FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I seem to be getting a lot men and TVs viewing and messaging. Each to their own but just not my thing, women and couples are just what I prefer.

I'd appreciate some feedback on my profile, am I advertising myself incorrectly? Can anyone offer their wisdom?

Overall, I'm getting around 10 views a day on average but not any messages from women or couples. Or a lot of read no reply after viewing my profile, just wondering if I'm missing anything?

Cheers everyone!

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you considered using your message filters to block them?

This should cut down the messages from those you do not wish to hear from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you considered using your message filters to block them?

This should cut down the messages from those you do not wish to hear from. "

Thanks does that stop winks and fabbing pics too? Just want to filter it all out really. Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it as a compliment maybe??

Your advertising yourself on a website, yet you don’t want people looking at you, seems kinda counter productive.

Alternatively just use the filters, stay safe.

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Maybe they like the beard? Then assume you're a closet Tranny chaser?

Us Trannies are strange folks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take it as a compliment maybe??

Your advertising yourself on a website, yet you don’t want people looking at you, seems kinda counter productive.

Alternatively just use the filters, stay safe. "
This and i'm more than happy if they want to view, wink (this could be a miss-spelling), message or play a game of eye spy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear all men get the offers even if straight as a lot of straight men do meet TVs on here. Just block with your filters and some that do get through just say no thanks or delete the message

Hope it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hear all men get the offers even if straight as a lot of straight men do meet TVs on here. Just block with your filters and some that do get through just say no thanks or delete the message

Hope it helps"

Ps you can’t stop them looking but it’s only windo shopping after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a bum?

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By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

douglas

some of them cant accept being told no to. so block them and move on, don't get worked up about it.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think you have a good profile and pics. Quite clear and a bit of humour x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you have a good profile and pics. Quite clear and a bit of humour x "

Why thank you very much. X

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I find it conflicting that you say "tbh I want this to be private" but all your pics are face pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find it conflicting that you say "tbh I want this to be private" but all your pics are face pics. "

Private from people I know and house share with like them seeing me meeting up with random people in and out my room, but I see where your coming from.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’ve looked at your profile but you wouldn’t know as I look in stealth mode. So do many of the women and couples on here. Just because they don’t show on your views doesn’t mean they’re not viewing you.

Your profile is fine, that’s not the issue. You are one of many on here trying to meet the ‘few’ who have plenty to choose from, bide your time, contribute to the forums and after lockdown maybe get to a social or club.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Your a guy, so your chances of getting a meet are almost none. Its not impossible of course, but is an uphill struggle. You just never know, but it's best to expect nothing to avoid dissapointment.

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By *ucker68Man
over a year ago

East Finchley

It's funny how 100% of the men I get to meet up with on here sat they are 'straight' on their profiles. Funny that!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your a guy, so your chances of getting a meet are almost none. Its not impossible of course, but is an uphill struggle. You just never know, but it's best to expect nothing to avoid dissapointment. "

Glad your glass is half full at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it conflicting that you say "tbh I want this to be private" but all your pics are face pics.

Private from people I know and house share with like them seeing me meeting up with random people in and out my room, but I see where your coming from. "

This. If you're expecting that being on here will turn your room into a revolving door of random pussy that may explain why you're struggling. Many men on here expect to have sex on tap as soon as they join up and it seems to make them forget that we're actually real women that want to be spoken to as such.

My advice to you would be to manage your expectations

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Hi, I seem to be getting a lot men and TVs viewing and messaging. Each to their own but just not my thing, women and couples are just what I prefer.

I'd appreciate some feedback on my profile, am I advertising myself incorrectly? Can anyone offer their wisdom?

Overall, I'm getting around 10 views a day on average but not any messages from women or couples. Or a lot of read no reply after viewing my profile, just wondering if I'm missing anything?

Cheers everyone!

Mike"

TV/TS are a little more proactive in looking as Women a couples keep their profile mostly on private so they don't pop up on the view list because Most single men take that as a invite to message them and couple and women don't want to get into the "Why you look but don't message argument" and to avoid the "your a ugly cunt and not physically appealing to us" response. It something you have to put up with I'm afraid as for the views check your privacy settings and I'm sure you views will go down to 0-2 like the rest of us single. Good luck.

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Hi, I seem to be getting a lot men and TVs viewing and messaging. Each to their own but just not my thing, women and couples are just what I prefer.

I'd appreciate some feedback on my profile, am I advertising myself incorrectly? Can anyone offer their wisdom?

Overall, I'm getting around 10 views a day on average but not any messages from women or couples. Or a lot of read no reply after viewing my profile, just wondering if I'm missing anything?

Cheers everyone!

Mike"

Unwanted attention from a group off individuals you'd rather not have attention from.. hmmmm...

You now know what it's like to be woman on FAB!!!

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