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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’d really love to meet couples. Never tried it and they get put off cause I have no experience couples. What advice would you guys give me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d really love to meet couples. Never tried it and they get put off cause I have no experience couples. What advice would you guys give me "

Keep looking. Husband and I have met a few newbies to couples. Commonly nerves get better of them during first meet, but it gets more fun on consecutive ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your kind reply. You are surely a stunning lady x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Yes keep looking. We too met a newbie, not only to couples but was his first meet. Worked out very well.

Good luck

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Go to a club when they open. The fact you can't accommodate will put some off. In a club you're a single guy, whether you can accommodate or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient, kind and respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....and don't give up!!

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest

I would say try a club when they open back up, the other option is to attend a social night, a great way to meet people and show that you are genuinely interesting in swinging not just trying to get a quick fix So to speak xx good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say try a club when they open back up, the other option is to attend a social night, a great way to meet people and show that you are genuinely interesting in swinging not just trying to get a quick fix So to speak xx good luck "

Would agree on visiting a club

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"What advice would you guys give me "

Read their profiles, and accept that couples get a LOT of messages from single guys so there's a LOT of choice and it's hard to make yourself stand out. Be polite, take note of the couple's requirements and most of all, remember you're talking to a couple and not just the lady.

We've met plenty of single guys but have turned down a hundred times more.

Bry (and Charlotte)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I accom sometimes so just need to update it but thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always aim to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your reply. Never been to a club would love to go to one day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your kind reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to meet bi couples but hard to find if your a mature girl like me

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

I'd say if you do get some interest then don't bombard them with messages asking for immediate meets. I realize that sounds really fucking obvious.

However we've had the situation where this guy was sending message after message even as I was trying to reply to the previous ones. Found it very off putting.

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

Be polite and respectful as said don’t push for a meet build up a bit of chat

And remember to chat to both Male n female in couple as If you talk over hubby and ignore his chat it’s going to get you nowhere

Look upon it as asking your best mate to

Borrow his Ferrari

Be confident and you will love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d really love to meet couples. Never tried it and they get put off cause I have no experience couples. What advice would you guys give me "

Firstly when talking to a couple you need to engage with the male half more than the female because if he doesn't like you then nothing is going to happen.

Don't go white knight - biggest turn off ever for a couple

Go to clubs and follow the two above suggestions and chat to couples and things will happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think there is plenty with interest in more mature people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I get and I’ve been in that situation and then they end up getting rude for no reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for this reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your reply

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