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By *indurFunkyBusiness OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Anglia

Evening All,

Are your standards the same on here as they are when looking for a partner? I'm solely referring to physical attraction. Or is a case of body but not face or vice versa...

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Yes, not that it does me much good.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I think mine alot higher as I want someone to fulfill my fantasy and there's a great selection of people to choose from here

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By *indurFunkyBusiness OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Anglia


"I think mine alot higher as I want someone to fulfill my fantasy and there's a great selection of people to choose from here "

That was my thought process but struggling lol!

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By *indurFunkyBusiness OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Yes, not that it does me much good."

Swings both ways!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. There has to be attraction for me.

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

It's a case of neither for me! I tend to go for mind / personality as I can't find many men who I fancy mentally and physically who are local!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I will never be looking for a partner but my standards are high. I would rather go without rather than go with just anybody.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think physical attraction for a meet is more important than for a partner where personality matters far more.

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By *indurFunkyBusiness OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Anglia

Then Ladies I'm joining a convent!! I can't fund anyone recently that I'm attracted to and isn't miles away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm not looking for the same thing in a sex partner that I'm looking for in a life partner.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think physical attraction for a meet is more important than for a partner where personality matters far more. "

I agree with this statement x

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By *unlovers70Couple
over a year ago

Overseas

When we are arranging a meet off of here we tend to be quite choosy however I’ve found (Mrs) that when we go to clubs and start talking to people, I’ve fucked people I perhaps wouldn’t have if arranging the meet, due to us having some banter and a laugh. I say I have to be attracted to someone but have learned this is not only down to looks and have had some great times with people I perhaps wouldn’t have entertained prior to meeting!

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By *anebondWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

For me I'm picker in different ways here than when looking for a partner, but physical is more important here than in the dating world. This is way more physical than dating were there must be a deeper connection.

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London


"When we are arranging a meet off of here we tend to be quite choosy however I’ve found (Mrs) that when we go to clubs and start talking to people, I’ve fucked people I perhaps wouldn’t have if arranging the meet, due to us having some banter and a laugh. I say I have to be attracted to someone but have learned this is not only down to looks and have had some great times with people I perhaps wouldn’t have entertained prior to meeting! "

Very well put!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on situation.

High standards on and off here guard up regardless.. Can't mentally deal with knobheads on any level..

But usually only meet at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever we arrange a meeting on here then yes.

In a club when I am flying then the only thing that matters is your cock.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Different requirements and so varied criteria for matching with people.

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By *indurFunkyBusiness OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Anglia

Thanks everyone- I won't lower my standards on here and if it doesn't happen on here again, it wasn't meant to!

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

We don't expect people to be partner material. We are leaning towards being more discerning with there being some physical attraction.

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By *aracrapshagWoman
over a year ago

private

Humour, warmth and someone that exudes a certain sexual energy can win me over mostly here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no difference on here than in real life, if there isn't an attraction it doesn't happen.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Absolutely no difference on here than in real life, if there isn't an attraction it doesn't happen. "

I'm exactly the same

Hence why I haven't had sex in ages

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By *aracrapshagWoman
over a year ago

private

Knobheads don’t get attention here or in usual life but things like height are less relevant here than in normal life

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

It’s always good if someone gets your eye and if you both get on it’s even more of a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My standard for only having sex with people I really like doesn’t change the only difference is whether I fall in love or not. I just endeavour not to develop that kind of attachment on here. I’m much better at non-attachment these days after an infatuation scare a few years ago.

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

I am quite fussy but my partner isn't and that makes me wonder if we are in the same level as couple. He has very good stamina and when we are meeting couples usually I am finish and he stil going with female for long.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"When we are arranging a meet off of here we tend to be quite choosy however I’ve found (Mrs) that when we go to clubs and start talking to people, I’ve fucked people I perhaps wouldn’t have if arranging the meet, due to us having some banter and a laugh. I say I have to be attracted to someone but have learned this is not only down to looks and have had some great times with people I perhaps wouldn’t have entertained prior to meeting! "

Totally agree with you. On Fab we only really have pics and profile to go by, so tend to be quite specific about what we want. When we meet in Clubs (one day!) we retain our preferences, but now we can use our other senses to decide if we find someone sexy. It doesn’t mean we lower our standards, it just means we actually fancy them as opposed to a facsimile of them

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I always find something missing about a guy on fab.. Whether its distance, great body or cock but unattractive face, great sexy body but dull in personality, nothing much to talk about or just don't share the same kinks. Like I want a reluctant sexy sub guy. Incredibly difficult to find so something has to give... Definitely not a small cock or unattractive face.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

In real life, I usually go for personality, things in common and sexual connection which often doesn't go with initial physical attraction. My last guy was short and with a beard. But everything else about him was sexy and lovely

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

I have to be attracted to someone to sleep with them and also have a good personality I am always down for a giggle

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