, and get lots of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also being on here for 2 weeks is barely a blink, it takes ages to build connections and friends, take your time and don’t rush into anything.

Welcome to the forums..... where nearly all the answers can be found with a quick search, unless your Queen Leviosa - her questions are so random google draws a blank

This is true

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Also being on here for 2 weeks is barely a blink, it takes ages to build connections and friends, take your time and don’t rush into anything."

He's been here before. In fact we gave a very detailed reply to him three weeks ago, (see link) and he went UNLOS within two hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t seem to be getting much attention to my profile - wether it’s cause I’m to young or just that it doesn’t sound out?

Any suggestions

Be a young woman. Everyone wants those.

Wish that was true

Oh no wait, it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think generally younger guys without amazing bodies don't have much success. Lots of couples and women seem to prefer the middle aged rugged/ toned respectful gentleman."

I don’t think the body matters since many women on here have stated they like “average” it’s more down to the age and the fact many older women may have sons nearer their age & it may make them feel uncomfortable.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"I think generally younger guys without amazing bodies don't have much success. Lots of couples and women seem to prefer the middle aged rugged/ toned respectful gentleman.

The truth is somewhere in the middle of both your posts. Unfortunately tastes vary from person to person, couple to couple so any generalised opinion will naturally be influenced by your own perspective.

With that in mind we can only speak from our own perspective also, and I fully understand the argument that meeting with people the age of your own children makes some people uncomfortable, and it is one of the most cited reasons on here why people won't meet with younger people. But as always there are exceptions, us for example, and we do meet with younger guys around the age of the OP.

Body types isn't something that we would stipulate one way or another, except that we aren't looking for the extremes. Speaking with friends over the years most of them feel the same as us that obese or too muscular body types are not really what we/they are looking for. Average is more than good enough, but there will always be exceptions.

For us the overriding factor is whether someone is mature enough to handle a conversation, be that in the chatroom, forum, a pub, on Skype or wherever. It is unfortunate for the OP and others like him that too often people associate age and maturity, and assume that a low age means immaturity. There is no way around this sweeping generalisation, so the only thing to do is find the exceptions - They are out there

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I don’t seem to be getting much attention to my profile - wether it’s cause I’m to young or just that it doesn’t sound out?

Any suggestions "

There are some people who are looking for younger folk, but many are looking for experience and maturity. For some you may be younger than their kids... some might find that sexy.

There's such a variety here that there is likely many who's boxes you'll tick.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ive found is that usually after posting a picture tour profile will recieve a lit more views and means you have a better chance of people who are looking for guys our age of finding you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it the opposite..I'm too old for most ladies

Probably because I'm not hung is more like it lol

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Most straight single men whatever their age struggle to get meets or even message replys on here ,it's just how it is , pleased it doesn't affect me

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

"I don’t seem to be getting much attention to my profile - wether it’s cause I’m to young or just that it doesn’t sound out?

Any suggestions "

As a younger man myself (only 3 years older than you) I found it a challenge at first but now not so much. As people have stated, us single guys on here are big fishes in small ponds. When the lockdown is over I’d definitely suggest attending a few socials or parties, go with no expectations, be yourself and just chat. A few face photos also do the trick. There’s definitely women on here who are into younger guys even if they are a dime a dozen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have improved it after you feedback thanks

"It’ll be both. Your profile is very bland and boring.

But I know many successful young men (younger than you OP) who have made a decent effort, and get lots of meets. "

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